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pregnant and had a miscarriage
i just found out that one of my best friends has been telling people that i was pregnant and had a miscarriage before, it really hurt when i found out, especially when i found out that this was why my boyfriend broke up with me, i want to tell her how i feel but i have no clue what to say, any ides on what i should do?
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say: you dont deserve me for a friend because i am to good for you and ur lies.
hope i helped it was kinda rude though but if she said that bout me or one of my bestfriends did that what i would proabably say!!
xoxox crystal!
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you should tell your "friend" that it really hurt your feelings that she told rumors about you. and, that your boyfriend broke up with you because of her. tell her that friends don't talk about other friends behind their back. if you need me to help talk to her - just give me her AiM screenname =) hope i helped you! please rate me!
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be blunt...that's some bullshit how people have to spread stupid rumors! Go up to her and talk to her and tell her that trash needs to go and if shes going to keep talking crap then it's on.
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Just spill your guts out to her...tell her everything...she's not a very good friend if she made that up about you..you should tell her everything and talk to your boyfriend...please..just let her know how you feel.
I wish you all the luck in the world.
<3 Gessyka
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Awwh.. sorry that happend. I think you should her a stupid fucking bitch and stab a pencil in her ear!!! muhahah. Just kidding, babe. Just tell her how you feel and how much that hurt you. She shouldn't even be considered as a friend to you. I know friends don't do that. Tell her how you feel... and I agree with the other person. Tell her you want nothing to do with her anymore. :] Hope all goes well.
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well that was really mean and i would never forgive her ... but that is just meand i would ask her y she would do that and yea like ask her
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woah...okay... first thing is first...she isnt your friend if she did this.. a real friend would keep that a secret. you need to tell her off.. well.. okay.. maybe not that but dont be friends with her. or even listen to her side of the story.
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Hi. hun just march right up to her and tell her how you feel. it was wrong for her to do wut she didnt and cruel. ask her why she did it and wut you do to her i guess. but just tell her straight up that ur upset and want her to say sorry and promise not to do it again. and tell her that you would never say something like that about her. so just tell her everything how you feel. Take Care..hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
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well first you should ask her why she told everyone this. and then tell her all the problems its caused you. and how upset you are. then you should tell her if you still want to be friends with her or not. hope i helped.
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well if y0ur friend really is a friend then she would not spread rumors as such , i hate ppl like that (no offense to ur fryend) they just want to be the center of attention and want to be the ones asked for the latest 'gossip' and u should confront her and say, who told u that i was pregant , and also say that u dont want a friend that would start spreading around info that wasnt true , and tell her to taLk to y0ur b0yfryend and tell him it isnt tru, cuz that was wrong that she told him and he should forgive u and hopefully that rumor and lie will become old news :D good lucK !
xox ManDa
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omg go yell at her SO bad and dont hold ANYTHING back. well actually no...find out for SURE that shes actually saying that, just ask her and if she denies it then say we how come so and so told me you were? and how come my boyfriend broke up with me becuz SOMEONE was saying that crap about me? what a great "best friend"
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tell ur ex that it isnt tru..nd talk to ur frend nd ask her why she wud spread sumthin like that!
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okay heres whatyou say.... YOU STUPID FUCKIN BITCH. I THOUGHT I COULD TRUST YOU AND YOU GO AROUND TELLING PEOPLE MY FUCKIN BUSINESS. YOU AINT NOTHING BUT A PIECE OF DOG SHIT. AND YOUR BIG ASS MOUTH MADE ME LOSE MY MAN. WHAT ARE YOU TRYNA RUIN MY LIFE, CUZ YOURS FUCKIN SUCKS DICK. I SHOULD FUCK YOU UP... and then you punch that little bitch in the fuckin lip for being a back stabbing whore. :)
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Whether you were pregnant and had a miscarriage or not (I'm not sure from your question), your friend shouldn't be spreading that kind of thing around. You're right in wanting to tell her how you feel.
I'd take her aside in a neutral place and ask her why she said those things to other people. I'd openly and honestly let her know how badly hurt I was, and that I felt betrayed.
I think, even though she is in the wrong, it's important to stay calm while you're talking to you - it won't be very productive to yell, as she'll end up yelling back. If you are worried about your ability to stay calm, or to be brave enough to say what's on your mind, a letter can work wonders.
Either way, you need to get your feelings out in the open and try to figure out why she would spread rumours about you. A person who'd do this probably isn't a person I'd trust in the future. While I don't know how close I would stay with her, I do think it's important to get your feelings out in the open.
Good luck.
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