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Ok well my boyfriend just randomly broke up with me-so im upset about that. and he just got a girlfriend...who is this girl that i totally hate!! but now i like this other guy. he always seems to be talking to other girls...so naturally im jealous. what should i do?

if the guy likes you then dont be jealous....get closer to him and make sure he knows you like him

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i like a 7th grader but im an 8th grader. is that wrong? i think he likes me 2. but i never see him at school or anywhere. sometimes il go to one of his games but otherwise i never seee him. plus im not sure how going out wiht a 7th grader would work out. will you help me please. is it worht to try to get this boy or is it just to much trouble? plus im afriad of what my friends will say when i say i like a 7ht grader. adn plz dont say theyre not you real friends bc my friends are very open and honest.

signed, boy trouble

alright i went through that also....if you like him and he likes you then no one can do anything about that...go for it

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Okay well when I go to my campground this weekend. I want this boy to like me. What should I wear. What accesories sould i put on. How should my hair be like besies just plan down.and I kinda want him to ask me out. What should I do??

dont wait around for him....you shouldnt have to impress someone...just talk to him and get to know him better and it will all come together

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I have a best friend. He is going to be 18 and im only 15 and 1/2. I fell madly in love with him but my parents say hes too old for me. So no one knows I love him as more then a friend. I dont know if i should tell him, he might not return the feeling. even if he does return the feeling, theres my parents. so should i not tell anyone?

K well firstly im in the same vote as you!...my guy is leavin afta first semester...you really have to tell someone, because you dont want anyone finding out...trust me i went through it...someone will find out and then you are busted....so yuor best bet is to tell someone...hope i helped

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okay well see im going to the movies with my 2 bestfriends and they are bringing their boyfriends!! see i dont have one so i feel left out what is a good way to get someone to like you?

You shouldnt have to get someone to like you....just be yourself and someone will come along, dont worry!...go and hang out with your friends...there is nothing wrong with having a good time with your best friends and their boyfriends.

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I'm goiing into 8th grade and have never had a b/f and i think i no y. In school and in my neighborhood i'm constantly playing sports. I've always loved to be involved with the diff. kinds of sports and wen i'm playing(which is A LOT of the time) i'm mostly playing wit guys. So i've been known as "one of the guys" wen i'm playing basebal nd stuff. Since i like never do any of that gurlie stuff no guys have crushes on me(or even like me as a girl). Are there any ways I can SHOW them that Sports aren't my life and get them to take me seriously?

I ama girl who loves to play sports also, If someone is to like you it's going to be fo you, not what you are in to. One day you will find someone who has the same interests as you. If he asks you to change in any way you'll know he is wrong for you. Don't stop playing sports because unlike all those little girly girls, your doing something you love (i hope) and your not getting guys attention from the sidelines. And try not to allow yourself think your on of the guys. Those guys allow you to play with them because your good at something. Don't ever Change!

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