Okay, I'm 14/f and i love boys to death, but lately i've been very attractive to my best friend and she's 13/f.My friend and i have experimented 3 times and we've both liked it. When we get intimate with each other we never think of guys either it's strange. I'm not attracted to any other girls. I feel that if she doesn't like me back when i tell her how i feel about her i will get over it and go back to guys again. I've never had a liking for woman just my best friend. Does this mean i'm bisexual or i'm confusing my feelings with "FRIENDSHIP LOVE." Help a girl out!!
You might be just confusing your feelings with freindship love..sounds like your lonely to me.. your young and sex is runnin through your mind so it pretty normal..much luv dez x0x0
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Hey, My best friend and i were wondering were both girls and she's 13 an i'm 14. We have experimented once and we loved it. My best friend doesn't have a boyfriend and either do i. We've experimented 2 or 3 more times. Does this mean for right now were each other's sex partner right now. My best friend and i do act like were a couple when were around each other. We've mentioned a few times that we should be a couple. Just because we experimented 3 times and we've liked it that it means my best friend is my previous sex partner? Help some girls out, please!!
Well i guess you would be considered sex partners if thats all that goes on between you.. you sound really young so it could just be fase cause your both lonely..much luv dez x0x0
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OK, I've been dating this guy for about a month or so ...and a few of my friends think he just wants sex and im not quite sure either....One time he asked me to have sex one night but i said no. we've hung out since then and he tried to get me to give him head and stuff but i didnt and we still hang out and whatever but he hasnt asked me to be his girlfriend or anything yet so thats why im unsure nor even have we talked about it . all our phone conversations are pretty short and just consist of making plans and whats up how r u n stuff along those lines however we do talk once in a while for like 15 minutes....so my ? is do u think he just wants sex? and anyways to find out besides talking to him about it
Sounds to me hun thats that is all he wants.. i mean with in a month he has asked you to give him head..to have sex and pushing you into things you dont sound ready for.. he apparently thought you was some kinda of hoe to think he was going to get it.. he dont want a steady reltionship and it sounds like you need to move on.. you can remain friends with him sounds like it would be the best thing for you have with a guy like that.. he isnt going to have true feelings for you.. if anything he'd probably lie and said he does jus to get exactly what he wants and you'd jus get hurt cause you would have them feelings and you'd be hurt so forget him..much luv dez x0x0
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My boyfriend and I sometimes get in like Hickey fights. He always gives me them but whenever I try to give him one it never works...Ive tried on myself at home before too and I think im doing something wrong. My question is exactly how do u give a hickey and do you know of tips to help it work better besides like biting?
Stay in the same spot you suck and suck hard and long.. he might jus not bruise easy or something..much luv dez x0x0
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i really like this guy and he's a big flirt and thats hott. what kind of things can i do to make him like touch me and you no hang around me more because he likes to flirt wit people by like touching them. he does it to me but what are some ways that i can make him touch me more often and if u dont no wat im refering to by toughting im refering to like touching in those certian places that only some people like to be touched. but wat kind of things should i do to get him to do it more often. thanks so much but plzz really help.
Hey jus you start it.. And while you start it then move his hand to where you want him to touch you.. its not to hard hun..much luv dez x0x0
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Me and my boyfriend did it on the 11th (i remember because i went to my friends party afterward). The first time we did it we used protection then we took a break and did it again but didn't use protection bc we didn't have any and I know that was stupid of me. The second time we only did it for about 5-10mins. A week or so passed and I took a test to see if I was pregnant, I wasn't. On the 25th I was suppose to have my period which didn't happen. Should I be worried or whats going on plez help I can't ask my parents bc they'll never look at me again.
Well sex can sometimes mess with your period.. but take another test in a couple days.. and um also hun dont make that mistake again and i would get on birth control..much luv dez x0x0
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im so sick of not having a bf. im 13, 5'1" 128 lbs. blonde perfect teeth, no braces. anything a guy would want! the thing is i have NEVER had a bf. my frend has and she is really really unattractive. she has hideous crooked yellow teeth and puffy frizzy hair. i dont mean to be mean but i really hate the fact that an ugly grl has had 7 bfs and i had none. please please help!
This is why i hate skinny lil blonde barbie bitches.. ha ha funny i thought.. and you can think of me as a big bitch or whatever i could really care less.. but yea guys dont jus go for lil cocky bitches with bad ass attitudes that are stuck on there fuckin looks.. yea looks are always good but so is a fuckin attitude.. well girl your only 13 too sounds like you arent ready for a relationship anyways sounds like your jus going to be picky anyways since you dont like ugly people.. some of the ugly people actually have better personality and arent dicks like some guys.. sorry for tellin you some real shit so go cry now.. Much luv dez x0x0
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14/f
I'm a Christian so I want to be a virgin till I'm married, but lately it's been real hard to stay that way. I'm letting my hormones make me too curious. (I've never actually even seen a penis before.) I get really horny a lot and sometimes I ever masturbate to get over it. I'm way too young to have sex but lately I've wanted to give a handjob or even get laid. How can I keep motivated to stay a virgin? I know I'm not ready for sex.
Well masterbating isnt a crime so jus continue to do that til your married.. much luv dez x0x0
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Well me and my boyfriend have exsperimented "below" the belt. He never said anything before, but now hes complaining about me not shaving. I shaved once before, now i usually just trim. When i shved i hated it i couldnt stand it, it itched and hurt and it was annoying. What should i do?
Shave anyways.. or tell him if he dont like it then to leave you alone.. cause he should like you no matter what you do with your body..much luv dez x0x0
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Hi again people help my out. By the way the people that never heard of me my I'm a girl and I'm 14 and my bff (which is a girl) is 14 and we've experimented 3 times and liked it. She hasn't completly told me her feelings about me but she sends me signs. I've been hesitant to tell her because I wasn't that sure about my being bisexual or straight. Now I'm positively sure I'm bisexual. Know that I've decided to tell my best friend that I'm attracted to her and that I want to be with her I don't know what to say! I mean should I play a love song and sing it to her or get a really good poet and read the love that I have for her from the poet's writing that relates how I've been feeling about her. Help a girl out, Please!!!
Those ideas are real cute but i think that would scare me a little bit for you to tell her how you feel like that.. she might think your a lil crazy or something.. im not tryin to be mean im jus giving you tru advice bout what i think you should do hun.. you should sit her down and tell her how you feel about her..much luv dez x0x0
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Okay I used to have really bad acne on my face and my back. (I know it's gross but I did.) Well now I don't really have any pimples or anything, I have like little red bumps, I think they are scars from pimples I had before. Does anyone know how to get rid of these, and if so, how??
Well if its a scar it might be hard to get rid of them.. um i would see a doctor and see what they could suggest..much luv dez x0x0
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I am 27 yrs old and my mom has never been there for me. I want to completly cut her out of our lives but will i be hurting my children? I have cut her out for anywhere from 2months to almost a year.
Wel if your kids actually love her and enjoy her like anyother grand kids you should hurt your children like that.. but if they arent attached and it would seem like they wouldnt care then you could cut her out.. but maybe talk to your children bout it if there at a resonable age and see how they feel about it.. but if they are young and wouldnt understand you could maybe get away with it and they might not remamber her.. much luv dez xoxo
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My boyfriend broke up with me today. And he did it because he thinks I love my ex still. And that I don't love him...enough. But he wants us to be "friends" still. How am I to deal?
Well im sure you've told him you dont love your ex.. um i would try your hardest..*which will be hard* to be friends with him like he wants.. it could end up leading back into a relationship but then it couldnt.. but hun it'll be hard.. godd luck and sorry if my advice wasnt very helpful i tried..much luv dez x0x0
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i've gotten everything... sweaty armpits... can't fit into shoes.. pubic hair... vaginal discharge... everything! i went to the doctors last year in march or april... and they said my period would be coming in about 6 months - a year... and its the end of march now and it still hasn't come... my discharge has been heavy lately... how much longer will i have to wait
Well most likely your going to get in soon..um you might want to see a doctor if it doesnt come by time summer is here..much luv dez x0x0
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My boyfriend and i have been dating for the past 5 months. We go to the same high school, but next year he is going to a public school and leaving me at the private school we both go to now. He has had sex before and i havent. He wants me to but i tell him im not ready and he says he can wait. I love him so much and he tells me he loves me to, i just am nervous to have sex with him and then he will leave. and i dont want the condom to break and im stuck having a kid. Plus the main promblem is what will god think of me? Please Help!!!!!!!!!
Hun you should wait..you apparently arent ready for this..you are stressing yourself out over this and it shouldnt be like this.. you shouldnt have to worry about him leaving you after you have sex you should be more confident bout this whole thing.. and if he loves you he'd be more respectful bout this and wouldnt rush you.. maybe get on birth control or something before having sex with him.. so you dont worry about the whole condom and baby thing.. and being nervous is pretty normal cause it would your first time.. um i think you should wait i mean i understand you love him and everything but your worrying about too many things..much luv dez x0x0
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My friend was around marajuana over the weekend, i'm not sure weather or not she smoked, but she could have. Then she got sick and her mom took her to the doctor, where she had a blood test done to see weather or not she had mono. Should she be worried about the marajuana showing up on the test? do you think that the doctor will notice if it does? Please help!
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Well if she smoked then it will show up in her blood test..much luv dez x0x0
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what does emo mean? everyone says it but i dont know what it means. sorry if this is a stupid question!!
emotional..
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I like this guy and he likes me.. I want to tell him how i truley feel but im afraid.. Should i gain up my courage and tell him? or just leave it alone?
You should go for it hun and tell him.. get the courage babe and go for it... you never know what can happen til you say or do something..much luv dez x0x0
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i was thinking about highlighting my hair with blonde. my hair is dirty blonde and lightens up in the summer but i want my hair a little lighter. but some people have told my any thing done to your hair like dying it or highlighting it makes your hair gross and dry. i dont want to put any product in if it will make my hair look/feel weird. so if anyone can tell me if highlighting your hair does anything to it thanks.
Ive died my hair since i was 11 years old and my hair is soft..it looks and feel real natural.. ive highlighted my hair and ive died all of it.. but i guess different things happen to certain people.. i wouldnt really worry about it hun.. jus keep it conditioned and wash it, your only highlighting so it should be fine.. sounds real cute too good luck..much luv dez x0x0
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okay... me and this guy... i dont know if were "talking" or anything.. we have made out like.. 50 times.. and he calls me everyday.. but.. then the next day he comes and tells me about how hot the girls at his new school are and how everyone knows him and missed him.. and all this stuff... the other night.. his friend was talking to him.. and i was sitting right there.. and his friend was like.. " i can hook you up with any girl you want.. " and he was like.. "na man.. i dont need help.. they already love me" and his school is known for having the prettiest girls in katy... so.. i dont know what to do? please help.. i will give you 5's
wow hun you really need to talk to him about how you feel about this..cause you apparently arent together sounds like he uses you.. so jus tell him how you feel.. tell him today since he calls you everyday.. much luv dez x0x0
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