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annoying dorm neighbor
soo i live in a dorm at college and my floormates and i are pretty close. this one girl makes me really mad though. i used to consider her a best friend but shes such a whore. all she cares about is doing things with guys. i want to have a better semester but avoid her. how can i do this? she lives right down the hall and is always in my room hanging out.
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I lived in a dorm my freshman year (five years ago!). There is nothing you can do about hundreds of freshmen and sophmores living in closed quarters. You will like some and dislike others.
Living in a dorm is probably an extension of High School (which is why I moved out the next year); a lot of people are immature, sex-crazed, freedom deprived, etc., etc. All I can tell you is that you are encountering many types of people- some of whom you dislike (like this girl).
You cannot expect to get along with everyone. If there is one girl who annoys you, all you can do is ignore her. It will be hard to avoid her completely since she lives on the same floor as you. Hang out with your own friends, don't make an effort to hang out with her, ignore her (but don't be mean)..whatever you can do to help her get the point. By the way, ask yourself if you dislike her as a person, or just because she sleeps around. Why exactly do you dislike her...
If your roommate also dislikes having her in the room, then you could discuss the matter with her as well. If she (the girl) does something to you (as in really bad, disrespectful, etc) then you can just be upfront with her and tell her exactly how you feel-and that you don't want her hanging around in your room. Simple as that.
But all in all, I guess what I'm meaning to say is don't get too worked up over one person. Have your own fun, hang out with your own friends, etc., and don't let her get to you too much. By focusing on other things, you can have a good semester.
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just ignore her. and if she still won't leae you alone, slap that bitch.j/k. hehe. if you don't want her to be with you tell her. and if she doesn't understand, than tell her she's not a very good person. and tell her she shouldstop "banging" peeps. thats not very educational
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just tell her whats what a girl in college should care more about her education than guys its so stupid she can care about guys when she gets out of school but now she has to study hard just tell her that you dont apreciate her always talking about guys and stuff and if she dosnt take it the wrong way than she will stop and if she does take it the wrong way then she will stop bothering you so its a win win situation good luck i hope i helped and i hope that she gets her head in thoes books good luck
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