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I'm 28 years old. I graduated from Michigan State University with my Bachelor of Science in Chemistry. GO GREEN! Now I'm a high school chemistry teacher in New York City living with my husband in a small studio apartment we pay way too much money for.
I've been on this site for 14 years as of March 23, 2020.
You may have seen me as CuxMiBeckNow7, but I've since shortened my name.
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(Rating: 5) Thank you!(Rating: 5) Thank you, Jack! I'm so glad that someone answered! :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you for caring enough to answer!
(Rating: 5) Thanks a lot!
(Rating: 5) Thank you! :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you!
(Rating: 5) thanks so much!
(Rating: 5) Thanks
(Rating: 5) that makes me feel alot better. good for you. thanks. :)
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(Rating: 5) Thanks! i think i will go for it.
(Rating: 5) Thanks! my sister is also 5'9 but shes been "girly" her whole life! lol
(Rating: 5) ty XD that's pretty much what my doctor said, she said not to worry about it because now I'm also eating a lot more fruit an veggies also going out for runs in the morning an nights =)
(Rating: 5) Thanks but no I havnt. I know I should but its hard to find someone who will really help.
(Rating: 5) Very true. Thank you.
(Rating: 5) thank you! i found out that he was doing this with at least five girls all at the same time and i was the only one who said no because of what you said here!
(Rating: 5) I have asperger's so I don't get subtle things like that at all. Thank you anyway.
(Rating: 5) Thank you! I forgave him and he got someone else pregnant. Just came back to the site to ask another question and saw that I hadn't told you thanks yet!
(Rating: 5) Awesome! You were right I am going to another one this year and I remembered to come back and thank you for your advice!
(Rating: 5) Yeah I know... even after he hurt me I stillll want him back... but don't worry, I'm not going back to him. Haha I promise.
(Rating: 2) my family dont care. believe me. i already told them. well i tried to. 1. there no big realisation between the day your'e still in school and the day you graduate. 2. my school doesnt have a prom. and u might have considerted that im not overly keen on people. 3. see the previous answer 4. once again, people. 5. do i need to repeat it? 6. ditto. 7. i think that by wanting to die, it sort of eliminates that, dont you think? if you want you can send me the whole list. i can spend the rest of my day ticking off all the things i wont be able to do, and get more depressed so i can bite into my wrist again till it bleeds (my blade is too blunt)
(Rating: 5) Thank You for the encouragement! It didn't work out very long, but I learned a lot. It is really hard to have a relationship with somebody who is in a different place in their life.
(Rating: 5) thank you for the new suggestions!
(Rating: 5) thank you, I feel less stupid now! :-)
(Rating: 5) thank you!
(Rating: 5) you were completely right, and this situation changed my entire life. I am just now coming back to this site after all this time and I wanted to thank you!
(Rating: 5) those are great thoughts!
(Rating: 5) thanks,I know your right and I will do it I just find it hard to talk about sometimes.
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(Rating: 5) Thank you! Great tips. :)
(Rating: 5) thank you. Thats why i needed to know too(:
(Rating: 5) I live in Indiana, I go to chicago pretty often. I was at the bean like a week ago. Haha. Just wondering.
(Rating: 5) I have decided to be a 1920's flapper for Halloween, so this would be perfect!
(Rating: 2) YOU SUCK GET OFF DIS WEBSUITE.
(Rating: 5) Thank you for your original ideas. The first person who answered listed things off a website that I had already read.
(Rating: 5) i've lost 5 pounds in 3 days once. but that was a lot of work.
(Rating: 5) thanks.
(Rating: 5) ok thankies, i figured it out x]
(Rating: 5) Thats so rite! I would be lost without advicenators thanks!
(Rating: 4) thanks
(Rating: 5) thankyouu (:
(Rating: 5) You just made my day with that. I laughed so loud Bryan came running to make sure I was ok. I am NOT kidding you.
(Rating: 5) That's a great suggestion! The only bad thing about it is that I know this one kid who wants to go there, and I can't stand him. And if he goes there, I'm leaving the school. But thanks again. You've given me some excellent advice AS OF LATE ;)
(Rating: 5) It's great to get some advice from a guy. And I definetley don't want him to feel pressured. I have already let him know how much I care about him and that I can wait until it feels right for him. Thanks for your feedback.
(Rating: 5) Lol not talking about me in a month ill be 14. I love your advice! most of it is very consederent.
(Rating: 3) Try be more opened minded, its very hard because there are some strange things out there. I respect your opinion thogh thx :]
(Rating: 5) Heheh thanks
(Rating: 5) Ohh. Okay, thanks.
(Rating: 5) I Fix it. Its working now. try again thanks :)
(Rating: 5) Thanks =]
(Rating: 5) hahaa thank youu :]
(Rating: 5) Wow that's perfect! Sounds so easy, and I can personalize it a bit. Thanks a million!!!
(Rating: 5) thanks for answering
(Rating: 5) Thank you
(Rating: 5) thank you sooooo much :] !
(Rating: 5) thank you ! =]
(Rating: 5) thanks:)
(Rating: 5) They're actually just whiteheads but thanks
(Rating: 5) The fliers haven't been doing too good, but I'm making referral cards right now (I'll offer discounts with those, I think). Thanks!
(Rating: 5) Thank you for answering :) xD
(Rating: 5) You know, Jack, the idea of working out when I get back from school to get me energized is a REALLY good idea and I'm surprised I've never thought of that (maybe because I'm so stressed that I just want to get my homework DONE!) I'll definitely try that. I hope it doesn't just make me more exhausted though ;) Thanks. I hope you become valedictorian of your class, too.
(Rating: 5) Thankyou :)
(Rating: 5) oh man lol i guess i should change that lol. i am a female :] and u are a male and ur giving great advice
(Rating: 4) thanks, but i no he Ricky cares about me ive been friends with him since 8th grade and he isnt the one who suggested we should hook up, i was.. but thanks everything else you said was good
(Rating: 5) thanks
(Rating: 4) thanks for the help
(Rating: 5) THANKS !
(Rating: 5) Awesome. Thank you for the help! :D
(Rating: 5) Thanks! :D
(Rating: 5) Thanks for letting me know even if it was a little later than expected! :D I appreciate you taking your time to answer my question!
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(Rating: 5) haha. you were late jack, i already took the advice of the first person who answered my question. (:
(Rating: 5) thanx
(Rating: 5) thank you i was trying to tell my younger sister that, she thinks that's all you need to get a guys attention and i'm like sure but the guy won't care about you too much
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(Rating: 4) Thanks so much! :)
(Rating: 5) thanks!
(Rating: 5) yaa i tried talking with hm about it, and he sees nothing weird about it. guess its just the way his mom brought him up -- clingy, and dependent.
(Rating: 5) Thanks
(Rating: 5) Thank you for being the first answer that wasn't telling me to be that annoying controlling girlfriend
(Rating: 5) thanks
(Rating: 5) Cheers mate.
(Rating: 5) thanks a lot!
(Rating: 5) I actually cannot remember. :/ I'm no longer a moderator, though, unfortunately. =( I've been inactive for too long - trying to get back up there again.
(Rating: 5) Grazie!
(Rating: 5) Thanks!
(Rating: 5) Oh, okay, thank you. :)
(Rating: 5) Okay,thanks a lot!
(Rating: 5) thanks...we do have fun together, he's told other friends that we still have fun together. but i meant was have fun with his other friends; like we don't always have to be together all of the time.
(Rating: 5) Wow!
(Rating: 5) none of them had it, but thanks for trying!
(Rating: 4) Well, I talked it over with my boyfriend and we agreed on the second. I like the length of the second since it will be spanning my shoulders and all, but thank you!
(Rating: 5) Thanks, I've got my period today. Either I was stressed or my cycle has changed :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you babe! That was really helpful!
(Rating: 5) thank yaa
(Rating: 5) thanks..oh and i asked you another question so check your inbox pleasee :)
(Rating: 5) thanks. he gave me a camera, so im going to get an engraved photoalbum and put all of the millions of pictures of us in it lol =]
(Rating: 5) thanks. Yeah it somehow not working with youtube. it like just plain some reason I don't know. I wrote them a feedback. oh I know what you mean by the link. I will try that to. thanks I work on that idea. thanks
(Rating: 5) i think you're the only one who answered the question....
(Rating: 5) thank you. i'll try that and hopefully it will work =)