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does anyone know which song by keith urban is like reallyyyyy slow and emo sounding in the beginning and then turns into a rock song? i cant find it anywhere and i dont know the words lol. any help?! (link)
well you could just look up keith urban on google and then listen to a couple songs and hopfully youll find it


okay im in this class called child development and i have to find a fingerplay about princes or princesses and i cant find one anywhere!

if you know one please help!

fingerplays are like songs with motions if you didnt know that

thanks =) (link)
you can just go to prekfun.com it has all that kind of stuff there good luck


is there a website where someone can listen to song remixes? i TRIED GOOGLING,THANKS, but nothing really came up. does anyone know any good sites / programsss? (link)
have you tryed to google somthing diffrent like mashups or maybe if you want lets say the song "dont stop the music" then you could google "dont stop the music" remix or mashup i dont know if "dont stop the music" has a remix but i think you get the point good luck i hope i helped


can you get your period sooner (link)
well it shouldent because if it does then you might have a health problem but anyway why do you ask



At school there is this boy I have never alked to, but like a lot. My friend told me that she saw him put a note in my locker on monday. We didn't have school on tue. or wed. Well I looked inmy locker and found a note saying "hey I think your really cute too, And i know it was you who called me. From, I think you know who." I feel sooo stupid for believing it. I was soo happy. My face got red and my stomach got that queasy feeling. Then like 2hrs. later my 4th locker neighbor down asked me If I got that note in my locker. I was like yeah, did you see who put it in, and she's like (friends name) did. I was so hurt. That note filled me with false hope. She asked me if I was mad at her and I said yes. Get this, s got mad at me 4 being mad at her. She's like y are you getting so mad it's stupid cuz I thought it would get you to talk to him. And I was like NO IT WOULD HAVE MADE ME LOOK LIKE AN IDIOT! And she was like "Whatever". When I got home all I didi was cry and I am crying right now. I feel like such an idiot for even believing it. What should I do, sorry it's so long. (link)
OMG that happened to me, except my friend had done it to me on VALENTINES DAY. Yeah, it was pretty much humilitaingg and I was sooo mad at her, she got equally mad at me for being mad at her. It was sooo stupid, so I think that you should just let her be mad because what she did was not a funny joke since she knew how much you were crushin on that guy. If she wanted to encourage you to talk to him, playing a cruel prank like that was definetly not the way to do it and soo uncool of her. BUT look at it from a different perspective, at least she was trying to get you to talk to him and cares enough to try to make you talk to him, even though she could have just done that a different way. So if you want to be mad at her, go ahead, but if you don't want to, hug and make up because you didn't actually talk to the guy, but try talking to him :] and this time, I'm sure she won't do that cold prank again.


i really want this song, but i dont have limewire
i cant download any program
and the song isnt available on itunes
is there any way to get it? (link)
Try buying the CD or song online, or maybe got ot a store where they sell CDs and buy it there.
Maybe even ask a friend if you could download the song on their computer...?
Good luck!


whats a good conditioner for somebody with dry hair and split ends (link)
Any herbal essence conditioner. They make my hair [which used to be try and all split ends] liek new again. Soft and everything, plus my heair is kinda thick, so it works magic on my hair :]


I always have this problem.
My heart is always torn between two different guys.
I've got this one guy. He knows where he's going in life. The only thing, is he is in a band and it is always hope with that stuff. They don't know if they will get a record deal, and get tons of money. But he has graduated high school, is getting his driver's liscence, and heavily also looking for a job while dealing with the band.
The other guy. He is pretty much homeless, a high school dropout, no body really likes him, and i don't even know what else. But he really cares for me and would do anything for me. I mean anything.
Seems easy, right? Well it's not. The story is, I was dating the guy with the band, and i kinda ended up cheating on him with the other guy. Now he says that he doesn't hate me for it, but it's going to take him a while to get over it. He also says that in the future if things don't work out we might get back together, but I just really don't know. I really miss him because I at least know with him I was going to get supported in any way possible.
Also, I may be pregnant. The thing with that is, I would have no idea whose it would be, and the guy that i am with that is homeless and makes no money seriously thinks its his, and i think it may be (or i just want it to be) the guy who is actually going somewhere with his life, but then there is also this other guy i dated like 2 months ago whose it might be if i am. but i haven't had that monthly thing in a month and a half, and i am getting kind of worried. I just don't know guys, any help possible would be great. anything you can say, say it. i am in a serious rut here. thanks guys. (link)
It seems like you want the boy who can't support you because you want the baby to be his, but you want the guy [band one] who is going to support you and your baby, who makes you feel safe. But think of it this way, if the guy who probably won't be able to support you were able to support you, would you like him better than the guy who is in the band? And if your answer to that is yes, choose him because that is who your heart wants to belong with, no matter what his finacial troubles are. Try to do what your heart tells you, but if you really feel THAT insecure tell the guy who is jobless to get a job and show you that he can support you, and if he can't do that he can't do EVERYTHING or ANYTHING for you and it would be better if you just stuck with the guy in the band.
Good luck and I hope you make the right choice!


Hello. I was wondering if anyone knows the name of the melody that's played before a horse race? If anyone knows please answer asap. Thank you! (link)
oh thats an easy one its called "call to post" good luck


i am 14 years old...no duuh lol
i was wondering wat kinda of jobs i could find with a decent pay...
btw i live in new jersey so yea...
if anybody knows plz tell me!!
thanks! (link)
In the summer, my friend's and I [when we were 14] got jobs at this orchard and it was cool, and some indoor sports pavillions let 14 and 15 year olds work there, it just depends on where you live in NJ. Try looking for one of those in your area!
Hope you get a job :]


I have never know my father, and I don't even know who he is. I have grown up without a positive role model and I have began to doubt all the choices that I have made. Every time I ask my family who he is I get two different stories, and then they change the subject. What should I do? I have nobody to turn to and I wish that I did. What should I do?? (link)
actulay you can go on to a family haritage site and make a family tree and somtimes if you put in your name and then your moms it will give you your dads name and then you can look up his name on google adn you might get somthing about him or what he does and then if its a specific job like only in one state they have that job then you can look that up in google and maybe even get a picture of him good luck i hope i helped and if none of that works then maybe not knowing who your dad is might be a good thing maybe he isnt that great of a person and you will feel so bad about how your dad is a bad person and it will make you feel horible maybe not knowing is a good think i really hope i helped some good luck


does anyone have quotes or lyrics that explain a long friendship that got ruined because they were hard headed and denied everything? (link)
Dont spit on me and shame yourself
Because you wish you were someone else
You look so clean but you spread your dirt
As if think that words dont hurt
You build up walls no one can climb
The things you do should be a crime
You're queen of superficiality
Keep your lies out of my reality
And when you're nice it's just a pose
You're one of those
[Chorus]
Haters
Traitors to the human race
Haters
What a drag
What a waste
I'd like to see them disappear
They dont belong anywhere
Haters
Spinning a web thats hard to see
Of envy, greed and jealousy
Feeling angry but you don't know why
Why dont you look me in the eye?
You want my friends
You want my clothes
You're one of those
[Repeat Chorus]
Different life form
Different species
Broken promises and treaties
Talkin' bout exterminating
Not the haters
Just the hating
You say your boyfriend's sweet and kind
But you've still got your eyes on mine
Your best friend's got her eyes on yours
It all goes on behind closed doors
And when you're nice it's just a pose
You're one of those
[Repeat Chorus]
Haters
Later for the alibis
Haters
Any shape
Any size
I'd like to see them disappear
They dont belong anywhere
Haters
--haters by Hilary Duff

or Sloan Frienship:
Jolene you were the best friend I ever had
Somebody get me a doctor yeah
It's beyond me how you could go and treat me oh so bad
Who is your one true friend?
Who is your one true friend?
You're jealous and it's all because of one thing
And I don't really care if you can hurt me
You know that you'll never have
I'm going to take as much as I can grab
Who is your one true friend?
Who is your one true friend?
In the end you'll have to come to your own defense
Jolene, you were the best friend I ever had
You're jealous and it's all because of one thing
And I don't really care if you can hurt me
Yeah yeah yeah
Yeah yeah yeah
In the end your one true friend has to come to your defense

Hope you like themm




what does this mean (talking about hair in GUYS):

-natural flippy
-buzz cut
-emo
-a dead animal
-gelled flippy
- (link)
natural flippy: It's kind of long and looks natural, sometimes has a wavy or flipped look to it.
Buzz cut: Pretty much little hairs [that look like fuzz] on your head.
Emo: EXTREMLY long and usually a dark color, that goes across your forehead and overlaps one or both of your eyes. [Like the lead singer of Cute as we aim for but darker]
A dead animal: Gross, shaggy, not brushed, just all around wierd and icky.
Gelled flippy: Used heair gel to make their hair flip whichever way they want.
Hope I helpedd


i am 14 years old...no duuh lol
i was wondering wat kinda of jobs i could find with a decent pay...
btw i live in new jersey so yea...
if anybody knows plz tell me!!
thanks! (link)
im sorry but im 15 and i cant get i job i live in new jersey also i dont think we are going to be able to get a job im really sorry i have tryed everywhere to get one but i just cant get a job really sorry good luck


Sometimes I wish I could just always say what's on my mind. Most of everything in my thoughts that I wish I would say is all...mean. I do say alot of things but the stuff still in my head is worse than the stuff I say out loud. And I often get called a bitch for what I do say. I'm not sure what's going on, I wasn't always like this. Weird?? (link)
Your not a bitch, you're just speaking up and why should you not say what is on your mind, mean or not? But sometimes, people say what's on their mind 24/7 and are the defintion of beotchh. But it's not wierd that you do this, once in a while you can speak your mind, but other times is it is REALLY rude and mean, keep your thoughts inside of your head, not outside. Try writing what you are thinking that is mean, and get it down on paper, out of your mind, that can reliev you of these outbursts. But don't worry, everyone [even the goody-goodies] can have at least one finger pointed at them for saying something absolutley mean. It's okay :]
Hope I helpedd


I have never know my father, and I don't even know who he is. I have grown up without a positive role model and I have began to doubt all the choices that I have made. Every time I ask my family who he is I get two different stories, and then they change the subject. What should I do? I have nobody to turn to and I wish that I did. What should I do?? (link)
Maybe he wasn't such a positive role model, so your family doesn't like to talk about him. Try talking to them again and agian though, and don't let them change the subject because you deserve and have the right to know who he is. Can you contact him somehow? Maybe talk to your family about how you want to know who he is and that you've been deprived your father your whole entire life, and that you want to know; need to know, who he is.
Hope I helped and just keep on pushing them to talk to you! xxoo Good luckk
Understatementoftheyearx3


whats an online relationship?
like i know its a relationship online, but what consists of it?
Like do you meet the person online?
What goes on? (link)
well its when the couple dont live close enuf to have a real one


soo i live in a dorm at college and my floormates and i are pretty close. this one girl makes me really mad though. i used to consider her a best friend but shes such a whore. all she cares about is doing things with guys. i want to have a better semester but avoid her. how can i do this? she lives right down the hall and is always in my room hanging out. (link)
just tell her whats what a girl in college should care more about her education than guys its so stupid she can care about guys when she gets out of school but now she has to study hard just tell her that you dont apreciate her always talking about guys and stuff and if she dosnt take it the wrong way than she will stop and if she does take it the wrong way then she will stop bothering you so its a win win situation good luck i hope i helped and i hope that she gets her head in thoes books good luck


well this guy sat next to me last year. we became friends really good friends. He would flirt with me and i could tell he liked me.. all my friends said he deffinatly did.. but i never told him my true feelings because we were such good friends because i didnt want to lose him as a friend if he said he didnt like me so yeah then summer came and i saw him again in september (for school). And he would look alot at me. Many times we would make eye contact. and like 2 or so weeks ago my friend caught him talking to his friend saying he liked me and all this other stuff. And so like 4 days ago she asked him, "do u like(she said my name" and he said nope. and then my friend was going to leave and he said ,"i know she likes me." so my friend was confused because he said i know she likes me really happilly. well yesterday at school been wierd i caught him multiple times looking at me and he seems to be more shy. But today he was looking at me through the corners of his eyes. And i saw him look at me alot of times. He didnt really seem shy today.. he looked at me a lot. So i dont know what this all means? Please give some advice. Thanks in advance! (link)
He probably LIKES you. I mean, some guys aren't going to tell the person they like's friend that they like you...it's just not what they do because they know it gets around. And if he looks at you a lot, he is into you, look at him too, that's probably what he wants. Oh, and you should talk to him also, because he would like that...boys will be boys, some get shy when they know you like them, in his case, thats what he does. Good luck!
Hope sparks fly between you two :] (but they already did haha)


obviously i have a problem

my best friend has sides that i just cant stand.

I love her to death and i would jump in for a bullet for her.

But she can get on my nerves.

Shes the jelous type;

We hang out alllllll the time and when were not hanging out, were on the phone.

Lets say i have this other friend ... Sally
and i start to talk to her on the phone too,
and here is Susie ( my jelous best friend) saying " Ohh go be buddy buddy with her" Now what am i supposed to say to that. Like, she doesnt want me to talk to anyone else but her. Its like were a couple ha wow its sad and the same time sick.. But yeah , also she gets mad at anything little thing. shes a biggg drama starter. Like she'll get mad at these little jokes i make. Like she can make , you know make fun of in a joking kind of way, but i cant. Does that make sence?

For example the other day she got mad because i didnt pick up the phone for her!? well i was on the other line??? And honestly, i was too lazy to get up and switch over, by the way i didnt even know it was her on the other line.

My piont is, How do i get it out to her that she has to let me be. like in a nice way that wont get her become the next godzilla.

Also how do i tell her that she complains about the most useless stuff, too?

In a nice way too.

... I hope this makes sence.

wow.
well thanks for reading.
mucho appreciated (link)
I have a friend like that and she is SOOO clingy it can get overwhelming at times, so I know how you feel. When I was joking around with her, she got mad at me like every time, so I just said, "I like to kid around and it keeps life intresting, so I really want you to know that I'm not laughing at you, I'm laughing WITH you." she appreciated it, and tolerates my teasing and joking around.
And for the clingy part--that you want to have some space and "let you be"-- talk to her, tell her something like, "Susie, your my best friend, and we have tons of fun, but I also have other friends who I like too and I want to hang out and talk with them also."
Now, for the complaining [UGHH hate thatt] either change the subject and ignore her, OR say "There are bigger problems in the world girl."--jokingly of course to lighten things up OR just be like, "Can we not complain abouth the little things today, please?"
Hope that made sense and that I helped :]
Good luckk




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