My name is Amy Bussel and I am 21 years old, my fiance and I have just seperated, because I cuss to much at him. Although this is not the first time that this has happened and every other time he has came home to me this time my hope is very low. I have never done anyhting that would hurt him and have always gone out of my way to make sure that he is happy. He has always came first in my life. When he leaves like this it is usually for a few days and even without a phone call. Can you tell me do you think that he will come back home to me this time??
if he loves you and really cares hun dont worry he'll come back to you..try to call him.. and if you really wanna keep him hun maybe control the cussing and whatever else the reasons might be for him to leave..
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Ugh. I screwed up big time. There's this kid (Joe)..and he's going out with my best friend..at one point and time he liked me and vice versa.. but now i hate him big time and vice versa. but the thing is , is that out of everyone on the bus we rather sit with each other because I guess we're both anti-social in a way. Well we were fighting (physical fighting)..and just kissed, I dont know, we were into the moment i guess..it only lasted about 15 seconds, but still.. i have no idea what I'm going to say to my best friend or even whether or not I should tell her... any ideas?
Hun i think you need to talk to him first and see what exactly that was about..and why does he think it happened.. then decide from there to tell her if you need anymore help leave it in my inbox..or email me..much luv dez x0x0
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well i love my girlfriend with all my heart, she's the sweetest girl ever i would do anything for her, but lately it seems like shes losing interest in me what should i do.. i dont want to lose her because i would be lost.. i just dont know what to do.
Awwww that was too sweet.. um you should talk to her and ask her if she is losing interest in you at all.. jus tell her that if you lost her you would be lost too.. she'll like that.. much luv dez x0x0 *your a sweetie*
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im 23 and have had pretty bad teeth for a while . pretty large gap aand they stick out, apart from that I am really happy with my looks, but it is getting worse and worse as the days go by , not smling etc , should I confront my fear at 23??? what other options do I have?
Go to the dentist and see what you can do.. im sure theres something they can do to make your Smile :) look better.. maybe not perfect but better so you'll be happier with yourself..much luv dez x0x0
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Me and my friends want to see The Ring 2. Well, originally I told my friend Lauren that her, Sarah and I could go. Recently Sarah and I have been hanging out a lot, with another girl, Krystal. I don't know who I want to go with. I would just invite both, but it's not that easy. Lauren is your typical preppy, VERY girly girl. Krystal is more like goth. As much as I hate labels, that's basically the only way to put it. Sometimes I wonder how Lauren and I get along.
Honestly, I'd rather go with Sarah and Krystal. But I just don't know what to say to Lauren, because I think she really wants to go with us. But Sarah and I both kinda get annoyed with her sometimes.
Who should I go with?! Sorry if it's long =(..
Well you already said to lauren she could go you cant jus dump her like that.. maybe the next day or something go with Krystal and sarah to another movie.. much luv dez x0x0 or the same movie if you dont mind seeing it again..
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I'm 15 years old, and 2 months ago, I was involved in a serious car accident. My friends and I were out having fun, the car that I was in had 5 people in it, and I was in the back, there was 3 people in the other car. It was about 11 at night so there wasnt really anyone on the roads so they decided to race. We were going about 80+ side by side on these curvy roads and it was icy because it was after a snow storm. After a couple minutes it started to get really scary and I was just getting really nervous because my parents had no idea where I was, and I kept screaming Slow down. They wouldnt slow down. The next thing I knew I woke up on the ground next to my boyfriend in a lot of pain and crying. I realized that we had gotten in an accident, I laid there trying to wake my boyfriend up. I heard sirens after what seemed to be an hour later, but was really only a couple minutes. I got rushed to the hospital with minor injuries, and after I got taken care of, I got the worst news of my life. The only survivors of the crash, were me and my best friend who was the driver of the other car, and my boyfriend but he was in a coma. I stayed with my boyfriend everyday and just cried and cried, he didnt wake up, he never woke up. His parents decided to just let him go because they wanted him to go peacefully and not have to deal with any pain. It is soo hard dealing with this, I look at pictures of the accident everyday just reliving that whole night, I'm sorry this is long but I was just wondering if anyone has had an experience like this and wondering how you dealt with it..? Please and thank you..
Im sorry hun that is so horrible i got tears in my eyes.. i couldnt imagine losing my boyfriend like that.. but hun i lost a very close friend of mine she got beat to death.. um i had to go to counciling it helped some what but i also had other things going on at the time.. so maybe try to find somebody you can talk to..or write all your feelings down on paper.. i know i didnt help much hun but i tried and i really hope things get better and not worse.. i hope you find something that helps you maybe you didnt from mym advice but i hope you get the advice you are looking for to help you..much luv dez x0x0
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I have this kissing problem. I have this thing where when a guy tries to kiss me, no matter how much I want to kiss him, I always turn away. I used to not be like this. I had this one boyfriend that I made out with all the time. And one boyfriend I only kissed once. And that was a couple years ago. Ever since then I always turn away when a guy tries to kiss me, and I don't understand why. I want to kiss my boyfriend I currently have, but everytime he tries I do the same old thing. I turn away. Does anyone have any ideas on why I keep doing this even though I want to kiss the guy? I've been dating my boyfriend for over 2 months and we still haven't kissed and we are a pretty serious couple. Not one of those I see you at school things. Thanks. Good advice, good rating.
Well i thought it would of been cause you thought he'd judge how you kiss or that you was shy but i dont think its that.. you said it was a couple years ago when you made out last.. maybe its like starting over again... seriously i wouldnt think bout how you might turn away next time and i would jus go and force yourself to kiss him.. Jus go for it girl you want to.. the only thing holdin you back is that you turn a way jus dont let yourself do it and lean in and do it hun..much luv dez x0x0
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Okay my b/f like never calls me and when I dont call him on the weekends *which i do but he is never there* he goes off *not really but yeah* and i really REALLy like him but i dont know what to do
On top of all that in one day all i get is one maybe two *but not likly* hugs and i well want more hugs so yeah
HELP!!
Well since you dont talk to him on the phone you should try to talk to him in person bout how you dont get to talk to him or get hugs or anything..he could be shy but i really dont know..much luv dez x0x0
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What do you do for clammy hands?
Im sure you can probably buy some kinda lotion for it..Jergens is a good lotion..much luv dez x0x0
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating like almost 15 months and we are getting to the more intense sexual side our relationship, but i have something i had never told him. I was raped at a young age and I dont know if he will be able to tell. I always told him i was a virgin. Do you think I that would be concidered lying even though it wasnt consensual? And do you think I should tell him I really need some help.
Well this sounds like you have a real good relationship with him...i mean you have too you been with him for 15 months.. you should be able to tell him that.. go ahead open up to him about it.. and yes it is lying.. cause that does consider you not a virgin but is wasnt consensual so your boyfriend will be the first person it actually met something with.. i know it might not be the easiest thing to tell your boyfriend that you was raped cause i got malested by my dad and almost raped by my old friend Jay while im with my boyfriend so i can imagine that its going to be hard to tell him... jus tell him in person so it will kinda make it more easier cause if he is the kind of guy that will comfort you and hold you then you got it right in front of you.. i hope i helped hun and im very sorry that..thats happen to you..much luv dez x0x0
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how long does it useally take for a tan to fade away?
it really depends on how your skin works cause some my friends get tan for like a month then they are white as hell again.. to keep a tan a while you need to keep up on it and lay out..much luv dez x0x0
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Ok me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now and he wants to have sex and I do too but there is just one problem I have a disease and I don’t know if I should tell him or not because I don’t want him too to think of me different but we are going to use protection and everything just I don’t want to tell him! And I am sooooo scared! I don’t know about what maybe about him knowing my deepest darkest secret, I don’t know! Please help me!
you should tell him.. dont ell him after you have sex with him you need to tell him.. if he really loves you and everything hun he is still going to love you the same and continue too and he would be there for you..much luv dez x0x0
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When is a good time to tell your boyfriend of a year that the relationship is getting too serious and you're not realy for it?
A good time is when you guys are alone.. tell him when you think its okay and you feel comfortable.. tell him how you feel about him to.. dont make it sound like a break up.. jus tell him how you think its getting to serious and how arent ready for it right now..much luv dez x0x0
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i can talk to guys fine in person i just sound so stupid on the phone i need some pointers on how to like start in depht conversations oh im 13 female
just ask him simple questions like What sports you like...? what kinda music you like..? what things do you like to do..? ask him bout past reltionships..? much luv dez x0x0
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Im on my period right now and i am so angry for some reason and i get pissed off so easily right now and i dont know why? and today this girl told me something and i ended up cussing her out and every one thought i was gonna hit her in the face so please tell me how i can be nicer why im pmsing
Spunds like an average mean ass female thing your going through hun.. there is midol for pmsing and im not real sure if it works cause ive never took it.. but maybe catch yourself and really try... i know how you feel i have the same problem and i cant control it either..much luv dez x0x0
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Hi, I'm going to a carnival dance and I'm not sure on what to wear. The weather is in the high forties to low fifties, but the place of the dance is EXTREMELY HOT.
Is this a good outfit:
White tank, black miniskirt, and pink tweed heels
OR .. ANY SUGGESTIONS? AND HAIR SUGGESTIONS? I'll rate high for appropriate answers.
Sounds okay to me.. i would wear my hair up in a messy bun and have some hair hang down in the front..or i would put it in a clip and have some hang down in the front..much luv dez x0x0
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K so I have a friend that is here(where i live) on weekends and I also have another friend that is here 24-7 and of coure there is me! So my friend that lives here all the time is really mean to my other friend! None of us go to the same school so it's also really hard to have a talk with all of us together. We fight A LOT and talk behind eachothers backs! It's HORRIBLE!!! I think befoe we know it none of us will be friends at all! What am I supposed to do to make this friendship work?
You should set a day where they are both at you house and sit down and all of you talk..or maybe try doing it on the phone..much luv dez x0x0
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im not really sure what is happening.. but lately like the last 3 or 4 times my boyfriend has fingered me it has stung so bad! im not sure why it is or anything.. i mean like when he does it just hurts so bad i want him to stop.. but then like if he does it again the same night it doesnt hurt like really really bad.. i think its the way im sitting or something im not sure.. its not easy talkin to him about things like this.. bc he wouldnt know what to say i know.. i mean we have been together for a long time but it jus wouldnt be easy.. but when i come home or w.e i check and see if anything looks any different and it doesnt it jus stings and it even does like two days afterward im not sure what to do can someone quickly give me some advice!
Well make sure he washes his hands...and it could do with you not getting wet enough cause sometimes it happens to me.. and cause you might be real tight.. but um i think the awkward feeling for two days is pretty normal.. cause alot of girls i know get that after getting fingered or having sex.. and you should maybe get him to do it easier or something..much luv dez x0x0
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do you need a pap smear if you get fingered if so how bad and if not when do you have to get one
i dont think you need a pap smear if you get fingered... i went to the doctor *im not a virgin* and my doctor told me i dont need to get a pap smear until im either 3 years sexually active or until im 21... my doctor said i may not have to get one unless i want one or if something goes wrong with my blood presure.. much luv dez x0x0
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This isn't really a sexual question, but it involves my genitals, so I figured this would be the best place to ask.
My labia is very irritated, itchy, and sometimes downright painful. I know it's not an STD, because I haven't done anything that could give me an STD. It's a bit like a rash, but I wouldn't call it one, it's more like irritation. Sometimes, I'll put vaseline on it, but it doesn't help much and not for long. It's a sharp, burning pain. It especially hurts when I'm forced to touch it, like after I use the restroom, or if I have to insert a tampon. Again, it's just my labia (inner and outer, mostly inner), not anything else, really.
Anyone know what it is/how to relieve it?
im not sure what that could be hun... and sorry i cant suggest anything for the pain..but you need to see a doctor that isnt normal and you should have such discomfort down there..much luv dez x0x0
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