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boyfriend and the internet
so my boyfriend and i have been together for about 3 years and we have lived together for a long time now too. so today i came home from work and went on his computer and for some reason started browsing through his internet history. i realized that he had been looking at tons of porn sights and had especially clicked on manyyy pictures of hott girls around my age that they took of themselves. i dont mind if he watches porn or things like that.. i think that is normal all guys do that.. but there were so many pictures of girls my age- not pornos, just pictures of them naked... is this weird? or am i overreacting and this is normal? i dont want to bring it up and make a big deal of it if it is just guys looking at girls.. i dont know. what do you think?
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if it makes u feel uncomfortable talk to him, be real with him.. i wouldnt like my man looking at naked girls i would be furious. you gotta put a stop to this if its bothering you.
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Guys looking at porn is normal. If he looks at girls around your age, then i think that he finds you attractive and he can't hold his sexual urges, so he looks at porn to fulfill these urges. If it bothers you then talk to him, but remember he won't be too happy you were snooping around on his computer.
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Honestly from my point of view it's normal...
My ex-boyfriend used to have folders on his laptop all full of naked girls, it's nothing and normal.
Don't worry about it but if it's going to make you better then talk to him about it.
Good Luck =]
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Every Guy looks at porn, However I believe if the guy is in a commited relationship/Married/Engaged etc. there should be a limit to how much porn he looks at. Try talking to him about it, Tell him how much it bothers you. It could possibly mean something..or it could just be "Hey! I'm bored wanted to take a look at the kinky stuff" I'll be honest with you if a guy is looking at porn 24.7 to the point where your sex life is going from constant monkey buisness to barley any sex at all almost like you were some dried up prune or something..Then clearly he has a problem. No guy should be looking at porn to the point where he forgets about his loved one.
Best Wishes
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I think you should talk to him about it. Maybe it means nothing, or maybe it means something.
But running scenarios and whatnot through your head instead of just talking to him isn't going to get you anywhere. Relationships need to be based on good communication, so you should be able to talk to him about it. But realize that you DID invade his personal space, which he is entitled to.
--Jack
(17/m)
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