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Im asken this ? again cuz i still dunno wat 2 do n im hopeing this time i will get more responces! Well i went out wit this kid last year.. in september, lets call him 'Bob'. N we went out for mayb a week or two, then he broke up with me.. n me n bob i know both feel this way cuz he told me many of times, that wen we were with eachother... it just felt perfect, n even tho we have a 2year age difference it didnt even matter! N omg wen im with him it just feels soo right like i wanna be with him forever.. even if im 13 n hes 15 i mean like i -CANT- say yeah i wanna marry this kid but thats just how it feels kinda, i mean not marry him.. but i wud stay with him for very long n try to make it last as long as possible. But newayz after we broke up we argued alot, then in december, close to my birthday we started talken again, n i gess we kinda liked eachother, even tho i always had feelings for him. But then sumthing happend, he went away til umm June. Wow that was probly the hardest time i hadta face so far in life. I went crazy, i thot about him a few times a week, eventually i thought about him less and less. Then he came back. We talked alot, i told him i still had feelings for him, he told me he thot bout me wen he was away, then he went out w.sum girl, we lost touch for a lil, then started talken again. N i read him 1 of the poems i wrote wen he was away, i never thot i wud read that, but i did, n i dunno we were talken n i dunno if he likes me or not, itll be a year of likeing him this september, i mean i went out with other ppl in that year, but it wasnt tha same. But now.. he kinda likes sum girl, lets call her 'K', n i tell him to go out w/her n stuff, but i am really jealous, i just act like i want him 2 be happy... well i do, it just wont make me happy if hes with her. Wat shud i do? i rate very very good just please help me!
x0x signed confused n depressed (link)
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well it sounds to me like you loved him. and you still do. i think you should talk to him and tell him how you really feel. tell him that you cant stop thinking about him and how strong your feelings are. see how he feels but tell him that you still want to be friends if it doesnt work out again. if it felt perfect the first time then it might be like that again. hope it all works out. good luck.
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I need an idea for a date. I don't know they guy real well, we've only talked 2 times. So i want to get to know him, and i'm kinda nervous that going to a movie would me akward. Please give me ideas. (link)
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well, you could go to a place and get some food. that way you guys can talk and get to know eachother....then maybe you could go for a walk somewhere or something. hope i helped at all.
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i need help. i like my best friend. and im not sure if he likes me. and i really like him. he says if we go out it could ruin our relationship. but hes went out with almost all of his best friends.i want his so bad. i havnt had a boyfriend for a long time, and this could be my chance PLEASE DONT DELETE I NEED HELP IM SO CONFUSED! (link)
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well, make sure you tell him that if you do go out that even if it doesnt work out that you still want to be friends because hes too imortant to lose him. and i think you should go for it. my bf became my best friend and we both know that even if we did break up that we would still want to be in eachothers lives. hope i helped.
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This might sound a lil weird.. but im 15 and i was wondering when is the best age to start having sex? (link)
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you should start having sex whenever you think you're ready. if you dont think you are then you should wait. not everyone is ready to have sex at the same age and some people want to wait until they are married. hope i helped.
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i have this one best friend and i really want him to be my freind again.. and well its not worrking because his girlfriend doesnt want us to be freinds and she is totally like ruining everyhing..and well i just want this freind back but i dont kow how to get him back.
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well.....he doesnt want to be friends with you and i know this for a fact. he had no reason not to not be friends with you because he had no one better or anything but now he says his g/f is more important and he doesnt want to be friends with you at all. he knew how you were all along. and if you wanted to know why didn't you just ask me. i woudld have told you L.G.
(everyone dont think im a bitch but i know who the person is and this is really what her friend said)
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I am the tallest girl(13) in our grade... and i feel like no guys wanna go out with me because im taller then them i dunno what to do i am afraid to ask guys out because of rejection and i sometimes feel akward in school what should i do? (link)
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well, if you like sports then go out for the basketball team lol. nah you dont really have to do that. but maybe some guys do like you but they're too afraid to tell you. its just how some guys are. it shouldnt matter how tall you are or how much you weigh or anything. its just that you had your growth spirt before they did. they'll catch up soon enough. hope i helped.
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i just found out that one of my best friends has been telling people that i was pregnant and had a miscarriage before, it really hurt when i found out, especially when i found out that this was why my boyfriend broke up with me, i want to tell her how i feel but i have no clue what to say, any ides on what i should do? (link)
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well first you should ask her why she told everyone this. and then tell her all the problems its caused you. and how upset you are. then you should tell her if you still want to be friends with her or not. hope i helped.
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school is startin and so is football
I really dont care for football im all basketball and a little track
i played football for 3 years and didnt really like it. but al my friends want me to play
watta ya think (8th grade) (link)
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i think you should do what ever you want to do. its your life, not your friends. you should decide for yourself. you shouldnt do something to make your friends happy. you only get one life you live it the way you want to. hope i helped.
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I talk to this guy all the time and he wants to date me. I kinda like him to...The problem: everytime we talk he only seems to be interested in what im wearing. Im not sure if he really likes me or just wants to get with me. Could he just be making conversation? What do I do? (link)
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well, try wearing something that you wouldnt normaly wear. or just flat out ask him about it. and if you can tell if hes lieing then ignore him because hes a jerk and isnt worth your time. look him straight in the eye if you do ask him though and if he looks away then hes most likely lieing. or you could get one of your friends to ask him or one of his friends. hope i helped.
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i didnt kno wut to put this under... since it kinda has to do with sumthing my parents hav to deal with i put it under familyz. well you kno how when u have ur period that that first daii iz the worst and that you go to sleep and stuff of coarse you have a thingy on and stuff but how do you not stain your bed? i alwayz hav trouble with that and i had to throw away a thing of sheets becuz of it. sum1 plz help. iz there like sum secret to it? help! (link)
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well theres really no secret to it. it will always happen if its that heavy. but when mine gets like that i either keep waking up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom, or i just sleep on a towel. that way it wont go through to the sheets and you dont have to throw them out. and if it does get on the towel then you can just continue to use the same one every time you get your period(but still wash it ofcorse) hope i helped.
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I'm friends with this one guy and I like him alot. I've heard that he used to like me too, but I'm not exactly sure if it's true. he is the only guy I've ever felt this way about, and I know it sounds stupid of me to say that because we are only 14. In the past, he has hurt me bad emotionally and once physically. But now, everything between us it great we talk all the time I just don't know if I should tell him how I feel, just forget about him, or keep it a secret. Me and him are like best friends.. I don't want to screw up our friendship..
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well if you're best friends then you should tell him how you feel but tell him that you still want to be friends, even if it doesnt work out between you two. you dont want to lose him as a friend. just becareful if you do hook up because he has hurt you in the past, so just dont let your guard down. hope i helped.
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my doctor does check-ups on me, im a 13 female, and he's a male. he always checks my breasts for things so he knows nothings wrong--like for lumps or something .. none of my other friends have their doctor do this .. my doctor practically squeezes me, and he always unzips my pants and looks down them and feels around. like i said, none of my friend's doctor's do this, and some of them have the same doctor as me. what do you think is going on? is he doing this sexually, or just being a doctor? (link)
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you should talk to your mom about it. if hes only doing that to you and not your other friends then it is a possibility. my doctor looks, but deffinitly doesnt feel around. you should be comfortable around your doctor. maybe you should switch to a female one.
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does fingering hurt if your a virgin? (link)
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it might be uncomfortable at first but thats about it. it doesnt hurt and if it does then its not much. if it does hurt the first time then it probably wont hurt after that.
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i have gotten realli close to this guy lately and we are good friends. but i like him as more than a friend but i dont think he feels the same way. What should i do? (link)
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well if you guys are close like you say you are then i think you should talk to him. tell him that you like him and you hope that he'll still be friends with you(atleast friends) no matter if he feels the same or not. good luck, hope i helped.
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i've been dating this guy for a little over 2 months now.... i like him so much... and i think i'm begining to fall in love with him... my dad HATES him... he's never done anything for my dad to not like him... my dad always said "i just want to see you happy" but ever since he found out about my boyfriend he's been really mean to him and it hurts me... i don't know how to get him to like him... my boyfriend means alot to me and it hurts me so much when my dad starts saying things about him... my boyfriend is really nice and he would never do anything to hurt me. i don't know why he doesn't like him!!!! HELP ME TO GET MY DAD TO LIKE HIM! (link)
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you should ask your dad why he doesnt like him and tell him that your boyfriend really does make you happy but you dont like how he's treating your boyfriend. you should tell your dad how you feel and that you think you're falling in love with him. your dad might just not what to lose his little girl. all dads get like that sooner or later. hope i helped.
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okaii..ever since da 4th grade ive been madly inlove wid my best friendz brother. And we went out for like 3 dais on 4th den in 5th we never went out..in 6th he asked me out but i said no. idk why though..i guess i wus to shy. now im in 8th grade and im styll madly inlove wid him. but in 7th grade for valentimes day i relle wanted to go out wid him so i stuffed my bra. i dont do it to school or wherever cuz i think itz so gay and retarded but i just relle wanted to win him over. he never asked me out but he sais i got a relle good body. the butt is all mine but the chest isnt. and ive been wearing 2 padded bras ever since that day . i dont want to out of nowhere juss stop bc then he;ll know i stuffed and then he seriously never will like me..but i relle want to bc i juss realized i dont want him liking me for sumthyn thts fake . and if he does ask me out and we do go out agen i dun want him to feel up on meh and notice ima fake. how can i stop? also i got another problem.hes inlove wid dis girl steffanie and everytime i c dem together it hurtz me so much. and i cant get over dis kidd bc ive loved him nonstop ever since the 4th grade. and i try to impress him so much..but it never happens..got ne tipz on wut i shuld do to turn him on? thanxs..and pleze help mehh.. (link)
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you shouldnt change your appearance just to impress someone. if you really like him then you should just talk to him and tell him. he might be impressed just by you telling him that since 4th grade you've tried to impress him. and if he doesnt like you for who you really are then he isnt worth your time. good luck.
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2 of my best friends live right near me, and if i got out with one of my other friends they can c. usually when i am with them we sit around, and i like to exersise, so i try to balance it out but sometimes i dont feel like just walking around or w.e (btw dont say to get them to exersise with me, they wont. long story but they cant or wont). so they c if i go to her house or anything and they get so mad! i dont even really care, becuz ik it is for a dumb reason but they say to tell them if i am going with her or call them or w.e then when i talked to them they said i am becoming her best freiend and they "never" see me. ahhh help (link)
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try doing something with both of them at the same time. and have someone else hang out too so its an even number. that way neither of them is left out. or sit them both down and tell them that you like them both equally and you will still be friends with them. just because you hang out with someone else doesnt mean that you're going to just forget about one of your best friends.
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I have this friend that only asks if she can come over or if i can come over if one of my other friends isnt home or has somebody else over. It really makes me feel like a rebound girl. I told my friend about it but she said that she doesnt do that. What do you think I should do about this? (link)
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the next time she does it point it out to her and tell her wheather she thinks she does it or not, she is and its really bothering you. just keep talking to her and your point will get accross sooner or later. hope i helped.
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i always flirt with all the guys at school or where ever i go. does that make me a slut bc everyone calls me one
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flirting doesnt make you a slut. if you fooled around with the guys that you flirt with then yes then you would be a slut. but flirting isnt bad. you're deffinitly not a slut if you just flirt. dont pay any attention to what anyone says. who cares what they think. hope i helped.
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Ok theres this grl that i dnt like at all we have gotten into soo many fights and she makes me feel like shit when we get into fights..((there over the stupidiest things too))No body really likes her caz of her bitchy attitude..:x i have alot of confidence so im sticking up fer myself i dnt need herr Sh*t! But she wants to be friends with me and again..should i become friends iwth her again or stand my groound? And if i stand my ground then how do i tell her to bak off and not call me ne more because if i dnt do it nice she will spread shit about me!! :`( Help me plss!!
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anyone who treats you like shit is not a friend that you want to have around. just tell her that you need a break from her because of the way she makes you feel. just tell her what she does/says that makes you feel like shit and maybe she'll stop or something. just trying talking to her and tell her what shes doing that bothers you. hope i helped.
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