i think my friend lucy might like my other friend jessica's ex, or jessica's ex might like her or both. theyre both (jessica & lucy) my good friends. the thing is, jessica and this guy broke up a year ago but she just cant get over him ): i feel bad for her and i wish she could find a guy that deserved her. i know if lucy and this guy end up going out, jessica will come to me to try and talk about it. jessica already has told me about seeing them in the hallway together or something so she thinks they like eachother (dont ask me why). she always thinks all these girls and her ex are gonna go out and they never end up going out but it really gets her down. whenver lucy tells me stuff ab this guy, i dont tell jessica bc i wouldnt betray lucy. i dont want to betray either jessica or lucy though. what should i do? should i try and help jess find a new guy? what should i say when jessica says stuff to me about how she thinks lucy and this guy like each other?
I think you need to seriously have a talk with Jessica and tell her that she needs to get over her ex. Its been a year! I know its hard (Ive had friends that cant get over their exes) but tell her he's going to see other girls, and that she should get out there and try going out with other guys! Once she does, she'll be happier. I think its a great idea for you to help Jess find a new guy but dont make it seem like youre trying to push her into anything too early. Simply ask her to hang out and if its allright if your guy friend came who you think she might like. Also, try to talk to Lucy about not being too obvious about going out with Jess's ex-boyfriend. Hopefully, she will sympathize and understand where Jess is coming from! Theres honestly not much YOU can do. Maybe Lucy and Jess's ex wont even go out! Who knows? I would try to stay out of it and let whatever happens, happens. Its not really your deal and youre not betraying one or helping the other. Youre trying to be a good friend to both. I think telling them that will help, too. But it would really help to try not to get involved that much..Ive learned from experience if you do, it will backfire. I understand they turn to you for advice but just try to listen to what their saying. Its all just guy drama & most likely it will blow over soon! So I wouldnt worry.
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what does 1st base 2nd base 3rd base and all the way home mean? i feel kinda stupid because people are always like did you get past 1st base? and stuff. thanks.
Its different for a lot of people. It depends on what your opinion is. But heres a GENERAL explanation:
First Base = French kissing [open mouth/tongue.]
Second Base = Touching girl's breasts. AKA "Feeling up."
Third base = Touching the other person's private areas or genitals. Handjob, fingering, etc.
Homerun = sex. vaginal intercourse.
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Okay.. so in school i have the biggest mouth, i talk alot, and i am very outgoing and i have alot of friends. But at home.. or when im not in school.. Im very quiet and shy.. and i dont hang out with anyone. Is there a reason that im basically two different people? is there a way that i can change this?
Big thank you in advance!
Its because at home you feel comfortable and school is a very social setting. Therefore, of course at school you talk more and you are more outgoing. Its definitely the atmosphere. Dont worry - its not abnormal to not be outgoing outside of school. If you really want to hang out with people & be more outgoing outside of school, you have to call them and ask them to hang out. :]
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is it true that guys like s more? and why? is it because they're "dumb" and "will give easier?" im a by the way. but can someone help me out?
Not every guy likes blondes. It just seems like it because it is kind of a "cool" thing to like blondes. It is a stereotype that will never die. I dont know who invented that blondes have more fun, but hair color does NOT affect ability to have fun, attractiveness, intellect, or sluttiness. Thats all just silliness. :] Ignore it and make it a goal to beat the stereotypes about blondes!
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I have a question about what to wear with skirts. I am very new to this. I haven't worn a skirt by choice before. I was thinkin of wearing one to school for the first time, because my boyfriend has only seen me in pants since we have been dating haha (11 months) and i have decided to wear a skirt for him. My question now is what kind've shoes would you wear, like i find it weird to wear boots with a skirt or running shoes with a skirt, could ya help me out? Also any other advice for wearing skirts. Wow, im very embarassed... haha
Uggs! They are in style in my school..everybody has them. Plus, they look really good with denim skirts and leg warmers. You can get them at Hollister, really cute. http://i10.tinypic.com/2d0gvp2.jpg
You can also wear a skirt with flip flops, which is what I usually do, but its more of a summer thing. Also, it depends on where you live. If its cold where you live, flip flops arent the best option.
Ballet flats. Really really common & in style right now. You can get them pretty much any store you go to. I think these are cute: http://i16.tinypic.com/33pdbuw.jpg - theyre Steve Madden.
Sweater boots are also really cute for wintertime & different from Uggs. (http://i16.tinypic.com/2jazxbd.jpg) - From Delias.
Also, a pair of high heels or kitten heels always go with skirts :]
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Ok i've posted many questions concidering this guy i'm totally in love w/ who's home from college. Well last year when he was a senior (i- a freshman) we talked ALOT and hung out quite often and that's how i fell for him. Well one day his friends told my friends that he had a "thing" for me.. what is a "thing"? and if he had a "thing" then why doesn't he like me openely? I mean the whole letter i wrote to him and he didn't write i like or even kinda like you back so.. what gives?
A "thing" probably means he liked you, and he wanted to hang out with you/date you. But he didnt want to have a totally serious relationship. When a guy is older (especially if he's in college and you arent) they tend to not want to be tied down which is probably why he didnt write you back. He didnt want to lead you on and see you get hurt.
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why do guys think lesbian action is so hot? why do they get turned on when girls touch each other and stuff? yet im a girl and i think its gross when guys touch each other/makeout.. i dont get it
Okay, I asked my guy friend since I cant really answer that. Sorry if its hard to understand, hes really smart :D
"guys are stimulated by most types of sexual action. To see two girls going at it will conjour up preminitions of a menage a trois. Some guys do not like to see a fellow dude in a video and would rather opt for two beautiful women."
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I just got a Steelers jersey for Christmas. Unfortunately their last game is on this Sunday coming. I can still wear the jersey right? Like to school and stuff even though their season is over? I know a lot of you will say, "who cares what you wear?" But, I just want to make sure that other people are doing it too. Because, Steelers aren't that big where I live.
Thanks! =]
If you like it, wear it! I know people who wear for example, baseball hates & shirts from other states than where I live, NOW and it isnt baseball season! Chances are, no one will care and if they DO, theyre stupid. Who cares if its not in season or style. Theyre not the fashion police. :]
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i want my hair to grow faster how can i make this happen?
any ways would help..besides-dont say wait,vitamins,or get trimmed. i know all these
Basically, there is no magic way to make your hair grow faster. But these 8 things will help.
1. Drink Recommended Daily Amount Of Water
Coffee, tea, sugar drinks or beer does not count in your daily water count. Water means exactly that - water. Carbonated and caffeinated drinks may actually speed up dehydration which means that the body is not functioning at optimal levels. Not only can dehydration make you feel drained and exhausted, it can be a hidden factor in hair growth stoppage, dry strands or tresses that break off.
Adjust your daily levels according to the seasons of the year (hot weather may require more daily water consumption) and the amount of stress in your life.
When pressed for exact formulas, most experts can not give a simple answer to how much water humans should drink every day. A general rule of thumb is for women to drink between 2 and 2.6 liters of water a day. For men the rule of thumb is 2.8 to 3.5 liters.
There are many exceptions to this general rule of thumb which are tied back to age, lifestyle, weight and climate. In essence, experts advise that you replace all the water that you excrete every day.
2. Drink Green Tea
As always, experts disagree with the merits of green tea and whether or not it does conclusively help hair health and encourage growth.
Experts who believe in the hair health benefits of green tea point to the fact that certain compounds found in green tea cause the relaxation of blood vessels, helping overall cardiovascular activity through increased circulation. Of course increased circulation will naturally help nourish hair roots and scalp tissues.
3. Take A Brisk Walk Several Times A Week
Experts have discovered that walking at a quick pace for just 15 minutes will help to raise your normal heart rate which improves circulation to your entire body, including to your scalp and hair follicles. It also helps shake out the cobwebs and aids in a feeling of alertness and energy.
The ideal time to take a walk is about one hour after a meal. This allows your body to digest and puts less overall strain on your system.
Of course it is important to always consult with your personal physician before beginning any new exercise routine that would be strenuous in any way.
It is also best to avoid walking at the hottest times of the day. And yes, don't forget your sunscreen, regardless of the time of year that you walk, which is why many people have become devoted mall walkers.
4. Get Enough Sleep
Many people are sleep deprived. As a result of daily stresses and strains studies have found that humans are getting less and less sleep. For the body to function at optimal capability, which includes having the necessary energy to nourish and grow hair, humans need enough sleep.
Unfortunately there is no pat answer for how much sleep is enough. Again, it depends on the individual. Most sleep experts recommend an average of 6-8 hours for active adults. Depending on age, health conditions and other factors you may need more than 8 or be able to survive on a little less.
As a result of more sleep deprived people, cat naps are becoming more popular. A great way to get a daily energy boost is to schedule a 20 minute cat nap. Be sure not to sleep longer than 20 minutes though or else you will more tired than before you napped. Studies have shown that 20 minutes is the very best amount of time for getting maximum benefit. So set an alarm for exactly 20 minutes and catch some mid-day Zzzs.
5. Eat Energy Snacks
When hunger hits between meals, eat to nourish your hair roots. Reach for one handful of unsalted natural cashews or a few almonds. Almonds are loaded with magnesium which is an essential mineral for growing healthy strands.
Other good hair healthy snacks include yogurt, hard boiled eggs and tofu which all have great nutrients to help hair grow.
6. Indulge In Daily Aromatherapy
Many studies have been done on the effects of aromatherapy when used in daily or regular scalp massages for both healthy hair and scalp as well as overall health.
Studies have found that there is a direct link between the use of aromatherapy and hair growth.
A study performed by the Archives of Dermatology in 1998 by Scottish researchers found that aromatherapy can promote new hair growth. Patients who massaged various aromatherapy oils on their scalps every day enjoyed significant and measurable improvement in their hair growth.
7. Laughter Is The Best Medicine
Attitude is everything. Studies have shown that chronic negative moods can impact the human body and cause all human systems to slow down or become sluggish. This includes the circulatory system which feeds the roots of the hair, helping it to grow and remain properly nourished. When life gets you down rent a funny movie or read a humorous book. Take a break and have some fun to light your mood.
8. Eat Power Foods
Extreme diets that eliminate major food groups Always eat a balanced food plan that incorporates healthy amounts of proteins and carbs. Don't forget to take either your daily vitamins or your hair growth vitamins like HairTopia vitamins.
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okay i've never had sex before and don't plan on it for a long time. my boyfriend & i of 7 months will make out n do stuff like that naked. he'll ejaculate on like my thigh but not my vagina, is there anyway from that that i could get pregnant? can you get pregnant from a guy not going into you, like if it touches my region is there a chance of me geting pregnant or something? please help! thankss a bunchh xox.
No. Heres the deal - the sperm actually has to be ejaculated INTO your vagina. Once it hits the air, it wont get you pregnant. You have nothing to worry about.
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this kid called me pretty & called me twice today & said how he missed me, we dated a couple months ago
does he like me again?
Sounds like it. :]
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What excatly is an orgasm?
Peak or climax during sex or masturbation.
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when guys say how big their penis is do they say how big it is with or without an erection?
WITH an erection. That is the easiest time to measure it AND it is the longest then. Who wouldnt want to make their penis as big as it possibly could be? :]
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"Ok please no funny answers and I want to know if Keisha is overreacting. Today at work Keisha was down on her hands and knees rearranging the cabinets in the work area and Keishas butt (rear end/booty) was sticking up in the air. Ginny (a coworker) passed by and said; Gee your butt looks big; This upset Keisha so she went over and asked; Ginny do you really think my butt is big; and Ginny replied (smiling the whole time); Well it must been the angle because you look fine standing up. I was joking.; Keisha said; But do you think my butt is big; Ginny replied; No; But this still bothered Keisha, however, Keisha didnt say anything and about a half hour later Ginny asked Keisha if she was ok and Keisha said; well it still bothers me; Keisha said; If your butt was big I wouldnt joke around like that. One never says something like that to someone who has a big butt; Keisha agreed and walked away. Throughout the day Ginny kept telling Keisha she was joking; However, about two hours later Ginny said to Keisha; I was joking; you have to gain; I was joking; MY QUESTION: DO YOU THINK KEISHA IS OVERREACTING; AND (2) WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THE ENTIRE CONVERSATION (0THER THAN SAYING IT IS SILLY) (KEEP IN MIND LAST WEEK ANOTHER COWORKER SAID TO KEISHA YOU ARE SO SKINNY DONT YOU EAT)"
All I can think of is that some people are really body self-concious and maybe Keisha has been having self-esteem issues. After all, people who are like that are very sensitive and even a JOKE can set them off and make them feel terrible. So, its probably best not to even joke about it but I understand Ginny was just kidding (It is pretty funny.) I think Keisha was overreacting but only because she has body issues and I probably want people to joke about my body either. But saying someone has a big butt is kind of a compliment, its really not that bad. Anyway, tell Ginny to stop telling Keisha she is sorry, because this will only bring up old emotions for Keisha and will only re-start the drama. Just let it go - Im sure she will forget about it.
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i lik this guy but we havent talked in a long time i used to lik him alot but then he left me hangin for my best friend for the longest time wat should i do
He doesnt sound like a good guy if he left you hanging for your best friend. But, who knows, maybe he's changed and likes you. I would try talking to him. Send him a text or IM or whatever, and say "Hi, whats up? I havent talked to you in forever." Just to see what happens.
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Is there any way to make your boobs look bigger? I know, awkward lol, but i'd love to know....
A really good push up bra OR a "natural bra."
http://www.naturalbra.com/
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f/16.. ok i have stretch marks on my upper arms and on my sides.. why? i mean i used to lift weights and then i stopped.. ok that doesn't make sense i guess im just wondering why i have them and how to get rid of them. ahh!
Stretch marks occur a lot during puberty. It is because of either gaining a lot of weight, or losing a lot of weight. Your skin stretches out and this is very common. But also, you said you lifted weights - bodybuilders get stretch marks because of the rapid body changes that bodybuilding can produce.
I looked up ways to get rid of them. And every site said there pretty much isnt a way to get rid of them. Most of the treatments (like laser) are hundreds of dollars. However, I found this: "Retin-A cream (prescribed by a dermatologist) may give some subtle improvement in reducing the redness by causing blood vessels to constrict. Once the redness fades, the red stretch marks become white stretch marks. Unfortunately, no topical lotion will eliminate the marks completely."
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he is talking to this other girl saying she is sooo hotttt and crap and he is flirting with her i need help what should i do dump him
Tell him how you feel and that it makes you concerned when he tells other girls they are hot and flirts with other girls. Let him know youre not trying to be jealous, you just really dont want to get hurt. Tell him you love him and you want to try to work things out. But, be firm and strong because sometimes if a guy is cheating (Im not saying he is, because obviously I have no idea.) they will try to act all sweet and "baby" you. So, watch out for that! I believe in second chances in case it was a misunderstanding, so I think you should give him one. But, if he keeps doing it, DUMP him, you dont deserve that!
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waht should i do everybody hates me because im ugly how can i make me pretter so i can have more friends
If the people youre trying to be friends with dont like you because youre "ugly" theyre bitches..why would you WANT to hang out with them?
Im sure youre very pretty and I highly doubt that they HATE you because youre "ugly". No one is that shallow or at least that many people can be shallow. Have you thought maybe it was your personality? Not trying to be mean here, but I used to think EXACTLY how you thought! I thought people didnt like me because I wasnt the prettiest girl in my school & I didnt wear designer clothes. But, I ended up (people told me) figuring out that it was my personality. I had bad self esteem and it was annoying to hang out with someone who was constantly putting themselves down all the time. Those kind of people arent as fun to hang out with! I think if you really do think youre ugly, you need to build up your self esteem. Maybe talking to a therapist would help you or a friend or a parent. Because its not good to not think youre pretty..it could lead to depression or suicide. So please get help. ♥
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alright so me and this boy have been hooking up. not having sex but hanging out and getting really close and we have done stuff. well he has this ex g/f. and shes like crazy stalkerish. he told be that they have been broken up for like 3 weeks. well she made him a myspace and everything and it said they were still goin out. well i asked him and he said no they werent. well then on his myspace he took down all the pics of them kissing and put single on it. so i added him. well then i just seen that he deleted me and there are pictures of them kissing again. and she put on there she loves him. and it says in a relationship. but i really dont think that its him on there. i dont think he would go back out with her. i think its her on his myspace putting things on there. me & him were supposed to hang out today but i dont know if i should call him. i know he likes me. like on saturday night i was supposed to go to a party he was at but i couldnt find a ride. he did everything in his power he could to get me a ride. he walked in on this naked guy and begged him to come pick me up. plus i was in the other room and i heard his friend say something about me and my guy was like "im in love with her". should i still call him and hang out with him?
I would tell him you like him, BUT he needs to 100% get rid of his ex. Like not talk to her, etc. Because she does seem crazy stalkerish. The bad thing about THAT is if he has someone like that around, he might be playing you. You know, keeping her aside so he can have 2 girls. Im not sure, it just sounds that way. And he might not even be into her anymore, its just having someone else around (especially an ex) is tempting. It will probably ruin your relationship in some way so I say wait till you KNOW for SURE (like he tells you.) that theres nothing going on and hes not on her myspace or whatever.
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