alright so me and this boy have been hooking up. not having sex but hanging out and getting really close and we have done stuff. well he has this ex g/f. and shes like crazy stalkerish. he told be that they have been broken up for like 3 weeks. well she made him a myspace and everything and it said they were still goin out. well i asked him and he said no they werent. well then on his myspace he took down all the pics of them kissing and put single on it. so i added him. well then i just seen that he deleted me and there are pictures of them kissing again. and she put on there she loves him. and it says in a relationship. but i really dont think that its him on there. i dont think he would go back out with her. i think its her on his myspace putting things on there. me & him were supposed to hang out today but i dont know if i should call him. i know he likes me. like on saturday night i was supposed to go to a party he was at but i couldnt find a ride. he did everything in his power he could to get me a ride. he walked in on this naked guy and begged him to come pick me up. plus i was in the other room and i heard his friend say something about me and my guy was like "im in love with her". should i still call him and hang out with him?
tell him you don't want him speaking
with his ex because you think
she's creepy. i'm sure if he loves you
that much to walk in on a naked guy,
than he would stop talking an ex.
it seems like he really loves you, so i
wouldn't worry about it. dont assume hes
cheating on you because he seems like a good
guy. ex's will do anything to break couples
up. so just don't let her get to you [ adviice_whore's advice column | Ask adviice_whore A Question ]
duudee_advicer answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 2:25 pm: Sure, call him up.
Why lose out on a great boy
just because of same insane jealous creep?
When it comes to MySpace you can never be sure.
So when you're on the phone with him, just
casually ask him if they're still going out.
If he asks why, just let him know his myspace
is wacked up. :D
I'd talk to him about getting rid of
her like the previous advicer said. No one
wants a girl like that always prowling around
their guy. Let him know shes kind of creeping
you out, he should understand.
xomichelle891xo answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 1:55 pm: I would tell him you like him, BUT he needs to 100% get rid of his ex. Like not talk to her, etc. Because she does seem crazy stalkerish. The bad thing about THAT is if he has someone like that around, he might be playing you. You know, keeping her aside so he can have 2 girls. Im not sure, it just sounds that way. And he might not even be into her anymore, its just having someone else around (especially an ex) is tempting. It will probably ruin your relationship in some way so I say wait till you KNOW for SURE (like he tells you.) that theres nothing going on and hes not on her myspace or whatever. [ xomichelle891xo's advice column | Ask xomichelle891xo A Question ]
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