Hey there. I'm 18, and my birthday is January 8th, 1988. I have brown hair, blue eyes, and I'm short.
I love spending time with my boyfriend, Ryan, reading (A million Little pieces is HIGHLY recommended), writing poems, video games, listening to music and hanging out with friends.
I love to help people in need, and I believe no question is a stupid question. I've been through some of stuff in my life (as everyone has!) and if you need any advice on sex, health, relashinships, school, family, or whatever, I can help. If I don't know much about your problem, I'll search info up on google, and give you some reliable, trustworthy advice.
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I'm goiing into 8th grade and have never had a b/f and i think i no y. In school and in my neighborhood i'm constantly playing sports. I've always loved to be involved with the diff. kinds of sports and wen i'm playing(which is A LOT of the time) i'm mostly playing wit guys. So i've been known as "one of the guys" wen i'm playing basebal nd stuff. Since i like never do any of that gurlie stuff no guys have crushes on me(or even like me as a girl). Are there any ways I can SHOW them that Sports aren't my life and get them to take me seriously? (link)
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Maybe, when your not playing sports, but just planning on hanging out with the guys, tell them to meet you somewhere, and when you go out to meet them, wear a skirt, or a summer dress or something .... show them that you are a girl, and you want to be known as that. Also, guys like tomboys ... maybe your just going after the wrong type of guys. lol. I know cuz I was on an all boys baseball team myself
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ok this is wicked embarassing but im a 14 year old boy and im not alot like my friends. i get scared wicked easily. i hate it! i hav panick attax wen im outside in the dark.after i saw the movie The Village(which sucked) i couldnt get those creatures out of my head and ive had a hard time sleeping ever since. wen me and my friend saw it i kept grabbing the arms on the seat(not his arms of course} and he kept asking me if i was feeling ok and he sed that my face was all white and harfly ever blinked. i just wanna no how i can stop being afraid so that wen i c a scary movie w/ a girl im not the one huddled up againstt her (link)
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hey there. well, a lot of girls find that a guy who is, well, in your case, extra sensitive to scary things, is attractive. And if your on a date, I don't think that the girl will be mad if you are uddled up to her ... maybe you'll be huddled up together. But some tips ... when your watching movies, keep telling yourself that it all fake ... all Hollywood. And personally, I don't like the dark either ... creeps me out ... that is a common phobia. Don't be ashamed of your problem. I think it's an endearing thing. lol. ttyl.
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okey the boy that i like is soo shy..he is one of the shyest boys that you ever would meet but like only when it comes to girlfriends and doing stuff other than that he is like outgoing and my best frend..he knows i like him and he sed he dno wat hed do if i kised him because he doesnt make the first move..i have thought it over allot and he sed he wudnt pull away so tomorrow morning when he comes to wake me up while were laying in my bed i am going to say "heyy can i show you something" hell sey ya and im going to kiss him not an all out hook up but i am going to kiss him a little bit..and then see wat happens..were best frneds and we flirt all the time we always act like we like eachothr but we are both shy..its just like i cant wait any longer and i am going to make the first move..do you think that its a good idea? what else could i do? (link)
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I think it's a great idea. You want it, he wants it, you've both talked about it and your close!!!! Kiss him and I think that the shyness will go away eventually over time!
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okay i'm 14 years old and occasionally i get these little pimples on my forehead and sometimes on my nose and around my mouth. i don't have acne or anything and to be honest i have pretty good skin but i'm trying to keep my skin really clear. i've used proactive and that didn't work at all it just made it worse! i ordered it twice i used it for 2 months and nothing worked on my skin! when i get a big pimple it's BIG like i swear it looked like i had a miniature tumor growing somewhere... okay maybe not THAT big but they get big and they bother me. does anyone have any products that i could use that aren't that expensive that would help clear up my skin a little bit more? except for proactive because i used that already and it didn't work (as i mentioned before) if you have any just let me know!!! (link)
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oxy ... wash your face (with a foam or gel cleaner, not soap) and with warm/hot water, to open the pours. Dry your face and use some oxy pads. If your working out, carry them with you for a quick clean or whatever.
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i know this is really long.. but i really need help.
okay.. me and my boyfriend of like 2 yrs just broke up about 3 weeks ago. we were always the couple that everyone said "are going to get married.. they belong together" and we were SO CLOSE! there was never a day that we didnt talk fool around or just love being with eachother. we broke up and things were a little weird for like a week.. but now its just like were best friends again. and its weird bc sometimes its even like were still a couple. we always talk and laugh and fool around.. and i miss it. sometimes i still want to be with him but other times i just love being single and i think maybe its the best for the both of us.. that maybe its just time to move on- and that doesnt scare me, bc in some cases i just want to move on.
okay- so a little while after we broke up he started fooling around w/ one of my "friends".. this got me really upset. not that it happened just the fact that my friend wud do that to me after that long of a relationship and she totally knew how much he still meant to me.
then i met this guy. hes like amazing. we became close and i got with him a couple times. its not like were BF/GF but.. i think we might be getting there. we both like e/o. my ex knows n all of our friends too. i like both my ex and this new guy.. do u think i should hang on to my ex bc things might go back to how they were before (like they have done before).. or should i just totally move on from my ex and be with my new guy. im so confused i just need help.. i like my new guy.. but i dont wanna leave my old love if there is still something between us.. what should i do? (link)
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Okay, very complicated situation ... it can be fixed though. Well, to me, it sounds like your ex has started to move on. If he started fooling around with one of your friends, and just a couple of weeks after the break up of a 2 year relashinship, I wouldn't be giving him another chance. I think it would be best suited if you just remained friends. Also, think of this, if it's meant to be with your ex ... you'll get together again. This new guy seems great though. A great new start. I think moving on with this guy would be awesome. It's time to try new things ... your ex has. I hope it all works out. ttyl.
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What do you technically need to do you get abs?? (im a girl) (link)
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from what I know, run, work whatever weight you have on, and then do a lot of sit ups, push up, CRUNCHES!!!!!! eat carbs, LOT'S OF PROTEIN!!!! Drink water, milk ... so this for a couple of monthes, and you'll have abs in no time
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for skin-i have pimples on my cheeks and chin and i want clear skin be4 school...any ideas anyone?
for hair-i have blonde hair, down just a little bit past my shoulders, blue eyes, im 5'3'' and skinny, what type of cut should i get (no bangs).?? (link)
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skin - there are a couple of things you can do. Go to a doctor/dermatoligist and ask for medications that you can use to get rid of the acne. Wash your face ONCE a day. Anymore then that will dry out your skin. Don't use soap. Use a foam or gel cleanser. And always use warm/hot water because heat opens up the pores.
hair - I think just an inch cut off would be beautiful ... then grow it out. An inch cut off every couple of monthes to get rid of split ends and such ... I think long hair with your described looks would look great!!! Have fun at school!
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hey...i'm 17 and my b/f and i have been dating for 4 years. We really truly love eachother. I know it's true and i know he respects me. When we were 15 he wanted sex but i said no and he hasn't bothered me with it ever since. That's how i know he respects me. Also, i know he has never cheated on me so i know he's serious about this relationship like i am. I love him and i know he loves me. I guess my question is, i can tell he wants to have sex now and it's making me antsy. He wouldn't ever force me too but i'm afraid that he'll crack any second if we don't have sex. Should i have sex with him or should i stick with my morals and say no if it comes up. I really love this guy..what should i do? (link)
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Hey there. You got an awesome guy. Really, you do. Four years??? That's cool, that's cool. Personally, to me, sex is just a way of proving to someone you love them. It's not always the best thing to do, in some cases ... but yes, i think you have done a good job ... sticking to your morals. I think you should do just that ... stick to your morals. When you are ready, do it. I mean, you have a great guy, a four year history ... most girls who have had sex have done it without even knowing the guy very well ... lol. consider yourself lucky. lol. ttyl.
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ok this mite seem complicating. I always hang out wit my older sis and her friend. Well theres this boy that my sisters friend knos n theyve known eachother for awhile. Well i like boy now and ma sis and her friend always try to ignore him wen he wants to hang out i wanna hang out wit him b/c i like him and they dont kno that.What should i do!? and how can i figure out if the guy likes me or not w.o askin him? he always looks at me n smiles n stuff but i dunno if hes jus b friendly or if he likes me?..xo`help! (link)
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Well, hun, why don't you hang out with him by yourself instead or with your sister and her friend. It's harder to get to know a person when there are other people around.
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On Friday I was with this boy it was our first time hanging out we've been friends for almost a year. We made out and stuff and he went up my shirt. He kept asking to finger me and I said no and then he would ask again and again. I dunno I think this is a little werid don't you? We're not going out like bf and gf but I can see us doing that. I really do like him but should I let him?? and please don't tell me o0o wait until ur comforable bc I don't want him doing it then never talking to me again. sry if this is long (link)
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OKay so what your scared of is that you'll let him do it and he'll never talk to you again? That's not weird ... it typically normal. Okay, here's I see it. if you are comfortable with it and all, let him do it. I mean, the way your talking is that your ready for it, but your scared you'll lose him. I seriously doubt he would stop talking to you ... if you've been friends for a year now ... but yeah ... i hope everything works out with you!
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Ok I am really sad for my brother right now :'(, well here is the story please help me on what I should do to help him.
Ok, My brother had a gilfriend when they broke up she said bad things about him to his friends and now he doesn't have any friends, which he had a lot of them. He was also a popular guy and he is about to turn 20, but I need help he is very depressed to have no one as a friend I feel very sorry for him. Please tell me some ways he could get either his friends back or find new friends I have no clue cause I am not 20 I am much younger but please help me so I can help my brtoher I feel like I shouldn't have friends just because he doesn't. thanx for helping me (link)
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Well, how about you just hang around your brother some. Maybe having someone you loves him as much as you do around. It'll cheer him up.
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Alright. I'm fourteen-years-old and I'm a Freshman, this year, in High School; just to give you an idea of where I am, as far as maturing goes.
No one has ever really spoken to me about health and growing. And I suppose I'll end up learning about this in Sex Ed. but I figured I would get advice, now, anyways.
This afternoon, I started noticing a soreness on the sides and tops of my breasts. I'm not entirely sure what this soreness means or whether or not it's a good thing so that's where I need help.
Is it normal to have sore breasts? Do you get 'growing pains' as you mature, on your chest?
Thank you, in advance, for your help. (link)
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When I was your age, it happened to me. It's just growing pains!
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Okay, i've been having weird period cycle's.. at the beginning of the year i was having periods around the end of the month the 25th or 27th then they started earlier like the 15th every month for a few months well.. just last month and the month before i had my period around the 6th.. well today is the 10th and i haven't started my period yet! I don't understand this. I'm 17 and i feel like a dork. I have had sex before just to let you know.. last month about a week after my period well i'm pretty sure i'm not pregnant because i took a test and i'm not. But, i still don't understand why my period hasn't come yet..? I know this is probably weird but i'm having all my normal symptoms as usual.. i'm eating a lot more like i always do before my period and i'm eating chocolate "alot" and that's always before my period.. but i haven't started yet? This has been going on for like a week now. Everysense i've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months my like has been stressed with so much stuff.. do you think thats whats causing it? Stress? Or is my body just not normal..? Could someone help me please..!? (link)
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Hey there. Well, at that age your periods should be regulating. KNowing as your sexually active, you should take another pregnancy test ... just to make sure ... but yes, stress is most likely what it is. Stress does weird things to your body. Anyways ... also, talk to your doctor about birth control. Your sexually active, and your periods are irregualr ... birth control is the best way to go. Hope I helped!
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hey there, ok my question is im 14 and ive been having my period for 2 years now. thing is that it is very irregular, i can get it today and not get till..october.. you know...like that.. but until im 17 thats supposed to be within the normal. anyway, for 2 weeks now, ive been drastically dirtying my panties..why is that? please explain detailed. thank you!! (link)
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Hey there. Okay, you should do 3 things. Everywhere you go, go prepared ... tampons, pads, whatever you use. Second, go to your doctor. It's normal to be irregular like that ... a lot of my friends are like that, but when you go to your doctor you can do the third thing ... ask for birth control. With Birth Control, it will regulate your periods so well, you'll know what date, and time of day your period will start. I guarentee you that. If your parents don't like the fact of you on birth control, then I'm not sure what you can do ....
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does anyone know of a way to get an anti-depressent(i.e. Zoloft©) without going to see a doctor??? I need something along those lines but i can't tell my parents that i need an anti-depressent for certain reasons. My depression used to be just the common teenage cliche of {boredom + no life + no friends + girl troubles = depression}. Earlier this week i realized it was a much more serious problem when i was alone(drunk + depressed) and for some reason got to thinking that i dont want to live anymore.......So i went downstairs, got a knife from the kitchen, went back up to my room and proceeded to stab myself in the wrist numerous times. It bled all over the place for a while and then i turned really pale felt really cold and also a bit numb....then i just kinda zonked out. The next morning i woke up in a puddle of my own blood, and thats when i realized that i cant do this anymore. So yea my question remains is there any way to get an anti-depressent along the lines of zoloft or ya know something like it without seeing a doctor???
(p.s.) - anyone who says "you should tell your parents" gets a rating of a 1 and i automatically dont like you.... (link)
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Okay, you can rate me 1 for all I care, but you need some help. Now, I know how you feel ... i don't like telling my parents anything either ... but what your doing is soooo serious. When you start getting depressed, and drinking, and then start stabbing yourself, you HAVE TO TELL SOMEONE. You need to go on medications!!!!! And you can't go on those unless you go to your doctor .. where they can help you ... they'll recommend you to therepy, or a psychiatrist that can diagose you with depression and give you medications for it. Just please, I beg of you, get help. Your parents will find out eventually. You'll have scars, and they will wonder where you got them from ....
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okie well i want to have guys over n i want to go to gusy housess to hang out but im a lil scared to ask my mom if i can hang out cuz me n my mom r rele tight n she might makefun of me bt neways how do i ask her w. out having to b scared
i rate good (link)
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Hey there. I think that it's a good thing that you are your mom are all tight and all (lol, i've never used that term b4) But yes, your parents teasing you is just something you have to deal with parents like to do that. Anyways, just ask ... most of the time mom's aren't that bad ... just ask and if she starts teasing you just ignore it. you shouldn't be scared to ask your mom a question. Hoep it works out!
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on the song milkshake what does milkshake mean?
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uh, i think it means her sex appeal. She's saying she's got everything a man wants, and that makes the men cum
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Can you have sex when you are pregnant?? (link)
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Yes, you can have sex while being pregnant. Actually, if your late (past your due date) sex makes the baby come faster.
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thnx for your help with my liking my cuz prob thingy...i mean you and like 1 other person actually understand that its not my fault that i am attracted to him, i cant help where my heart is, but you r right that i prob jus like that kind of person. of course i know in my head that i dont want to be with him or even liking him. and i guess i just needed help figuring out what the deal is...i rushed into thinking i liked him. but i am allowed to think he is cute and to like the kind of person he is without actually liking him, right? (link)
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Hey there. Thanks for the compliments. Some people are total freaks ... I mean, they come on here to give advice and then they totally spaz at a person. Like that helps. lol. Your allowed to think your cousin is cute. I mean ... I here all the time people saying how their cousins or whatever are cuties. lol. And you are aloud to like the type of person he is. He just represents the type of guy you want to be with. it's not him you want to be with, it that's type of guy. So don't worry about it. Just be happy that you have a very close bond with your cousin ... that you can tlak about anything with each other. That's great family. I hope everything works out and you find that type of guy out there. ttyl.
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I feel that my father is cheating on my mother. There are some obvious signs, and I'm not sure on whether or not I should confront him about it. (I'm thirteen.)
1) There have been small pieces of paper in front of the family computer with porno sites on them.
2) I have seen porno links on the computer's history.
3) At strange times of the day, his 'work' cellphone rings, and on the phone's interface it reads 'private call.'
4) I went onto the computer one day, seeing that a Singles website was completely filled out with my father's information.
My feelings are mixed--it could all just be a coincidence, and if it isn't, should I confront him about it or would I just be getting in the way? Please help me guys.
xoxoxox,
Constantly Confused (link)
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Hey there. You should do what I did when I was faced with a simalar situation. Tell your mom. When you keep it to yourself it causes a lot of emotional, mental and physical stress. But yeah, talk to your mom about it. She probley is suspecting the same thing. But remember, your dad might not be having an affair. It seems to me that he might be thinking about having one ... but yeah ... still, talk to your mom about it. Confronting your dad about it might be awekard. Hope I helped. Hope everything works out for the best!
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