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In the middle of last year my BFF got a boyfriend and i was soo happy for her. But then she stopped hanging out with me. She ate lunch with him,all she talked about was her boyfriend. But then she got new friends and didnt even notice me. At dance she didnt want to talk to me either. So i told her how i felt and she said thats not true!! So then i said i dont want to be friends if u arent going to be a friend. so then her boyfriend said F*** YOU to me online:(
I told my friends and they informed my ex-bff. So she dumped him and her were friends again. The 2days lata she went back out with him. And she started doing the same thing that she did before. On the last day of school she dumped him. We are friends now but all she ever talks about is her ex-bf and she still doesnt talk to me at dance. Ok so here is my question: Should i still be her friend or forget about her?

thanks and advace

she doesn't seem like a true friend to me. sometimes you need to juss step away from your friends that are girls. like..girls can get annoying and WILL do that to you. guys are so much fun, not juss to date but to hang out with. and you did talk to her about it so theres not much you can do. she'll realize she lost a good friend.

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Money problems with the man that I love. He has steep child support that is deducted from his checks weekly. He works as a checker 40 hrs a week. I am supporting him and myself and my three boys. If he gets any money from his checks it is usually between 20 and 80 dollars depending on union dues and such. with what money he gets from his check, he fills up his truck with gas and gives me what is left. I make about 1200 a month, and we live in a small two bedroom duplex. My question is should I tuff it out, and stay with him? I know we will never live in a nice big house, drive nice vehicles, and have stuff. We will always have to scrimp and save. He treats me with respect, and loves me. Or should I move on and hope to find another man that will treat me as good that makes more money?

it depends on how much you love him. if you truly love him none of that stuff would matter to you. if you dont, then you should talk to him about it.

-hope i helped

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what is this song it is a rock song and i noe girls sing ti and it goes, "why cant i breath when ever i think about you, y cant i speak whenever i talk about you..." can someone plz tell me hwo sings it and what it is called.. thanks

hector jr is all wrong

its LIZ PHAIR-WHY CANT I

there ya go =)

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i missed last friday's brand new episode of Degrassi! dose anyone know when that episode will play again? thx

hey i dont know exactly what time, but there's channel listings on google if you juss type that in that shows what shows playing when.

-hope that helped

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Ok so Ive known this guy about a month in a half and we just started dating like a week ago. Things sorta went fast, maybe I little too fast for my comfort, but nothing I can do now. Anyways, we recently had sex and he was my first; we did it 3 times. I cried while driving myself home from his house, he lives 30 min away from my house; I had to pull over 2 times because I was crying so hard. I came home and talked to my best guy friend who I love dearly, he was trying his best to calm me down and everything. He kept saying it was normal to feel like this: empty, almost wishing you hadn't, just cold.... like someone just did the most rotten thing to you but worse. My best friend is away for a week and I cant talk to her and I need to talk to someone other than a guy. Is this normal??? HELP ME PLEASE!!

i was never in your situation, but sex is a big thing and i think its pretty normal to feel that way. you can't regret doing it, because you can never go back and change it, so learn from the past and move on for the future.

-hope this helped

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my dad has never told me he's loved me until last week when we were on the phone. I said it first, but i am glad he said it back. it is awkward to say it again. My question is...is it normal for dads not to say he loves his daughtor and should i keep on saying i love him when i see him or talk to him on the phone?

you should say you love him, but its not totally weird that a dad doesnt say it often, juss because dad's arent like mom's and they react differently. it also depends on the person he is, but say it and see how that goes.

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Is it safe to wear a tampon to sleep in? I'll probably sleep around 9 hours tonight .. I'm just not sure if that's safe (TSS). If I wear a pad, it usually leaks and gets on my shorts im wearing to bed. What should I do?

if your sleeping more than 8 hrs, like you said 9, its not too safe, so it'd be better to wear a pad.

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13/f
I weigh only around 70 and i'm 13 but i have big legs and i'm skinny but sometimes it looks like i'm kinda fat and i really want to be a model becuase i got an offer but i want to lose some of the fat on my legs and stuff, but i only 70 pounds so could it be dangerous? please help me i'll rate 5's for good answers

compared to me your COMPLETELY skinny. if your short you need to gain weight. not all models need to be that thin. i weigh around 140 lbs but im 5'9 and i know girls that model'd and i got modeling offers too, and they weighed up to 160 lbs, so make sure you eat right. if you wanna lose fat on your legs run, and try different leg exersizes by stretching and these things called "leg crunches". google has some good sites!

-hope i helped

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I'm on the cusp of girls sizes and junior sizes. The thing is, I don't like any of the girls styles anymore. I love the stuff at american eagle but I just can't fit into it. I can't even wear abercrombie jeans becaus I have a large butt and a small waist so the waist is always big and the butt fits. What do I do?? I found a pair of really nice tractor pants at Bloomingdales, but thats just ONE pair!!!

if i were you i'd try wet seal. some of there stuffs cute. either that or weathervane. i love american eagle jeans and the sizes run big and they arent like tight er anything. plus like clothing at wet seal and weathervane isnt anything fancy. just plain and comfortable, pretty cool looking. if not try stores like jc penny er macys. hollister jeans suck so dont try there. maybe aero? new york and company is good too.

good luck!

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ok so in 3 days i leave my dad u see him and my mom are divorced and well i visit him every summer now that the summer is almost over. well i am goin back to my mom. but i am a male so it is hard for me to say goodbye to him ever since i was little sain bye killed me but as i aged and got older it got harder. i pray to god to protect my dad so i may see him again. and i ask for me to be safe while taking the plane. and then i ask y does my heart hurt so much. now it is about 3 days till i leave here. and i am not ready to leave because at the age i am now 15 my heart needs my dad. my question is well what are some versus i can look into to help me with my heartache. and if u all would pray for me to have a safe trip and to be able to handle my heartache with passion and with out guilt cause i always feel like it is my fault. i am apodted and since i didn't know my real parents and my real dad the dad i have here is the closest thing i have and withouth him i am a lone or so it feels like
thny
monn

there's alot of stuff on google so whatever ur looking for juss google it. if u type in the part about versus of heartache or something in that matter, you'll probably find it.

sorry, thats all i could find

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Some places I go and use my debit card, they ask for an ID. I usually show my permit ID, but I lost it. So is a school ID fine as well? (It has my picture and name.)

it depends on the place you go to. some places will take your school id juss so they have something of yours, some may not.

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i wanna make my myspace pretty. so can someone give me like two really good colors that blend really good and it would be really pretty! thanks so much!

i would use

-blue and white: codes are #00B2EE for blue and #ffffff for white

-pink and white: #FF6EB4 for pink and #ffffff for white

-green and white: #40E0D0 for green and #ffffff for white

heres a good site too
http://www.december.com/html/spec/color4.html

reply for anything else

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Okay, well someone on here told me to use "sun in" for my hair to lighten it. And i was wondering so i can tell my mom and see if she will get it for me.. how much is it? and where can i get it?

♥ thanks

i think sun in is about 4$ er 3 for 12.99, something like that. i would try ur salon place or store like cvs, eckard, etc etc.

reply back for any help

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I want to lose about 20 lbs. Does any one have any tips on how to do this? I've tried dieting, excercise, and having smaller portions but none of them have worked for me.

If you want to lose weight you have to stick with essentials.

-sleep at least 9-10 hours
-eat breakfast every morning, not saying you have to eat a huge breakfast, but eat a good sized meal
-stop eating after 8pm
-eat 3 meals and 3 snacks
-if u eat something small/healthy every 3 hrs it helps ur metabolism
-exersize, i know you tried it, but it takes time

reply back if you have anything else to ask

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I`m at home right now, and i really dont have anything to do. I cant leave the house or anything. Does anyone know anything fun i can do inside ( websites, arts & crafts, etc.) thanks ♥ i will rate

if i were you i'd play diner dash!! its this awesome game on

www.yahoo.com

theres a game section near the top and its called diner dash and it has a pic of a cartoon girl. its soo addicting!

send 1 back for more ideas

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Okay I want to be gothic and my mom wont buy me anything gothic ... or let me be who I am !!

I am only 13 so therefore I cant buy anything because I dont have a job .. and me and my parents dont get along so please quit saying the same advice you give to everyone else

"talk to your parents .. hope I helped"

NO YOU DIDNT HELP

so please think about it

ok, if you really believe thats who you are then go for it. if i were you i'd talk to your friends about it and see if they can help you out, but for starters you don't need to buy anything to be gothic. juss talk to ur friends. if that doesn't work then maybe you need a job.

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this may seem like a stupid question, but i LOVE to sing and my favorite singer is Josh Groban. i would just die if i could meet him and talk to him, maybe even sing for him... any ideas of how to do it?

thanks

actually the poster before is wrong. theres an underage club where i live, in pennsylvania, and he plays there sometimes, and he has like "interviews" after with fans. my friends did it and actually talked to him. if you reply back i can tell you more.

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i hav just started developing boobs im at the stage where i cant wear a shirt with out like a sports bra but there uncomfortable. Is there a really small cup bra that i could try out?

i was in your situation cause duh im a girl! theres actually a bra, i forget what store, that its like pre A cup er whatever. i'd say google it but not under images.

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how do you get a music code ?? Like with no video, i know how to get one, i just want it to play the song , not give the video ..

Any links that give JUST the song and not the video ??.. Thanks ..

hey from the first post before, its www.musicgalore.net

thats probably why it wasnt working, but they have pretty good codes

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is it worse for you to take laxatives befor or after you eat? what is the difference?
thanks

the first poster was right. laxatives arent good whatsoever. the best way is to do it healthy.

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