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not talkng though the summer


Question Posted Thursday August 11 2005, 3:07 am

okay, i have a friend christie, and i hate her boyfriend, he makes fun of me, do i didnt talk to christie during school when lets say mike was with him...

and so though out the summer, i heard they made out and shes only 13 like me, and mike is 12.

and i havnt talked to christie sence, would it be wierd if i called her and made plans to get togeather soon?

all she talks about if him, all she does is hang with him! I feel so ingored! ++ i think shes going against me bc i called her a slut, bc she kissed mine in the middle of the park with the school, and everyone was going AWWWWWWWWWWWWW. and i was just like "wtf?"

and so i feel ignored and it bothers me, wee were TRUE best friends. true. secrets kept. midnight + phone calls. hanging out every friday. this all ended when school ended. what happened?


i want to ask her if she wants to go shopping with me at abercrombie and shit.... and she only shopped there bc thats what i wore, and i intorduced it too her. and so id think it be cool if i got to see her tomorrow on such sorty notice

would it be wierd for you if you were christie to just see me over the summer b4 school, and we didnt talk... ONCE?

PS: if christie tells mike, she was at my house, mike would be all like "ewwww why are you hanging with a faggot?" then it would interfear with the relation ship and id feel really really bad for doing that.

PSS im the "nice girl" to everyone, i cant yell at them and be like "im not friends with you" unless if i was FORCED too...



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VainTaraLynn answered Sunday August 14 2005, 12:50 am:
Wow. All I can say is that if your friend is going to ditch you and pick her boyfriend over her girl, than that isnt exactly a good friend. i think you should try not to talk to her as much untill she possibly drops the boyfriend. or you can be a good friend and try to be there for her but i dont understand the use in that if she isnt going to be a good friend back to you.

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shutupnkissme98 answered Thursday August 11 2005, 7:10 pm:
i think you should talk to her and tell her how you feel.tell her that you still want to be friends mike or no mike and ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. but i think you were kinda over reacting about them kissing in the park. its not that big of a deal and that doesnt make her a slut. so i think you just need to talk to her.hope i helped XoXo

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AcousticxLullabies answered Thursday August 11 2005, 4:40 pm:
Wow. This is some immature drama.

WHO CARES?

I sure don't.

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xomegaroni answered Thursday August 11 2005, 8:39 am:
hector jr took my answer again..

who is this kid

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HectorJr answered Thursday August 11 2005, 8:11 am:
Tell her all that you wrote right there. Print it and do it in person or something. No relationship is too big to exclude friends. Even married people have friends and go to peoples houses all the time. What, does that mean they don't love the person they married? No of course not. So I don't see why you couldn't hang out with Christie or go over her house. You should tell her how you feel about Mike as well, because as a friend, would probably be willing to do something about it or put him aside for awhile. Hopefully that works out. Things might not work out between them, in which case boy/girl friends dissapear, but friends are always there before and after that. So talk to her and do ask her to hang out. Tell her that talking about him annoys you, because she would most likely stop doing that as much. Good luck.

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goodlttlgrl89 answered Thursday August 11 2005, 7:54 am:
AHH wat you have just said is the story of my life im goin through the same thing right now. right now im just letting my friend have her way with her bf and i dont like him and she apparently doesnt like me as much as she likes him so i dotn care. but i dont think there would be anything wrong in callin her to go shopping. just dont get to attached

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pinkpirate answered Thursday August 11 2005, 7:53 am:
Well I didnt talk to one of my friends for a year because i was going to a diffrent school and i made plans to hangout yeah it does seem kind of weird but if you really want to hang out with her then call her and ask her



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