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sporty grl
I'm goiing into 8th grade and have never had a b/f and i think i no y. In school and in my neighborhood i'm constantly playing sports. I've always loved to be involved with the diff. kinds of sports and wen i'm playing(which is A LOT of the time) i'm mostly playing wit guys. So i've been known as "one of the guys" wen i'm playing basebal nd stuff. Since i like never do any of that gurlie stuff no guys have crushes on me(or even like me as a girl). Are there any ways I can SHOW them that Sports aren't my life and get them to take me seriously?
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I ama girl who loves to play sports also, If someone is to like you it's going to be fo you, not what you are in to. One day you will find someone who has the same interests as you. If he asks you to change in any way you'll know he is wrong for you. Don't stop playing sports because unlike all those little girly girls, your doing something you love (i hope) and your not getting guys attention from the sidelines. And try not to allow yourself think your on of the guys. Those guys allow you to play with them because your good at something. Don't ever Change!
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dress up. do your hair and makeup and maybe wear a cute skirt or sumthin. guys usually like that stuff. but don't change all of your ways just because you want to get noticed or anything. just be urself
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well mayb start ta wear makeup nd outside of the sports just take care of urself nd reeli care how u look nd dont talk about sports alot nd on ur free time go to the mall wit ur friends nd pic up some guys! hope i helpd xox
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Hey Hun! You have what almost every girl wants! You've accomplished a friendship with all of them! Maybe you should make the first move! Do what you want! If you feel like playing sports do it! When the time comes maybe in gym you'll meet a guy and impress him! You should do what you feel like doing! Maybe you could smile at one of the boys while your playing a game and ask him to teh mall or movies after a game. YOu could see a sports movie! Good Luck XOXO
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Maybe, when your not playing sports, but just planning on hanging out with the guys, tell them to meet you somewhere, and when you go out to meet them, wear a skirt, or a summer dress or something .... show them that you are a girl, and you want to be known as that. Also, guys like tomboys ... maybe your just going after the wrong type of guys. lol. I know cuz I was on an all boys baseball team myself
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Just be yourself and keep doing the things that you enjoy, and eventually you will find a guy that likes you for what you do! I think that it is better for them to take you seriously playing sports than to think that you are something else. If they think that sports are your whole life, and their not, make a point of starting conversations about other things with guys. But if they want to talk about sports, then go ahead! Just don't try to change yourself for them, eventually there will be one that likes you for you.
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*What you're doing is perfectly fine, but to get their attention, put on some make up and wear a cute little skirt. Just buy girly clothes and fix yourself up. They WILL notice.*
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Don't worry I am a junior in high school and it took me till my freshman year to have a "boyfriend" and I'm a big sports person. Don't hold back at what your good at because you don't have a boyfriend. lol like me, you'll find a guy who likes you for you!!!
hope that helps!!
.:*Cinderella*:.
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im thinking flirt a little! take your hair down after one of the games apply some make up and make them realize your feminine by having some of your girls pick you up and invite all the guys to come with and meet you at a movie.
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hmm, well i love 2 play sports and sumtimes it is fun 2 b one of the guys, but not when you wnana b noticed 4 being a girl. as you get older sumthing inside you just changes and instead of playing football you may wanna go get your nails done ya no that sort of thing, you may want 2 make little changes liek one day wear your hair down instead of in a ponytial, or you may go out and get all dressed up and b girls, but you dont have 2 change anythgin about you if you dont wnat to. just b yourself, you'll find the rite guy 4 u. hope i helped =)
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yah u can show up 2 a game wit makeup on all dat stuff 2 show them ur a girl.. n tell them i cant play this game. and be dressed it rele girly clothes
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I know this question has been answerd so many times but i would really like to help. just because you play sports does not mean that guys will not go out with you. and actually i think that it is GREAT that you are consdered one of the guys. i would love to be considered one of the guys. that way you are under their skin. and also, 8th grade; just becasue all the other girls have boy freinds doesnt mean that its right. your only in eight grade. and also, relationships are sometimes better when you start out as freinds!! i hope i could help!
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yah i hang out wit the guys alot to. sooooo just go walken around wit some girl*friends and dress gurlie or invite guys to the movies and dress gurlie! hope i helped! kay*cee lynn x0x
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I play alot of sports two like lacrosse basketball swimming soccer and cheerleading but that doesnt stop me from have a b/f. But then again i hate baseball and softball,so i dont really play boy sports so that might be the problem...but then again ther boys
love always,
tohnnie
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well, first off, guys don't take anything seriously, so good luck on that one.
where a dress to school with make up. that'll open their eyes.
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start acting more girly!!!! wear cute clothes and go shopping and just act like a crazy woman!!! haha
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Although you think its a bad thing to be one of the guys you probably have a lot of guy friends which could really help you in the long run. also if you feel you are too much considered one of the guys you should start doing some girlie things too. You shouldnt really change everything about yourself you should just improve some of the "guy like things" into some girlie things. like if you wear a lot of loose clothing find some clothes that are a little tighter. When at school you should wear more girlie clothes and colors.. like fitting hip hugger jeans, short skirts or skorts, v-cut tops and so on... you should also try to make your appearance better at school then at home. you should wear some make up such as mascara and eyeliner or something. you shouldnt have to feel bad about being one of the guys because especially if they are good looking it will help you in school cuz when they say hey other girls will prolly be jealous of you!! anyways i know how you feel cuz thats how i am at my house. i gotta go but hopefully my advice helped.
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hey like that girl said yooh shouldnt hae to change yourself .. but who said change .. yooh can still play sports but try doin some things girly .. like wearin a little bit of makke up nd may b some clothes that show off oyur body .. like a kinda tight shirt ns mayb some short shorts or tight pants .. not like slut or anything but yooh kno something to show off wat yooh have nd let them notice yooh nd sorta lirt wit them .. but yooh dont have to totslly change .. but try that nd if yooh need nething ese or need to talk to someone bout it then yooh can IM me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] well i hope i helped some .. [ . MeGaN . ]
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ok, theres nothing wrong with being into sports and if the guys don't like you for who you are then they are not worth it, but if you are still feeling really badly about it then maybe you should talk to them and tell them that you are a real girl and you are interested in guys not just sports!
Hope i helped
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If they don't like what they see, I wouldn't waste my time on them. The right guy will see that sports are something you like to do, and he'll respect that. Hope that helped, sorry if it didn't.
~Laura~
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If these guys don't like you for who you are, then they arn't worth it. Don't try to change yourself to please someone else. I bet that some of the guys that you place sports with like you. I think you should ask one of them to go to the movies with you. Wear a little bit extra makeup and a skirt or dress. Then he will know that you have a girly side and a sporty side.
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