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pregnant and stressed out


Question Posted Wednesday July 8 2009, 5:29 pm

i'm 21 weeks pregnant 25 years old and have two other children my husband works for his mother at her resturaunt from 7 in the morning till 4 or 5 at night he dose everything while she walks around doing nothing we live at her home so she pays him 50 to 100 a week because we have to buy all our own things including food , soap , and colthing etc she is an alcholic and throws tantrums regularly yelling and screaming i dont think it's right in front of my children but what can i do ??? my husband's sister is trying to get us to move all the way to las vegas but thats over 600 miles away what to do??

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lostbutfound answered Friday July 10 2009, 12:15 am:
You definitely need to move. I'm sure if it was just you and your husband it wouldnt be that big of a deal, but you have kids. I would say you should move to Vegas with your husbands sister and once you get enough money get a house of your own.

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Kendra_Berri answered Wednesday July 8 2009, 10:31 pm:
I would move, whatever it takes. Living with a screaming alcoholic is bad for your pregnancy and bad for your children and bad for your marriage.

If your husband can find work in Vegas, it might be a good idea to move there and start over. Even if it is 600 miles away, it would be worth leaving your situation.

See what your sister in law is offering exactly and really consider what you have to gain from leaving and what you have to lose by staying.

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BahaiMa22 answered Wednesday July 8 2009, 10:31 pm:
If you have the money then maybe it is time to move out, Look for an apartment locally or a house for rent. It is her house and you can't lay out her rules..Therefore there is not much you can do but hang in there.

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