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I'm Jack/Jamie.

I'm 28 years old. I graduated from Michigan State University with my Bachelor of Science in Chemistry. GO GREEN! Now I'm a high school chemistry teacher in New York City living with my husband in a small studio apartment we pay way too much money for.

I've been on this site for 14 years as of March 23, 2020.
You may have seen me as CuxMiBeckNow7, but I've since shortened my name.


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--Jack

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okay, this may sound kinda loserish, but this school yeah i made A LOT of new friends, and i became closer with my friends. me and my best friends have plans on fridays every single week, and i talk to my friends basically every day. it was my best school year. ever. now schools out, and i go to sleepaway camp for 2 months on friday. i dont want to stop this good year. im on a roll! i think im going to have a hard time at camp for two months. i cant ask this at camp, so ill ask it now. what can i do to make it feel like theyre with me, and make me less homesick. i dont mean writing letters, or bringing pictures to camp. i dont want to hear "youll get into the fun at camp and you wont be as homesick as you think" cause thats wrong. a little creativity would be helpful. ((no bringing food or electrical items to camp)).

Find people at the camp that remind you of your friends. Trust me, there will be some people who do exactly this. Get to know a lot of people, and just become friends with them. Camp with your new friends will fly by- and you'll be home before you know it. Plus, making friends at camp will help with the homesickness, because everyone gets homesick when they go to camp, even if its just for a little while. Being around people who are also homesick will be relieving.

--Jack
(15/m)

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soo what if your pregnant..can you still have sex?

and if yes..what if you get more sperm next to your already baby thing..what happens?

thanks. i rate high :D

Yes, you still can have sex.
Once you're fertilized and the baby is growing, you can't get pregnant again- and the sperm won't do anything damaging.

--Jack
(15/m)

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Makes me Wonder(Maroon 5) or The Way I live(Baby Boy)? why? haha sorry im being annoying.

Makes Me Wonder. Its a better song, and its not old like someone told you last time.

It came out like last month.

Its new.

--Jack
(15/m)

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alright. i have this friend and i kind of love him. he's the totaly opposite of me and i've done some things he doesn't agree with. most of them, he knows about, a few he doesn't. this kid knows me better than i know myself and by not telling him, i've felt kinda guilty. so. question basically is, should i tell him, have him be disappointed, or just kind of let it go and not worry about it?
thankss.

If you want the relationship to be stronger, its probably a good idea to tell him.
Yes, it may be hard to do, but I think you should.
Before you tell him, just let him know that he may be disappointed, but you wanted him to know because you think you can trust him.

Good luck!
--Jack
(15/m)

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when im talking with my boyfriend sometimes he says hes so ugly. and i think hes adorable so i tell him hes not hes really good looking. then he will say something like "you are the only one who thinks that" and occaisonally he will say "it doesnt matter what anyone but you thinks anyway but im still ugly" is he implying something? i get worried. or is he just really self conscious? i try to tell him hes not but he wont agree.

He probably just wants to hear you say he's "adorable" more often.

Or he's just really self-conscious.

Either way, just keep enforcing that you think he's not ugly. Maybe he'll get the point, and he'll stop.

--Jack
(15/m)

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im 15 female going into 10th. grade.

okay well, i like like 2 different guys. one of htem have been my best friend since well 1st grade "Jeremy". me and Jeremy flirt all the time and he pushes me but he isnt to much of a pervert like other guys...which is weird by the way. but we dont hang out all that much during the summer :(

The other guy "Mike" has been friends with me for 3 years now. he says he wont pressure me into anything but he has once now he's telling me he'll wait to go out with me until im ready.
but when we hangout we are usually hanging on each other...we lay on my porch and talk and he will talk about just about everything and he will try to do stuff like stick his hand up my shirt and other stuff but i just kind of stop him...and we mess around alot. he tells me everything and well vise versa.

ok what do you think i should do?

go out with "Jeremy" or "mike"

You should go out with whoever you feel will make you happier.
I personally think that Jeremy is the better choice. He isn't as much of a pervert. And that's something a lot of girls would kill for in a guy. He's most likely a keeper.

--Jack
(15/m)

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hey, i think you're adorableeee. :]]

Thanks.

Too bad more people think this online than in person =[

--Jack
(15/m)


**EDIT**

Yes, I have a myspace, but I don't I'm giving it out anytime soon.

Sorry =]

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Theres this one song in the movie 'Click' with Adam Sandler that I am trying to find the name of. It plays when he is flashing back to his father. It seems like a sad emotional song. One of the lines is something like 'you've got me wrapped around your fingertips', and I tried googling that but the song did not come up. I also went on movie websites to see the songs on Click's sound track, and the song wasn't even there. Please help me find the name of this.

I believe its "Linger" by the Cranberries.

--Jack
(15/m)

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this guy completely broke my heart. it was one of those stupid nights where he didn't know what he was doing, he says he regrets it. he knows i can't stand guys that don't say how they feel, and i know if i did date him again, he's probably do the same thing, but everytime he calls, i get butterflies, and everytime he i.m.'s me, i smile, i'm completly head over heels. and i don't know what to do.

If you know he's going to do the same thing again, and it hurt you the first time, you shouldn't waste your time. There are other guys out there that won't break your heart.

--Jack
(15/m)

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ok...well I have been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months and I love him very much and he loves me. The only problem is he wants to have sex and I don't know. I am only 17 (will be 18 in December) and he just turned 19.! There is a part of me that wants to but another part of me that doesn't cause I kinda want to wait till marrage and I don't want to take a chance of becoming pregent. I thinks it more the pregent part. What should I do?

If you don't want to have sex with him, you don't have to. You don't have to do anything you don't want to. He can't make you. If you don't want to get pregnant, or not lose your virginity until marriage, its perfectly OK to tell him no.

**Edit**
Just because you wear a condom doesn't mean you won't get pregnant. A little birdie tells me that condoms sometimes rip and get holes in them.
If you want to, you can get on birth control.

--Jack
(15/m)

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So I'm going to get the Paid Advicenators account so that I can change my username.
My name is "Josie," but the username "Josie" is already used... and I deffinantly want it to have my name in it but I don't want numbers or anything like that
So does anybody have any suggestions for how to make a good username with my nameee?
THAAANKKSS!

You could have a nickname of yours.
Other than that, there isn't really a way to make a user name with just your name and not numbers if that name is already chosen.

You could do "Josie[insert favorite number here]"

--Jack
(15/m)

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hey..im going into high school next year as a freshman...and im naturally shy and kinda a know-it-all sometimes...
im worried about friendships and other realtionships being strained....and how i will handle taking all honors classes...can anyone tell me how honors classes compare to regular ones??
if anyone has good advice on handling the freshman year of high school....please tell me!
thanks a bunch in advance...

Hey- I just finished my freshman year. Its, like all people have already said, not as bad as it may appear.
Friendships will be strained. I know- it may sound horrible, but next year, you'll find out who your real friends are. Since you're taking honors classes, I'm assuming you're pretty darn smart. I am the same way. People who you thought were friends last year will start to ask you for answers... more and more. Just know that these people aren't your friends. They are using you. I learned that the hard way.
Just keep your friends as close as you can, and you just have to accept that some will be lost. You will make more friends, really. Some will be freshmen, some will be upperclassmen. Yes, that's right. You will probably make upperclassmen friends, but let them come to you more than you go to them, if that makes sense.
I made upperclassmen friends just by sitting next to them in classes, and now they are some of my better friends.

Honors classes are, obviously, more advanced and a little tougher. I had half of my classes that were advanced [the most I could have]. I had a little bit more work than I expected, and it was harder to keep up my GPA. If you keep your mind set on your assignments and projects, you will be more than fine. If you need help- your teachers will help you. They won't come to you, so you need to come to them. You'll have higher expectations, so you need to work hard and keep those expectations intact.

Seniors, Juniors and Sophomores most likely don't care about you, or "freshy" friends. Some are actually really nice, and will help you out if you ask.

Mostly, just go with the flow and let things happen. If an upperclassman does something to you, don't let it get to you.

Good luck, Freshy!
--Jack
(15/m/Sophomore)

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what was so bad about spiderman 3? i enjoyed it very much. what was crappy about the plot??

Its all how you see it. Don't let other people tell you how to view a movie. If you liked it, then fine. If other people didn't- that's their problem, not yours.

--Jack
(15/m)

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my nose is always clear. whenever i try to blow it nothing comes out. how come whenever i go swimming and after a while i feel like i need to blow it and i blow really hard and a HUGE thing of snot comes out why does this happen?

Sometimes when you're upside down, like when you're swimming, your nose tends to send mucus to the nostrils. I get this a lot, so there's nothing wrong with you.

--Jack
(15/m)

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I really don't know what to do. There is this new school that opened up and has really high scores like the teachers teach better curiculum. My school is like on the bottom list and I barely learned anything. I want to go to the new school, but to leave all my friends and everything behind is just so sad. I know I can see them but just the whole school. And I also really like this guy and I would probably never see him again. Please help!

Friends come and go. And you'll be seeing them, I think you said.

I would go for the new school. If you want to get a good job and be better-suited for the real world, and learn something, its the best place to go.

I say that your education is really important.
Its your choice, but I would go to the new place.
I'm in the same situation. My school district is opening a new school this fall, and I could choose between the new and the old: the old having the majority of my friends, and the new having better educational opportunities.

--Jack
(15/m)

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ok so i was in summer school and this kid i dont even know started talking to me when no one else did and well i mean he seems really cool and all and he's not that cute but not that ugly but he talks to me all the time and like everytime i looked at him today he was either doing something or looking at me do you think he likes me also i was wearing this low cut shirt and him and this really cute kidd kept looking down my shirt it was kinda funny cause everytime they would talk to me they would look at my boobs haha well anywho thats not the point just so you know i'm not the type of girl guys usualy like

I'm going to assume the best in this kid you talk to in summer school. He probably likes you, if he's always talking to you, if he's always looking at you.
Give him a shot, and maybe it could work out between you two.

--Jack
(15/m)

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Okay. I kind of need a quick reply, please...

My best friend went out with a boy (we'll call him Shawn) for 7 months. She was head over heels for him. But then while she was on vacation he called and broke up with her through a VOICE MAIL.

Well, her best friend (we'll call him Mike) was there for her through it all. Now, being a bystander in this, I could tell mike had feelings for her. And recently he asked her out. Mike and Shawn were best friends...and as soon as shawn found out he began calling my friend wanting her back. It's been 4 months since they broke up, and I think he just doesnt want her with Mike...what should she do?

Whatever she does is her choice- not some kid that was so shallow as to break up with her over the phone- Scratch that! Over VOICEMAIL!

If she wants to go out with Mike, she should. She doesn't have to listen to what Shawn says.

--Jack
(15/m)

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when does the harry potter movie and book come out?

The movie comes out July 13th
The book definitely doesn't come out on the 7th anymore. Its the 21st.

[Thanks, guys]

--Jack
(15/m)

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when i wake up my stomach hurts so much

So what's your question?

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oh my goodness- you are so hot. I want some of that!

I ♥ you, Jack!

Thanks...

--Jack
(15/m)

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