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Alright well Just a fiew minutes ago this guy asked meh out. And a fiew weeks ago I really wanted to go out with him till I did stuff with him ( i sorta reegret it ) and I felt like he used meh. But he was pestering meh and all this stuff. and he was like we can hang out Ill bring you to movies and take you out to eat and all that stuff.. So I finaly just said yes. But I have a feeling he is still using me and I dont want that. I want a real relationship. Im suposed to hang out with him tomorrow but i dont know what to do cause i know he is gona ask me to do stuff and he is gona be like well we are going out now. so he will use that as an excuse. And I dont want to do stuff cause I know it will be because he is using me and doesnt really like me! What do I do. HOw do I know if he really likes me at all or if its ALL just for sexual stuff?
Love maddie
Ps im 14/f

if you have any doubts he's using you, go with them. you shouldnt feel this way. dont give in, because sex is a huge thing and you dont wanna regret it. talk to him. stay strong!

-hope this helped

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alright, this is my friends advice thing and i dont have one and dont feel like making one soo im gunna ask the question on here.


alright theres this kid Dj i like him soo much and the fact i told him exactly how i feel he just acted like he didnt care at all i mean seriously when ever my friend ( brooke ) goes out with this kid who is like my bestfriend we talk all the time ( jimmy ) like im always with them whenever they were together and dj was always there and i mean always... and he would always be all over me and leading me on and shit and he'd tell brooke he liked me and then she would be like are you gunna ask her out and hes like i duno maybe probably and she'd tell me and we would both be waiting for him to ask me out and then he would never do it and like.. after the last time he told brooke he liked me he ended up getting a girlfriend like.. a week later. and they are still together and i hate it we went to the movies and they were there all over each other and i cried and i dont even know what to do anymore i cant get over him i try but it doesnt happen please help i dont know what im gunna do anymore.

thanks.
amber

ps.. brooke still is like in love with jimmy and dj and jimmy are cousins and we are all exactly alike. jimmy and brooke are exactly alike and me and dj are exactly alike ..



thanks. i rate high

i think you should talk to DJ. he seems like hes juss leading you on and messing with your head. if he got another gf that quick, i dont think he likes you as much as he said. maybe hes afraid of asking you out because he doesnt know what you'll say? tell him how you feel and thats the best you can do. who knows, maybe if you talk to him he'll dump his gf and ask you out. maybe brooke er jimmy can help too.

good luck!

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15/f *Ohhkay, so i have this amazing guy..but we're just reallly good friends."with benifits" I love him and i know he loves me and we've been talking about "doing it" i know we are both ready, and we will def use protection. But my question is..do you think if we actaully do it..we wil end up going out? I mean,I would love to go out with him, and ive always wanted to.
So do you guys think if we do it that theres a possibility that he may like me more than a friend?!

Thanks so much guys/I'll rate HIGH!! ;)

-kristen

i dont think juss because you guys have sex itll end up you guys dating. you should ask him, because you dont wanna ruin the friendship, so juss talk to him about it.

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i'm just asking. ok, i'm new here. browsing thru some of the questions, i couldn't help noticing that some of the questions were made by 13-to-17-years-old people. is this a webpage for teenagers or just for everyone?need a little help here..

teens to adults

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I don't wear make-up AT ALL, and i wanted to start wearing some eye-shadow and things like that. I'm white, have golden-hazel eyes, and really red lips. THANX!!

the lighter the makeup you put on the better. makeup is meant to make it look like your not wearing any. go light. maybe pink er something.

-hope i helped

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ok now i have a boyfriend. hes nice, funny. and god hes gorgeous. But hes extremely sensitive and everything hurts his feelings. Hes jealous all the time and it drives me insane. He always has to be calling me or texting me when hes not with me, and im not the type of girl to expect him to do that. Hes got a life i know what hes doing, so its cool i dont stress over it. we've been together going on 7 months and as soon as i met him i fell for him. i've know him for like 8 months. Sounds like i need to break it off huh? If it were someone else thats what i would say. but honestly i cant. and i dont know why? like in a way i want to, but when it comes down to doing it i just cant. i forget about it. whats that mean?


i rate good if you take the time to help me out. thank you.

i think you should juss talk to him about it. i'm sure that if you juss said what you juss typed he'll understand and step back a bit. i dont think you should break up with him yet because he seems like a great guy. i rather have a guy be jealous then him not care at all. you know what i mean? juss talk to him, he'll understand.

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okay, i have a friend christie, and i hate her boyfriend, he makes fun of me, do i didnt talk to christie during school when lets say mike was with him...

and so though out the summer, i heard they made out and shes only 13 like me, and mike is 12.

and i havnt talked to christie sence, would it be wierd if i called her and made plans to get togeather soon?

all she talks about if him, all she does is hang with him! I feel so ingored! ++ i think shes going against me bc i called her a slut, bc she kissed mine in the middle of the park with the school, and everyone was going AWWWWWWWWWWWWW. and i was just like "wtf?"

and so i feel ignored and it bothers me, wee were TRUE best friends. true. secrets kept. midnight + phone calls. hanging out every friday. this all ended when school ended. what happened?


i want to ask her if she wants to go shopping with me at abercrombie and shit.... and she only shopped there bc thats what i wore, and i intorduced it too her. and so id think it be cool if i got to see her tomorrow on such sorty notice

would it be wierd for you if you were christie to just see me over the summer b4 school, and we didnt talk... ONCE?

PS: if christie tells mike, she was at my house, mike would be all like "ewwww why are you hanging with a faggot?" then it would interfear with the relation ship and id feel really really bad for doing that.

PSS im the "nice girl" to everyone, i cant yell at them and be like "im not friends with you" unless if i was FORCED too...

hector jr took my answer again..

who is this kid

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I'm planning a surprise birthday party for my nephew. He'll be 11 in a couple weeks. He's really into army stuff, so I'm using that for the theme. Does anyone know of any party games that fit a camouflage/army theme? I'm going to make the cake myself, so I could use some suggestions on how to decorate it. Thanks!

CAPTURE THE FLAG!

its like the best game =)

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Ok so my best guy friends are freshman and im a sophmore and all i can say is that i love them more then life itself. i would seriously do anything for them. well they just became freshman so they will be moving up in my youth group at church,and they will be with me more.my friend adrienne(who is also a freshman)and i are kinda like leaders in our grade. and my guys friends(the freshman) are known to sometimes talk during service and they just pretty much dont care about it. my friend adrienne and i have gotten in trouble many times because of them talkin but we love them so much we just defend them. so we are trying to decide whether or not we need to still sit with them in church , because we are scared that they might bring us down. please let me emphasize how much i love this guys the thought of telling them that i wont sit with them brings almost brings me to tears. im just really stumped i need help please

do what you need to do. if you juss go with your heart everything will be okay.

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How do I delete a myspace?

juss take everything outta it. your picture, font colors, everything. i think thats all you can do but im not sure. er go to like 'edit my myspace' and see if theres a button to click er something.

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my cell phone plan is verizon and I know I have free nights and weekends. free nights starts at 9pm, but what time does it end? I'm only allowed to talk on my phone when it's free nights and weekends. Last night my boyfriend called my cell phone at 4:15am, and the day before he called me around 3am. Will I get charged for this? what time does free nights end?

uhh mine ends at like 7 am. so i think ur good!

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I got a lot of my friends mad at me for a stupid reason (long story) and now i only have....hm....2 friends.I think. I'm really bored because I have nothing to do. I don't really care that they don't like me but it bothers me that they think I did something really "bad" when I dissagree. This is a stupid question....I need help on what I should do about my "friends" and what I could do in my spare time by myself.

Thanks!!

alot of that is going around now. friends always fight and stuff and im going through the same problem. juss talk to them about it, i try to find people that wont get mad at you over things like that. you dont have to be by yourself, but if you want to do stuff you can like exersize, watch tv, do advise columns! im sure you'll meet more people that you can become friends with easily.

-hope i helped

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i was wonderingg.. where can i find like cute girly layouts for myspace like messy hearts* colorful polka dots.. etc.

where i can find cute black and white xanga icons

how to put xanga icons on a myspace and make them together and scroll ( do i use html)

where i can get some cute like little things for myspace in cute writnig and font colors that says like Life is better juicy .. sugar we're goin down..etc i know theres many of ppl that know what i mean

..anyone that answers this .. not stupidly i will honestly rate them a 5 =) kk thanks. ♥♥

oh! theres so many cute 1s. ill find a few for you.

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=caliixlays

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=X_TANNEd_LAYS_X

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=X_hawtlayouts

-feedback if you need more

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ok well im really confused. i like 4 guys
i dont wanna say names (this is gonna sound mean) but im gonna call them numbers haha

boy #1-hes a complete jerk to me. but he says hes just kidding around...he says i mean the world to him...we went out for about a month and he said that he could be with me forever. but then he dumped me...we're still friends and i think i love him but hes been being a jerk to me lately. and i dont like it! and he just laughs at me when i say STOP BEING A JERK! hes like you kno im just kidding...and he doesnt get it that i DONT LIKE IT!

boy #2--i met him a couple weeks ago and we got drunk together. we had fun and flirted and he said he really liked me...i started falling for him slowly. he really wants to hang out with me again...but the past few days, my friends have been screwing things up for us. by saying i dont like him and i dont wanna do ne thing with him and just being really mean!!!...so i havent talked to #2 in a few days and im gettin kinda worried he doesnt like me ne more (out of the 4 boys...i like him the most!) we might go to the movies on friday and im going to his cookout on saturday. im just not sure what to do or say to him if i really do like him

boys #3--hes my best friend. we went out 2 years ago. nuthin big...and then we didnt talk for like 1 and a half years. then he IMed me and we talked and started hanging out. we went 2 the beach together. and he came over my house after...nuthin happened. just hung out..then he came over my house today and he was flirting with me soooo bad! like cuddling...and then we went in my jaccuzzi and he like held me in his arms...it was really sweet. it felt perfect. but its just so weird kuz hes like my best friend! and i dont know if i should tell him or not...i've never thought of him as a b/f...and now its just kinda weird that i sorta like him....

and finally...boys #4--i just kinda have a crush on him...he likes my best friend. but she doesnt like him back....i just wanna kno if i should get to know him better or just stay friends because of all these other stupid boys in my life!! haha

soooo i just wanna know which boy i should talk to more...or what i should talk to them about....or any advice you can give me

plz and thxx!!!

hector jr stole my answer

people these days..

=)

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Ok so when im going to have my period, im scared that people will know that im changing my pads.. is there anyway on how to silence things up? it gets really embarassing for me cause im a tomboy...

go with the last few answers. here are some suggestions

1-wrap it while its flushing cause then its barely noticeable
2-theres a new pad out that makes barely any noise
3-it shouldnt matter, because every1 in the girls bathroom has to deal with it at 1 point

good luck!

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OK so for some reason, my xanga wont show my entries. Like after i put in the layout, the entries were gone, and i cannot get them bac. This isnt the first time it has happened, so i dont need to change the layout. Can anyone help me? pleeees help me, i rate 5's

sometimes that happens because of the code of the layout. if theres a "hide toolbar" code itll make the entries disappear. you need to either find a new layout, talk to the owner, or fix the codes.

-hope i helped

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PLEASE HELP ME!!!! I've been invited to a pool party, but the problem is that i've got to wear a bikini and i've noticed some fairly noticable hair on my chest and stomach and it's on ym back aswell. You can see it in the light and when it gets wet, it's REALLY noticable. Does anyone know what to do????? I will rate 5s for good advice.

P.S. I can't wear a costume, i haven't got one and it's too late to go and buy one now!!!!

you can juss shave it. it takes like 5 mins.

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How and where can you get backgrounds for your advice column or can't you...please answer thanx in advance...

if you go to the main page of advicenators you can customize em.

-hope that helps

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im going to go get my tongue periced but i want it double periced can they do 2 pericings in my tongue on the same day or do i have to get a first one wait a couple weeks then get a second one??
x33 thanks

wait a few to see how the first 1 turns out/feels, etc.

it'll be safer that way.

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can anyone reccommend any good, upbeat country songs? kinda like what was i thinkin' by dierks bentley?

some good 1s are

she thinks my tractors sexy-kenny chesny

nothin to lose-josh gracin [its really good]

or you can go to

www.musicgalore.net and go to the country section

-hope that helps!

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