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Yeah, I saw tabloid things where they say Lindsay Lohan is dating Samantha Ronson but then other magazines say they announced they aren't dating. I even read they broke up before and, well, it's confusing. I liked Lindsay Lohan and thought she was a really pretty girl but WOW I didn't think she would be a lesbian, especially with someone like Samantha Ronson who isn't pretty at all. Anyway, just curious if she REALLY is dating the girl or if they're just best friends or something. I've been wondering for awhile so I'm sorry about being darn late and behind on the times! (link)
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According to the media from back months ago...Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson are no longer together. Lindsay Lohan labled herself as "bisexual" Her and Samantha Ronson broke up due to Lindsay wanting to focus more on her career least that is what she tells the media there might be more behind it because from what others say Samantha Ronson was the cause of her bad behavior.
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What can I do?! We have been together for 6 years now, and I still have a really hard time understanding his sexual behavior. First of all, we are in our early 20s, and we usually end up having sex about twice a month. We are in our peak years, and we have sex twice a month! That wouldn't be so weird to me, if I didn't know he had such a huge sexual appetite. By that, I mean, he watches porn ALL THE TIME. He "sneaks" it, but I know he does it (which is no big deal). He has CDs and CDs full of it. Another thing, he is addicted to women, I guess. Strippers - he's ALWAYS going to the strip club. When we're hanging out with our friends, he sometimes sounds like a dirty sex pig with some of his little remarks and comments. This is what's driving me crazy - Why isn't he like that with the one girl he SHOULD be like that with? I am a girl that takes care of her body and I try REALLY hard to stay fit and eat right. I try to look like the women he's told me he found attractive and still be my own woman. I want him to be satisfied with me, of course. Sometimes I feel like his friends are more interested in me than my own man, and honestly, that feels really crappy.
The other night, we were laying in bed, and he thought I was sleeping, because he kept changing the channel to this softcore porn (well, it's the best he could get on the TV!) and trying to be all sneaky about it. I really don't care if he watches porn (and I've made this clear to him before), so I don't know why he felt he had to sneak, but anyway, he kept checking back to that channel. I rolled over and he quickly turned it back. This made me really upset. He has a girl right beside him wearing practically nothing, that would put out in a second (it's true!) and he'd rather sneak watching porn? Softcore to boot?!?! It starts making me feel like there is something wrong with me, and makes me feel like I'm unattractive. I almost feel like I need to go out to the bar just to get reassurance that I'm desirable (no, I know that isn't the right thing to do, and I'm not doing that). I can't figure it out. I haven't put on any weight, I've kept tone and fit, I have nice womanly curve (decent sized boobs, nice hips and butt, slim waist), I style my hair the way he likes, sometimes walk around in barely nothing, and I'm still unappealing?
I am an open-minded girl that loves sex, and my fiancé acts like sex with me is so unimportant. It doesn't feel very good. He knows I'm open to weird kinky things too so it can't be that I refuse "good" sex. I don't know how to go about fixing this. When I've spoken to him about it, he says that I'm just complaining, or "We don't HAVE to have sex all the time!" Well, trust me, we are FAR from all the time. I asked him if there was something I wasn't doing or some way to improve my looks/attractiveness but he says everything is fine between us and I'm just being a cunt at this point. I don't know what his issue is, but it's frustrating the hell out of me. I think he'd rather just jerk off to some crappy porno than have crazy, kinky sex with the love of his life. If that's what he wants then I NEED to KNOW so I can figure some way to cope with this. Does that make ANY sense?
How do I bring this issue up with him without starting a fight? Like I said, it's completely fine if he wants to watch porn or go to a strip club every once in awhile but I feel so unwanted at this point. He knows I'm always horny and ready to go at it but he'd rather not have sex with me. I'm confused and unhappy. I just want things to be normal. What do I do? What am I doing wrong? Please, please help me. (link)
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Here I go again...
Men who are in a committed relationship should not be watching porn 24.7 to the point where the sex life is down the drain and he has forgotten about his loved one. Frankly, I agree with the person below "Why? Are you with him..." If he fights and doesn't want to listen to how you feel well to me that sounds like he not only disrespects your feelings but maybe is more interested in his porn? There is nothing wrong with you sounds like the guy has an obsession and can't seem to admit it. You can try to sit down and talk to him about how you feel..he might take your word for it yet alone your feelings into concideration but if he does the sweet talk "Oh baby I promise I won't do it again" mmmm...Ask yourself twice before believing it. Stand your ground it's YOU or his porn...and if he chooses porn over you then girl you need to move on cause you deserve better than that.
-BahaiMa22
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my boyfriend just recently moved to houston. i live in virginia. we have been dating for 2 years and are both in 10th grade. the thing is, i really want to visit him so badly but my parents wont let me. i want to know if i can buy a plane ticket and secretly go and visit him? can 16 year olds buy plane tickets? also, i want to move out to houston with him when i turn 18. i dont have alot of money though so i dont know if going to an out of state college is part of my options. but maybe if i live with him and his mom it wont be considered out of state? i just want to do whatever i can to be with him. can someone give me any tips of reassurance? i really need help with this (link)
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I don't recommend trying to purchase a plane ticket "secretly" after all you are concidered a minor and if your parents ever "DID" find out you were gone..not only would they be worried sick but they could classify you as a run away. As far as I know you cannot purchase the ticket under the age of 18 because the airport is responsible for carriage therefore you may have to sign a paper. No, You don't need to be 18 to go to an airport but to board a plane with a ticket yes, Technically you need to be an adult or have an adults permission.
BahaiMa22
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A lot of my friends are starting to play this World of Warcraft WOW game. Some of my friends stay on the game all day long. It's like they become absolutely obsessed with WOW. I know games can be really fun but I don't understand how you can spend literally days on one specific game, nonstop. Anybody know what's so fun about it? (link)
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Oh my dang...
Don't even get me started "lol" .. I know a lot of people who love to play WOW exspecially guys. It is fun to them entertaining and a way to forget about things most people who play WOW "least the people I know" start off playing a little bit to the point where they forgot they were on the computer and 24 hours pass by and they forget to eat and take a shower "lmao" not trying to be funny.. but most people don't like admittion WOW can be an addiction. I on the other hand I've no clue what is so amazing about the game so I really couldn't tell ya.
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so my boyfriend and i have been together for about 3 years and we have lived together for a long time now too. so today i came home from work and went on his computer and for some reason started browsing through his internet history. i realized that he had been looking at tons of porn sights and had especially clicked on manyyy pictures of hott girls around my age that they took of themselves. i dont mind if he watches porn or things like that.. i think that is normal all guys do that.. but there were so many pictures of girls my age- not pornos, just pictures of them naked... is this weird? or am i overreacting and this is normal? i dont want to bring it up and make a big deal of it if it is just guys looking at girls.. i dont know. what do you think? (link)
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Every Guy looks at porn, However I believe if the guy is in a commited relationship/Married/Engaged etc. there should be a limit to how much porn he looks at. Try talking to him about it, Tell him how much it bothers you. It could possibly mean something..or it could just be "Hey! I'm bored wanted to take a look at the kinky stuff" I'll be honest with you if a guy is looking at porn 24.7 to the point where your sex life is going from constant monkey buisness to barley any sex at all almost like you were some dried up prune or something..Then clearly he has a problem. No guy should be looking at porn to the point where he forgets about his loved one.
Best Wishes
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So, I'm thinking about some ideas for creating my own social website. I need opinions though based on other websites similar to my idea and was hoping that some people here could help me out so I don't have to sign up for the ones I don't use and become active on ones I no longer use.
Question of the day is:
What do you and don't you like about Facebook?
What can be improved on Facebook? How can Facebook improve that specific flaw (or, alternatively, can it NOT be improved for certain reasons) in your opinion?
Official Facebook users only please!
Thank you so much, Advicenators! :D
{ To answer my question about MySpace, please see:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=566118 } (link)
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Well....
To be honest I like Facebook a lot more than Myspace only because these days Facebook seems to be more popular yet more people seem to be using it. There are certain features on the website that is almost identical to Myspace. I like the fact that you can play games on Facebook..3d games meaning unlike Myspace where you could have an application downloaded but all it is just a tiny screen in the corner with bad animations... Hm..
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i'm 21 weeks pregnant 25 years old and have two other children my husband works for his mother at her resturaunt from 7 in the morning till 4 or 5 at night he dose everything while she walks around doing nothing we live at her home so she pays him 50 to 100 a week because we have to buy all our own things including food , soap , and colthing etc she is an alcholic and throws tantrums regularly yelling and screaming i dont think it's right in front of my children but what can i do ??? my husband's sister is trying to get us to move all the way to las vegas but thats over 600 miles away what to do?? (link)
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If you have the money then maybe it is time to move out, Look for an apartment locally or a house for rent. It is her house and you can't lay out her rules..Therefore there is not much you can do but hang in there.
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well im 19 yrs old and im pregnat im probably like 2 months my boyfriend doesnt want anything to do with me or the baby i talked to his mom and she said she would support me. i kno i could just abort and get ir over with it but im against abortion idk what to do. (link)
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If you can afford to support your child then why not keep it? It is YOUR baby too. The child is innocent and didn't do nothing wrong. If the boyfriend doesn't want the child and you don't either than why not at least give it the life it deserves and put it up for adoption? I think that would be the right thing to do. I don't believe in abortions at all.
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We have to write a short story and I'm really good at English but not making my own stories. But I had thsi really vivid dream and when i think back, I can imagine it like a movie. If I use it, would it be considered cheating? Or should I just think of something else up? I'm not good with due dates when writing a story. (link)
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No, Having a vivid dream or any dream is your imagination despite whether you are asleep or not. Cheating would be exactly what the person said below.
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my husband wants a divorce and i don't he says he still loves me but we have to many problems together.i try calling him all the time and he won't talk to me and when he does he is mean and hateful. should i just play hard to get and maybe he will come back?
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I don't know what the situation is between you and your husband but if he is not happy in the marriage there is not much you can do. You could try to sit down with your husband and talk to him, ask him why he is unhappy and wants a divorce maybe it is possible it could all be fixed. I don't think playing hard to get is going to fix his unhappiness..It will only give him what he wants. If the problem is not fixable and he clearly wants a divorce then it is only fair to him that you sign the papers.
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I've wanted to be a model for quite some time but I've just been really shy to tell people due to having low confidence. (Not to sound full of my self) A lot of people have said I'd make a good model. I have pale skin and high cheek bones. I'm 5'5" but I'm not the skinniest girl and I still have braces (getting them off in about a year). I can take the critisim and all that but I just don't know if I have what it takes.. (link)
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Most of the time to become a model you need to be between 5'8 and 6 foot. I found this paragraph on an exspert modeling page...
Summary: To be an editorial or fashion model, women will need to be between 5-foot-8 and 6 feet tall, while male models will need to be between 6 feet and 6-foot-2. Shorter models with good proportions should consider parts modeling for arms, hands and legs, using insight from the director of a modeling academy.
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Completely random, I know.
I was curious about what the definition of "Hustling" is. I read the definition from many dictionary websites, and I got different definitions.
Like, one said it's a way of getting money; whereas another one said it's an illegal way of getting money.
Is hustling legal or illegal? Or can it be either? Explain.
I am not talking about the hustling dance. I am talking about the other kind of hustling.
Thanks. =]
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Hustling is usually a person that tries to get money from people, Bumming for money. A person who is hustling for money is also referred to as a "hussie" Hustling can be also used as an illegal term..Stealing money from people.
-BahaiMa22
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im 24 years old and have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now. he has beaten me up in the past and even broken my thumb before. i know abuse is a cycle and it has to be broken but i of course thought things might work out and i stayed because i have nowhere else to go either and no one else in my life to help me right now. he knows he has total control because i dont work right now so he controls everything in my whole life. if things dont go his way then he just hits me. i do want to leave but i have no one and no im not going to a shelter and he knows that so he just keeps doing what he wants to. the point is what can i do to get out of this besides going to a shelter. if i leave and go to a shelter then i need to leave my dog behind and i dont even know if he will care for her or not when i leave and like i said i have no one to help me and im starting to think he likes it that way. what should i do?????????... (link)
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Ugh..my heart just breaks hearing these sorts of things.
Girl, You need to leave. Trust me, I am a victim myself of a past abusive relationship and it is not pretty and doesn't become pretty. Men who hit woman have no respect for themselves yet alone there partner. You cannot make this work and he DOES NOT deserve you. You dont' have no family members that could help you? Frankly, I would rather stay at a shelter than take the abuse and I know that might be hard for you to hear but it's the truth. You don't deserve it, You didn't do anything wrong. You need to know you cannot stay in this relationship and you have tried to make it work and it didn't.. Therefore you owe yourself that much to leave. There is this saying.."There is ALWAYS a way out" even if it is staying at a shelter. There is also helplines you can call, If you don't want to go to any shelter.. than maybe look into a womans shelter.
If you continue to stay with him, He will only get worse and you are telling him that it is okay when it is NOT okay at all. Call the police, If you are scared then call when he is not around or go to a friends house, neighbors house and pick up the phone. You need to get out and please don't wait
If you need anymore help Please feel free to IM me
-BahaiMa22
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how can i change my log-in name in this web site? (link)
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Unless you are a paid member you cannot change your user name on Advicenators. If you are a paid member then please go here ..
http://www.advicenators.com/paidaccounts.php
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ok so my bf and i were messing around yesterday and he was hard but he told me that he wasn't about to nut, and i wasn't wet at all, so i got on him for literally like three seconds, and then got back off and his dick felt kind of wet, like he had nutted just a little bit, but he swore that he hadn't at all, because he said he wasn't even close to nutting. he said that it was probably wet because i had gotten wet but, and that it definitely wasn't cum. so my question is, is it possible for that to just have been me getting wet, even though it was only 3 seconds that i was on him? can i get wet in just three seconds? (link)
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Yes it is possible infact very possible.
As far as your boyfriend he might not have ejaculated inside you but it is possible that he could of had precum.
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I heard that TLC was going to add Jon Gosselin's mistress girlfriend (Deanna Hummel) to the Jon and Kate Plus 8 television show! Does anybody know when Deanna Hummel is going to be on the TLC Jon and Kate Plus 8 show? I guess it would make since for Deanna to be on the television show with Jon since they're a couple and she's made such an impact in the lives of Kate and the Gosselin children.
Anyway, anybody have some information about it? (link)
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Here is what has been on the media..and what I've heard.
The Jon and Kate show is being cancelled and no longer will be on air due to Jon and Kate getting a divorced. They followed up on the show as long as they did because they needed the money. Therefore, I doubt Deanna will be on the show as the person said below me it is called "Jon and Kate plus 8"
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My boyfriend and I broke up last week due to another girl who claimed to like him and gave him the impression that if he were to dump me, she would get with him. Turns out, she was never even remotely interested to begin with and I ended up dumped. We went to the movies two days after the break up and he hit on her while she was sitting right next to me. I didn't mind because we decided to remain friends. That same day, she told him she wasn't interested and just wanted to break us up for some strange reason. (idc about her reasons) The next day, he tells me he wants to get back together. Although I'm still crazy about him I couldn't help but think, "What the hell? He can't be serious." It would be pathetic for me to get back with him after what he did to me. I thought his apology was complete bullshit. (mainly because deep down I felt hurt that he did that to me) But turns out, he actually really is sorry. I learned that that same night, he had called his best friend crying saying that he couldn't believe he got tricked by the girl and that he couldn't believe that he had done that to me and treated me so badly. "I can't believe I did that to her." he cried. So yes, he is very sorry and has been feeling like sh*t for days. He wants me to give him another chance. I'm still crazy about him but because I have some self respect and am hurt as hell I can't bring myself to get back together with him. I know he's sorry and am unsure as to whether I'm making the right choice to "drop him like he dropped me." (his bf's advice) I still really like him so my judgement's slightly impared at the moment. Please help me, I'm confused and have no idea what to do....well I have an idea but I need some advice. thanks. (link)
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Like they all said below me the first love is hard and yes, it usually never does work out.
1. If he left you because another girl said that she "liked" him...Well then clearly he isn't the one for you.
2. If you "DID" get back together with him..how do you know he won't do it again not only that but there would be some trust issues.
Honestly, This guy sounds like a jerk, To play with your feelings and then step all over them for another girl and now because she doesn't like him he wants you back? Girl, Don't fall that. I know it's the first boyfriend but you are so much better than that. Follow your instance
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I know A.M. means in the morning and P.M. means in the evening after noon, but what do the abbreviations actually stand for? I've always thought of it was "At Morning" and "Past Morning" but I know that's just a silly childhood thing to help me remember which was which. Anybody know? (link)
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You got it correct that is the actual meaning.
AM - After morning
PM - Past morning
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My mom has always drank some on the weekends to relax from her stressful job. I've lived with this all of my life and there was never a problem. Well, my dad has been gone for about six months now (died in a car wreck) and my mom has started drinking more.
Dad's death was really hard on us but it's hitting mom the worst, I think. She drinks a lot more than she use to. She drinks every night and sometimes (more frequently this past week) passes out in the hallway floor before it's over. She's even missed work a few times because of her hangovers. Since she has started drinking like this I've started waking her up for work and stuff because she's been oversleeping dramatically. I mean, I don't want her to lose her job and I know this is a hard time for her.
Anyway, I am concerned over all of the drinking now. I know alcohol does some nasty liver damage and I don't want my mom to die too. I'm afraid to confront her about it because I don't want that stress to have her drinking even more. What do I do? (link)
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She might very well be an alcholic and if not then she certainly isn't far from being one. If she is passing out on the floor and sleeping in dramatically on top of missing work then clearly she has a serious problem. You could try to get in contact with a family member and ask them too take her to rehab for alcoholism. You also could get in touch with a hotline. The next time she passes out instead of helping her try calling 911 and maybe then they can put her in rehab and possibly help her recover.
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Hi
First of all I only want experts advise no one else
I was with a girl and I fingered her after, I noticed that I had blood from here in my fingers I washed it of with water and soup (I think) and I had a slightly peel skin is there any way I can get HIV or any stds? (link)
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The only positive way to actually find out is to ask her. If all you did was finger her and you washed your hands after really well then nothing to worry about. I'm guessing it could be her period?...Ask her
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