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Cheated
Ugh. I screwed up big time. There's this kid (Joe)..and he's going out with my best friend..at one point and time he liked me and vice versa.. but now i hate him big time and vice versa. but the thing is , is that out of everyone on the bus we rather sit with each other because I guess we're both anti-social in a way. Well we were fighting (physical fighting)..and just kissed, I dont know, we were into the moment i guess..it only lasted about 15 seconds, but still.. i have no idea what I'm going to say to my best friend or even whether or not I should tell her... any ideas?
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Oh my goodness. That should be a movie! I would so watch it! It's so romantic, yet depressing for you. Did you enjoy the kiss? If you did (and it wouldnt have lasted so long if you didnt)I think you two still have feelings for each other. About your friend...hum, difficult. I think you should tell her, becuase she'll find out eventually and you want 2 b the one to tell her, not someone else. Talk w/ him about it though first and ask him what he thinks u should do. It will effect him too...w/e u do.
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man, I just told someone not to lie too.
Did anyone see this kiss that might rat you out?
If so tell.
If you weren't seen, and don't intend for it to happen again,keep it to yourself.Unless you are asked by her point blank, do not volunteer info.
I don't think of this as lying, for one thing if she asks you you don't lie about it.
If she doesn't though, telling her will only cause her pain. It might relieve YOUR guilty conscious but will only hurt her.
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Aw, that's so sweet. I wonder what you're going to do.
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ONLY 15? wow.
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Hun i think you need to talk to him first and see what exactly that was about..and why does he think it happened.. then decide from there to tell her if you need anymore help leave it in my inbox..or email me..much luv dez x0x0
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Sounds like you get turned on by violence,
sticks and stones may break my bones but whips and chains excite me!
Is this a ringing any bells for ya?
I think you may have some deep seated emotional issues, love should not hurt.
Oh yeah, I think your a real putz for making a move on your friend's guy, there is no excuse for that kind of terrible behavior.
Your a CRAP friend.
Okay I love you, bye bye.
_Granny
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weeeell ......
she shells she shells by the sea....
POOOOOOOOOOP!
I would not suggest having sex with him if that is what u mean, is he hot? 'cause then u should totallllly do him.
pooppooppooppoopy
love
~TellitLikeitis~
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Oh, this is a difficult situation. I know that this may hurt your friend in the beginning, but I think that it is best that you tell her <b>first</b> before she hears about what happened from someone else. She may not take it so good, but it wouldn't be as hurtful as hearing it from another. Then on top of that pain, she would be wondering why you are keeping things from her and if this was the only incident in which this happened. Fifteen seconds is a very long time to kiss someone. That is not a peck, that was a lingering kiss. When you tell her, make sure you do it privately, away from other people. She is already going to be upset, and you don't want to make an already ugly situation uglier by having a crowd present. If your friendship is strong enough, it will last through this, but it will take some time.
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I think you should tell your friend what happened. Tell her it was a total accident, and tell her if she's mad at you, she has no reason to. If you don't tell her sooner or later, she's going to find out anyway. And when she does, she's not going to be happy. Good-luck!
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Hmmm...I really think that you should tell her what happened. Honsety is the best policy. Just make sure to tell her that you don't even like him and that it was TOTALLY an accident. Hope this helps!!!
~Alyssa
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