I have this friend that only asks if she can come over or if i can come over if one of my other friends isnt home or has somebody else over. It really makes me feel like a rebound girl. I told my friend about it but she said that she doesnt do that. What do you think I should do about this?
ShudaBeenAbLonde answered Monday July 26 2004, 10:54 pm: If you really feel like a rebound girl, then just tell her that you can't do anything .. or say you have other plans ! just don't do anything with her because you don't want her using you. a friend should wann ahang out because you are friends .. not because someone else cant.! [ ShudaBeenAbLonde's advice column | Ask ShudaBeenAbLonde A Question ]
mob-boss answered Monday July 26 2004, 10:25 pm: JUST KNOCK ONher door and put your foot down and tell her straight out i am not a rebound girl so don't treat me like one if you want us to stay friends [ mob-boss's advice column | Ask mob-boss A Question ]
xOx_AdElA_xOx answered Monday July 26 2004, 10:21 pm: if shes doin this then shes not a real friend and you shud just not hang out with her even wen she asks u to and hang out with other ppl and then she willl kno how you feel if you do the same thing to u and then she will come back to be and try to be a betta friend [ xOx_AdElA_xOx's advice column | Ask xOx_AdElA_xOx A Question ]
xForeverxForgottenx answered Monday July 26 2004, 10:20 pm: the next time she does it point it out to her and tell her wheather she thinks she does it or not, she is and its really bothering you. just keep talking to her and your point will get accross sooner or later. hope i helped. [ xForeverxForgottenx's advice column | Ask xForeverxForgottenx A Question ]
Lizzy answered Monday July 26 2004, 10:12 pm: I think that you should get her and all of the other friends, and hang out together at once, and if she spends more time with them, chances are you are just the rebound girl, and i'm sorry. But if it's all pretty even and she spends time with you and others, you aren't rebound, just the timing is weird
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