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Me and my best friend kelli used to really like this kid named brian...after we both had our share of asking him out he turned both of us down on the account of wanting to be single....now he barely ever talks to us and we really miss him...we went to friendly's all 3 of us together...and a winter carnival but i miss him a lot and so does she...we used to be a three sum but he kind of left...i love him as a friend and i want to earn him back for the both of us...please help me hes a really good friend...i love him like a brother

Rachel

tell him everything you wrote right there and you'll be fine. if he doesn't listen then, then he's missing out on good friends and he isn't a good friend anyway.

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I have questions to what song this may be the beginning is just talking and he says "see to live 2 suffer 2 survive well thats 2 find a meaning in something"
"if im strong enough ill live long enough to see my kids doing something more constructive with my time"
and heres more into the song "so i split and said im gunna be that seed that doesnt need much 2 succed strapted with mad breed a heart that doesnt bleed im ready 4 the world or at least i thought i was back in..."
the chorus is something like "im slipping falling cant get up im slipping falling cant get up im slipping falling i gots to get up"

DMX-slippin

http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/dmx/slippin.html

try this for next time-
www.leoslyrics.com

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ive had a girlfriend for a little over a week now we fooled around allot for 3 nights prior everything but sex and she was mad because i teased her with everything but sex (which i refused because i had a bad feeling about it) after she harrassed me about not giving her what she wanted and her telling me that its what she wants and "dont worry about my feeling ill stop if its not what i want" i desided to go through with it so after a wonderful night which she enjoyed and left with a smile shes mad at me because she said she wasnt really ready and i should have known that. im not saying i have no fault but i dont think she can really be that mad at me for it

she cant be mad at you whatsoever. idk if you're religious er anything but i know alot of people that WANT to have sex, but are into that whole sex after marriage thing like myself. alot do have sex and regret it totally. she cant blame you whatsoever, because she harrased you in the first place. the only fault you have is letting that control you, instead of going with your bad feeling, but she can't be mad at you.

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ok there is this boy that me and my friend rachel have been good firends with for a bout a year. For a while we both liked him a LOT. But we kind of recked things and we just want to be friends. We talk a lot ( me and my friend)and we want him to be the kind of friend that me and her are to each other. I want someone that I can give advice to adng et advice from someone to hug me and tell me its alright i just want it to be like it was people change a lot over the summer and it justs hurts sometimes. I wish things could go back to the way they were. Please give me advice on how to win him back as a friend. A best friend and nothing more.

juss sit down and talk to him about it. he'll probably understand and become good friends with you again.

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ok well im 13/f and i still havent made out with a guy , like ive had the opertunitys (cant spell sorry) and ive wanted to but it just doesnt feel right and i feel that if i did make out with a guy that i would be known as a slut . everybody calls me prude to and i want to make out im just scared that the person i do make out with will think im a bad kisser . is this normal? should i make out? pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeee help!!!!!

(will rate high for good answers)!!!!

thanks!

im 15 and about to be a sophmore. i havent madeout either but like..i made a promise to myself i wouldnt kiss anyone until im 16, and my bf is perfectly fine with it. dont kiss someone juss because your 13 and havent yet. your still young! you want your first kiss to be memorable. you don't want to do it for the wrong reasons. plus, if your bf or whoever you kiss really likes you, then he won't care even if you are a bad kisser. you guys can always practice!

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well i'm gonna try out for this olymic soccer and i'm just afraid i wont make it cuz i'm gonna be one of teh younger ones trying out and i made it to the district soccer (the best of teh north shore) and when i dont make something i tend to get really sad and think i suck so i dno to try out or not help plz????!!!

GO FOR IT. dont even worry, barely anyone gets it that young. its definately an accomplishment and an honor. go and do your best and juss have fun. if you do your best theres nothing else anyone can ask for. dont worry or be upset, juss do what ya gotta do, and thats your best.

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ok, well i really have liked this guy for 2 years, i think i love him. he knew, he hated me for it. lots of horrible stuff happened. now i'm going to a different school next year & i'm almost over him, which is good. i met a guy at this school who i really like [through the drama camp], & i really want him to know how i feel about him & how i can't stop thinking about him, but i don't want to tell him i like him, because he barely knows me. i don't want any of my friends to do it for me because i don't want to cause any tention between us. all the guys i've ever had feelings for have hated me in return & i don't want this to happen again. someone please give me some advice. i'll rate you for it if you want.

dont tell him you like him right away. it'll probably juss scare him off. talk to him, become friends, juss hang out and stuff and slowly go into detail on how you feel. who knows! maybe he feels the exact same way.

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I dont know whats wrong with me. Like, I can be the center of attention in front of my friends but at the same time Im the quietest person you could ever meet when I want to be or when I just dont know what to say and I get nervous.

I'm going to a new school next year and I already have a small group of friends there, and I'm able to make friends easily when I want to, it's just when I present in front of the class that bothers me. I dont know what it is. Like, I'm not afraid about people hearing my voice or anything. I'm not afraid of being nervous, because it's not even that I get nervous. I just BLUSH. I HATE blushing. I hate when people see me blush because they make a huge deal over it and I dont know how to control it. Even if I'm not embarassed I'll still blush at times. And even if I blush when I dont even realize I'm blushing people go "Omg are you EMBARASSEDDD!?" and stuff like that and make jokes. I mean I can make fun of my self too when I want to joking around and all that with people and all but, I dont know.

-sigh- okay. Basically. Im fine presenting. Its just my blushing problem. And then when I FEEL myself blushing, thats when I get majorly nervous.

How can I control this? Please help. Any tips.. any at all. I just want to be able to stand in front of the class without fucking blushing for once, and sweating and feeling all gross and shaky afterwards.

It's been like this ever since I can remember. It's torchure. Can anyone help please?

juss be yourself. you'll find people that WILL like you for it and they're the ones you should be friends with. don't being offended by what anyone says and juss be open and honest, thats the best thing. being nervous or shy is perfectly normal and everyone goes through it. your true friends will accept you for who you are, so you don't need to worry about what others think.

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When I start up I get the message "This computer is in use and has been locked" "Only pc-01/(my name) or an administrator can unlock the computer" Then get a screen with user name ( mine filled in) and below password (is blank)
If I click on ok it all opens up but am unable to open existing files in word etc. They are all marked "unavailable"
Do not know how I have done this but need to get thus sorted. Any help appreciated

ok when you're on your computer go to properties by right clicking on the main screen. go to the screen saver tab and under the pic theres ur screen saver and then theres a thing that says wait:___ mins and next to it it says- On resume, password protect. if thats checked then that could be the problem so uncheck it and click ok cause thats what happened to mine but i unchecked it. if its not checked then i cant help ya, sorry.

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latly i relized that my closest friend dana liked me back but she has a bf. so she dosent wanna think that way of me in that way. that kinda bums me out. but yet i got this friend i've know for about 4 years and well i've loves him since like grade 6. but i dont think he likes me back. he never gave me a streight out awnser. then there is my xbf brandyn who i broke it off with. its a really long story and i dont wanna talk about it. long story short i freaked out on him and i feel really bad for breaking it off. *sigh* her is my question. which one should i focuse my heart and love on? and please dont say flip a coin.

usually ex's dont work well. try going for the 1 you knew for about 4 years.

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I wanna cut my hair and I dont know how long I should cut it so is there any website where I can see myself with a specific hair style! Know what Im talking about! thanx!!!!!!!!!

i think to the shoulders er a lil longers cute. and if you get it layered and get a side bang it looks good too.

-heres a website to help!
http://www.1001-hairstyles.com/

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Okay, well I dated this boy back in February. Our relationship only lasted a week because he kissed someone else, and so did I. We got back together a couple days later, and that only lasted about 2 weeks. A month or so after, he got a new girlfriend and was with her for a month. After he broke it off with her, he started 'talking' to me again. However, it was then that he had to leave all summer on vacation, and I didn't get to talk to him for over a month. Now he's back and wants to get back together. The problem is, he is the boy in school that every girl wants, and every guy wants to be. I have major jealousy issues, and it kills me having to deal with every girl being in love with him. I don't feel like I'm good enough. He's leaving again today for another two weeks, and wants to date once he returns, he wants to get back together. I love this boy... I just don't feel like getting my heart broken by him for the third time. What should I do?

don't waste your time. it sees that you tried it a few times and it juss didnt work. i know you love him, but i dont think the loves strong enough if it didnt keep it together not 1, but 2 times. its annoying when every1 else wants him, and that could lead into you not trusting him or them, and him being tempted and probably not strong enough to fight through it.

-hope this helped!

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okay well there is this guy .. he is really nice and cute. he helped me with my drinks and i didnt even ask for his help either! haha i dont know if he was just being nice or what but he seemed a little interested in me and i think im starting to like him. I wanna talk to him more and get to know him but i dont have the guts to go over to him or even what to say to him. help?

if i were you i'd juss tell him how i feel a little bit more into the 'friend' relationship. dont jump at him and say you like him..but don't totally be distant about it either. get to know him, and when you guys are pretty good friends, let him know how you feel.

-hope that helps!

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I was just wondering. Under your Feedback, there's feedback points, what is this? Thanks :)

your feedback points determine on how high someone rates you. they juss add em all up. its pretty pointless haha.

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13/f Ive played basketball for 5 yaers but this is diffrent i realy wanna make the JV squad and lets just say since last season ended in March ive done alot if couch sitting and junk food eating...what can i do to get back in to shape...tryouts are November 4th

i've been playing basketball since third grade and i play for AAU which is like a state team that goes to nationals and for my school league team, so i know pretty much about the practices.

1-layups layups layups
not EVERY1 can do layups, so if your ahead of that, your good
2-suicide sprints
keeps ya in shape and you'll probably have to do em sooner or later
3-form shooing
practice diff forms of shooing the coach is teaching you
4-run/jog
it helps ur endurance
5-practice dribbling
im a post player and i still have to do it

leave me a feedback for more suggestions

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i heard that theres something you can use to help acne scars and acne itself. what is it called ? and if you tried it, does it actually work ?

i dont have acne, but all my friends get PROACTIV. i heard it works really good.

heres a website that should help-
http://www.proactiv.com/

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hey.. i was wondering where i could get a playlist fora myspace.. also some music links



thanks in advance!

www.musicgalore.net is great for juss music for playlists with no videocodes

if that doesnt work then google myspace playlists, er if u want a video code go to www.videocodes4u.com

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F/14
ok homecoming is on the 1st of Oct. for me and my mom said that I cant go if i dont have a date... But i still REALLY want to go, I mena it is my FIRST homecoming. Does anyone know any sites to get pretty, and unexpensive dresses? Thanks soo much! ♥

the deb as such awesome dresses and some are like 20$.
http://www.debshops.com/home/default.as
OR
http://www.debshops.com/fashion/hc2005.asp

-hope this helped!

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i've got that eyeshadow from hot topic. i put it on but my skin color shows up in the middle and applying more makes it very hard to see. (bright green) is there anything i could do to make it bright and stay? All it does is fall over my eyelashes. I heard putting concealer works... does it?

concealer makes it stay longer, because face it..all the stuff you do during the day definately wears it off. i'd say you could use coats of clear make up to make it brighter and then put more green over top. juss try different stuff like that and experiment. if none of that works always have it with you and run into a bathroom to put some more on.

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this guy i have been hanging out with said that he wanted us to be friends nothing more, but maybe in time we could be bf and gf. I was fine with that. i heard later (from a girl that i trust) that he had a girlfriend. I asked him and he denied it. i dont care that he has a gf...its just we have made out and done stuff together...now i feel like a slut. What should i do with this guy? forget about him or still be his "friend."

try to be friends with him. having a jabillion friends never hurt any1, but i wouldnt try getting to close because of the rumor that he did have a gf and denied it. if hes not being honest with you, dont do anything more.

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