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they get so mad..
2 of my best friends live right near me, and if i got out with one of my other friends they can c. usually when i am with them we sit around, and i like to exersise, so i try to balance it out but sometimes i dont feel like just walking around or w.e (btw dont say to get them to exersise with me, they wont. long story but they cant or wont). so they c if i go to her house or anything and they get so mad! i dont even really care, becuz ik it is for a dumb reason but they say to tell them if i am going with her or call them or w.e then when i talked to them they said i am becoming her best freiend and they "never" see me. ahhh help
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you should really try talking to them about this and tell them that how they are reacting to all of this *you hanging out with your other friends* is really causing a lot of stress on you. Maybe they're just feeling left out and afraid of loosing you as a friend. Yes that still isn't right for them to get upset because you have other friends, but have you tried including them in hanging out with you and your other friends? or do they not get along?
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Well you made a new friend So what they are just jealous because if i am right you were hangin out with them before you met this other person. So if thats the case you just need to learn how to balance different friendships out like for example if you exercise with one girl mainly then u go to the movies and the mall with the other 2 or maybe vice versa-just tell your friends that u still are friends with them and they dont have to get so mad. And when you make plans with them keep them!!! That will make them more assured in your friendship ..also why dont you hang out with all of them
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try doing something with both of them at the same time. and have someone else hang out too so its an even number. that way neither of them is left out. or sit them both down and tell them that you like them both equally and you will still be friends with them. just because you hang out with someone else doesnt mean that you're going to just forget about one of your best friends.
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