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HELP ME!
okaii..ever since da 4th grade ive been madly inlove wid my best friendz brother. And we went out for like 3 dais on 4th den in 5th we never went out..in 6th he asked me out but i said no. idk why though..i guess i wus to shy. now im in 8th grade and im styll madly inlove wid him. but in 7th grade for valentimes day i relle wanted to go out wid him so i stuffed my bra. i dont do it to school or wherever cuz i think itz so gay and retarded but i just relle wanted to win him over. he never asked me out but he sais i got a relle good body. the butt is all mine but the chest isnt. and ive been wearing 2 padded bras ever since that day . i dont want to out of nowhere juss stop bc then he;ll know i stuffed and then he seriously never will like me..but i relle want to bc i juss realized i dont want him liking me for sumthyn thts fake . and if he does ask me out and we do go out agen i dun want him to feel up on meh and notice ima fake. how can i stop? also i got another problem.hes inlove wid dis girl steffanie and everytime i c dem together it hurtz me so much. and i cant get over dis kidd bc ive loved him nonstop ever since the 4th grade. and i try to impress him so much..but it never happens..got ne tipz on wut i shuld do to turn him on? thanxs..and pleze help mehh..
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well he should like you for you first of all not just your looks... if all he cares about is just your looks then there is no point in being with this guy or trying to be with him and you shouldn't have to prove anything.... that's basically all i have to say
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you shouldnt change your appearance just to impress someone. if you really like him then you should just talk to him and tell him. he might be impressed just by you telling him that since 4th grade you've tried to impress him. and if he doesnt like you for who you really are then he isnt worth your time. good luck.
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Well for the padded bra thing, all girls do it every now & then. But since you've been doing it for a while, you might want to try to uh, "downsize" slowly. Try wearing only one padded bra the next time you see him, and SLOWLY go back to your real bra size. If you still want to try & turn him on without the bra, you can still be sexy without huge tits. Try a peek-a-boo thong with low-rise pants. He probably likes your ass just as much as your "chest" anyways. But no matter what you do, this guy might only be interested in your body. Even if you cover up totally, there's always that chance. If he asks you out, just tell him straight up he'd better not like you just 'cause you're hot.
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"help meh"-
if your really, really madly in love with him, just give hints, or tell him. ive been in a thing kinda like that, and communication is best.
if u seriously want a good relationship, you shouldnt [have] to stuff your bra; you can just wear a normal padded bra, and grow into it, or just tell him that it was fake, but you've been in love with him (or u just like him; sont overwhelm him), and maybe you'll find that he likes you, just for who you are... if he [really] <doesnt] like you, maybe take your miind off him, and see if anyone else likes you. drop some hints, and let <him] chase <you}.
hope i helped...
^*sarah*^
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I think that if you really like this guy and he likes you back then it shoudnt be based mainly on your looks and you shouldnt have to stuff your bra just to impress him. and also, if you plan to go out with him for a long term relationship thingy, then he is going to see the real you anyway. so i say just be yourself. and about the getting him to notice you, just flirt and be funny AND BE YOURSELF!!! hope i could help!!
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WELL first only wear one padded bra cuz u will hurt ur boob musel annd ur boobs will think they r big enough and they wont grow ever 2nd tell him how u feel and thats all i have to say
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try gradually taking little and little out oR tell him the truth that u were trying to impress him myb he'd think it was cute? i guess it deepened how old he is? is he much older? i would want a honest relationship and no one wants a liar and if its true love-- it will happen sum way
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