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3 days and counting
ok so in 3 days i leave my dad u see him and my mom are divorced and well i visit him every summer now that the summer is almost over. well i am goin back to my mom. but i am a male so it is hard for me to say goodbye to him ever since i was little sain bye killed me but as i aged and got older it got harder. i pray to god to protect my dad so i may see him again. and i ask for me to be safe while taking the plane. and then i ask y does my heart hurt so much. now it is about 3 days till i leave here. and i am not ready to leave because at the age i am now 15 my heart needs my dad. my question is well what are some versus i can look into to help me with my heartache. and if u all would pray for me to have a safe trip and to be able to handle my heartache with passion and with out guilt cause i always feel like it is my fault. i am apodted and since i didn't know my real parents and my real dad the dad i have here is the closest thing i have and withouth him i am a lone or so it feels like
thny
monn
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Monn,
Where to begin. I know this answer may be too late and you may already be feeling better, but here goes.
I know what you're saying. My parents divorced when I was 9. I too went through a time when I felt like it was my fault. The truth is, I loved both of my parents so much that I didn't want to blame or be angry at either one of them. But I learned as you will that they made a decision. Maybe out of selfishness, maybe out of pain, nonetheless, it was their decision. You are not at fault.
It's great that you have a good relationship with your dad. My dad and I hardly ever got to see each other. My dad was and to some degree still is unconcerned with my life. My dad didn't come to my wedding or my college graduation. All my life I grew up and developed a lot of bitterness in my heart. God dealt with me about that and I learned that I have to honor my father because he's my father, even if I was hurt by him.
It is hard to say goodbye, even if it is for a short time. I hope that you and your father are believers. If you are, then you can spend eternity together worshipping our Great God.
Finally, let me try to encourage you. The Bible says that God is a Father to the fatherless. I'm not saying that your fatherless (obviously, you're not), but I am saying that you must find your rest and peace in God. Even though your daddy isn't there physically, God is watching over both of you. If something were to happen to one or the other of you, His grace would be sufficient. Enjoy the good times and permanently embed them into your memory. Then, trust God because He knows what's best for you.
--ByReasonofUse
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pretty much all i can tell you is God is in control,and your dad is only a phone call away. even though you think you need your dad .God is always there and you can talk to him whenever you need it. now can i ask you a question. what if you never saw your dad again . how would you feel towards God?
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Oh....Monn, This has got to be so hard. I'm sorry you're hurting. Your parents divorce is NOT your fault. I can't say I know what it's like to be a young person struggling with such load to bear -- I don't. But I do know the Lord wants to help you through it. Here is a link to down load various versions of the bible: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) Once downloaded, you only have to type in a word like comfort or encouragement and it will bring up every passage in the bible that talks about those things. I know the Word will get you through. I'll pray for you.
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im really sorry about that.but feel lucky that you can see him. its not your fault, they just wanted to preserve what they had without getting worse so they divorced.i prayed for your plane ride. try gettin a quote book for strength, or encouragement. trust me, you have more people that love you and care for you than it seems. hope everything goes well.<3
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I know exactly what your talking about. Unfortionately though I don*t see my dad anymore but every 4-5 years for a day!! it*s really hard and reading that almost made me cry, but i*m an emotional kid.. anyway enuff about me. I will pray for you because i know what your going through, i*m adopted as well!! But just remind yourself he*s fine and that you will see him again, maybe see if you can visit him on a holiday or if he can come visit you!! I can*t say i know of any versus but i can promise you, you will be in my thoughts and prayers. Just give him a huge hug, tell him you love him and you*ll miss him and try talking every weekend. Me and my dad used to do that and every sunday we would take turns calling eachother. I hope i helped sweetie and have a safe trip!! xoxo, chelsea
*please tell me how things work out, and if you need anything else leae one in mi inbox or im me @ crazlilchelc152
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Try reading the book: A Child Called "It", By Dave Pelzer. It's part of a trilogy, and you might want to read the other two books as well. Hopefully you'll find the inspiration you might need. Good luck.
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there's alot of stuff on google so whatever ur looking for juss google it. if u type in the part about versus of heartache or something in that matter, you'll probably find it.
sorry, thats all i could find
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