I'm friends with this one guy and I like him alot. I've heard that he used to like me too, but I'm not exactly sure if it's true. he is the only guy I've ever felt this way about, and I know it sounds stupid of me to say that because we are only 14. In the past, he has hurt me bad emotionally and once physically. But now, everything between us it great we talk all the time I just don't know if I should tell him how I feel, just forget about him, or keep it a secret. Me and him are like best friends.. I don't want to screw up our friendship..
HollyAnn2282 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 7:15 pm: i think you should bring up the fact that he use to like you. Be like yeah is this true. Then slow go into conversation about how you have feelings for him. Maybe say something around the lines of "have you ever thought of what it'd be like if we got together" or something like that. And suggest that you guys give it a shot. and if things dont work out you've still got a best friend! Good luck
-holly-
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MizAdviceGurl_04 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 6:58 pm: wellz he hurt u physically and emotionallty b4 whoz to say he wont do it again? maybe u guyz can have a friendship where like u flirt n stuff but still friends, and he can be yer date 4 thingz and stuff. that way it wont ruin tha friendship!! but u dont gottz to take mi advice!
HotStuff answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 6:41 pm: If he hurt you in the past maybe you should be careful. You guys are friends that a great sign, now just flirt with him, be natural. If you guys are close you can ask him if the 'rumors' were true (that he liked you in the past)? [ HotStuff's advice column | Ask HotStuff A Question ]
Sexybabii9095 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 6:39 pm: you should tell him, but if he ever hurts you physically again its over, but only if the first time he apologized alot and it wasnt that bad, no guy who hits a girl should be given alot of chances [ Sexybabii9095's advice column | Ask Sexybabii9095 A Question ]
xForeverxForgottenx answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 6:28 pm: well if you're best friends then you should tell him how you feel but tell him that you still want to be friends, even if it doesnt work out between you two. you dont want to lose him as a friend. just becareful if you do hook up because he has hurt you in the past, so just dont let your guard down. hope i helped. [ xForeverxForgottenx's advice column | Ask xForeverxForgottenx A Question ]
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