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ok so basically be and this guy named bob (not is real name) I knew from school have been talking on facebook like friends and I didn't think much of it and then my friends told me someone liked me but they said they wouldn't tell me so I secretly went on m y friends facebook to see any messages between her and any guys I knew and bob was talking about this girl it didn't say a name so I didn't wanna assume anything but I was still thinking about it and today at lunch my friends kept asking if I liked anyone and I said no one and they said I should like someone and I said well how am I supposed to know if you guys wont tell me and then my friend Sally (not her really name) really stupidly said its someone who talks to you everyday and that gave it away that it was bob and a couple of months ago he asked out a girl at a dance and brought her flowers and stuff and she danced with him but ended up turning him down and he was so sad and now im pretty sure hes gunna ask me out but I don't wanna hurt him cause hes like my closest guy friend and I don't want our friendship to end but I don't like him in that way Dx
so please can you give me tips on how to tell him I don't like him and please don't tell me to just tell him straight out because im that good with words and it just wont work
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There is no other way to tell him than straight out. Why would you want to tell him some other way? That would be harsh if you did it any other way. Since he\'s your friend, he deserves it to be straightforward.
You need to be honest. Don\'t beat around the bush, don\'t lie, just say that you only like him as a friend.
No matter what you say, he\'ll be sad, but the best way is to be honest and straightforward. He\'ll appreciate that more than anything else.
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My boyfriend and I are both 15 and we are both virgins. He wants to have sex with me but he knows that I am not ready. He says he will try not to do anything that I will not be comfortable with but he told me he doesn't know how long he can hold it off for. Also, I don't really like the idea of giving him head or him fingering me as I have not done any of this before. Any advise? (link)
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with not being ready. A lot of 15 year old girls aren\'t ready to have sex and they shouldn\'t be ready anyways. Most can\'t handle the emotional side of it and having sex at 15 will hurt very much since your body is still growing.
Now, that\'s besides the point. You told him no. If a guy says he doesn\'t know how long he can hold it off for, he doesn\'t sound like a guy who can wait for you. I mean he\'s pretty much saying, \"I get that you want to wait, but I\'m not waiting forever.\"
Just straight up tell him you\'re not ready for anything sexual. He needs to respect that. Just tell him you\'ll let him know when you\'re ready and you\'d appreciate it if he didn\'t keep asking. If he does ask again, he\'s not worth it.
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A long time ago in august i flirted alot with this girl on facebook and i was 100% sure she liked me, i wanted to ask her out the following day at school face-to-face but another boy was faster than me. She went out with him but eventually broke up because he said too many lies. Meanwhile i got friendzoned(or so i think). she hugs me alot we dont really go to the movies together or do anything outside of school but im pretty sure im friendzoned. Do girls get over guys that quickly? Its hard for me to move on.. and if i ask her out then it will be too awkward for me if she says no! please help! (link)
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It\'s not just girls that stop liking someone. It just depends on the persons personality.
Some people just lose interest in someone after awhile.
If you like her, then you need to decide whether you want to ask her out or just move on. That\'s completely up to you.
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So i've slept with this guy twice.
Both times he used a condom, but came while he was inside of me (in his condom). That always scares me because what if the condom breaks?! or Something! Then all that stuff is in me! That's not the best.
Anyways, is it normal to be afraid that something like that could happen?
How do I tell him to just pull out before cumming? Is that rude?
Also, I know when hes going to cum because he goes SO deep in me and pushes real hard - it feels great for me and probably great for him, but I'm so scared!
advice? (link)
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A lot of people don\'t feel safe just using a condom. Obviously because there is a chance of it breaking. I mean sex is good, but it\'s not as good as it can be if you\'re fully enjoying it and not being paranoid in the back of your mind.
So you should probably get on birth control. It\'ll be your best option and then you both can enjoy it to the full extent.
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I was going to show my friend his prom picture so i can vent to er about him but i saw a new picture that his prom date posted onto his fb wall. And they were completely flirting. He was putting smiley faces and hearts while she even had the guts to comment back to him sayin that shes keeping him in check with a winky uh grin emoji. Can you tell me why you think of this? Cause i cried because how sad i felt about how he shamelessly flaunts and flirts with this girl that he told me was supositely just his friend that needed a prom date. Like they werent posting on each others facebook before until prom.. I got pissed off and i was about to post a status indirectly at him saying something that hides the message of like this girl havin no shame and respect to flort with a guy who have just gotten out a relaionship not long ago. And that he is completely dhameless for doing it for everyone to see. But y friendtalke some logic into me and told me that i shouldnt and so i conpromised with my friend and instead i just "liked" thecommentof his withthehearts directed towardsheran the comment of hers for "keepinghim in check". I have the type of personality to spite people even more when they get me mad or hurt me.he usually updates a snapchat story like onesnap per week or at most two per few days. But today inrefused to check his snapchats and i saw him post lile 5 different ones. It could be a coincidence but yeah i overthink things sometimes. And he checked all my snapchats again. Idk pleasee tell me what you think about all this. (link)
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You want me to tell you what I think about all this?
I think he likes this girl and she likes him.
I think that you need to move on.
I think you shouldn\'t be friends with either of them on Facebook.
Like I said before, he had more time to move on before you did.
He\'s moving on and that\'s what you should do. Of course you\'re mad that he moved on faster than you did, but some people do and it\'s not necessarily a bad thing.
Block him on Snapchat, unfriend him on Facebook. Move on because that\'s what he\'s doing and that\'s what you need to do.
If you post status\'s or like comments, you\'ll get labeled as the crazy ex girlfriend. They\'ll talk about you behind your back so just unfriend them and block them and start moving on.
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Idk now ive gotten back to the point where ive had before.. Waking up randomly at like3-5 in the morning because of a dream about him.. Are you suggestingthat i block him fromnsocial media like fb and snapchhat? Tobbe honest yeah ot sucks but its hard to let go of already what little hope i have dor hik to just come back. (link)
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We\'ve all been there. And having dreams about him sucks. There are things that will help you feel better though. Like keeping yourself busy and being with friends. But that hardly helped with me. I had a journal online and I would just spill my heart out to it. I think you should find something that can help you with that instead of keeping it bottled up and crying at night.
Anyways, you definitely should block him from social media sites. You don\'t want to be constantly reminded of him when you\'re trying to move on.
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Hey guys. I would love any and all advice. So my question is if its worth a shot? Here is the situation: so I met a girl I realy like. There is one problem she is a Christian and I am a LaVayan Satanist (no that dose not mean I'm a devil worshiper if you think so I encourage you to reasearch the subject). I know she is a Christian because I whent to her church with a few freinds one time and that's were I met her. The sermon that was given the night that I went was on relationships. The pastor said that Christians shouldn't date people who are not a Christian. I'm not sure if she belivies that or not. I have no problem having a relationship with some one of a diferent religion. I would never try to convert her of go against what she wished. I guess what I want to ask is it worth basicaly asking her to possibly go against what she belivies to have a relationship together or should I just forget about her. Thank you for the help. (link)
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Well don\'t just assume that she believes the exact same thing as the pastor.
I\'d take the chance, I mean the worst she could say is no.
If she\'s fine with dating someone outside of her religion, the that\'s fine. If not, then just move on.
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ok so i have been texting a guy i already know tht he likes me and i like him back but i dont think we have established tht we r "dating" yet we dont even call each other nicknames or bf and gf i am 13 and he is 15 and he does not go to my school i know i am not ild enough to have sex and doo not want to do so for a while but i still want to "tease" him and "turn him on" with out being too raunchy please help me what should i text to him? (link)
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I\'d talk to him, and ask him what you two are so that you know what to do with your dating life.
He\'s 15, he will get turned on from anything. You can hug him or something and he\'ll probably get turned on. Just because of those hormones.
But if I were you, I wouldn\'t tease him or anything like that if you have no intentions of doing anything with him because it will probably bother him and give him the idea that you want to have sex with him. Just not a smart thing to do.
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Hey everyone! I'm 16/female.
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So there's a boy in my history class who I really like. He is just perfect for me. He's taller than me, has a loving family, is athletic, has a life outside of his sport, he's gentle, a good son, a good brother, quiet, soft spoken, has a really deep voice, has a lot of patience, very mature, I can go on and on.
My point is, he's a gentleman. VERY rare at our age. And I like him. I've always looked for boys like him to get to know. I didn't even notice he was in my class until he stood up to present a project one day. And then on a class field trip a while later, we had a gorgeous conversation on the bus, followed by an in sync nap. Also he accepted this girls flirting all day, and she walked with him when I was trying to talk to him. But either way all negativity aside, since that day, I just couldn't get enough. Months later, there were days when my history teacher was absent, and I somehow spent both periods talking to him. Then I started talking to him on Facebook, a few weeks later. Eventually, he answered more frequently & a little over two weeks ago, he asked for my number since it was easier for him to answer me there than on Facebook. (I was crying I was so happy) & that wholeeeee time we were talking all day every day, him texting me first, & throughout that time texting, he was flirting a lot, but it could have been taken as something else most of the time.
For example, he would give me really cute nicknames as he said good morning & good night, he would ask me questions like "describe your perfect relationship" (says aww to my description, then says everything I missed), he basically described me when I asked him what type of girls he likes & he comforted me one day when I was mad, saying "I'm always here" afterwords. He was just so sweet the whole time. He never suggested anything that had to do with sex, unless I asked him about it ( I asked what his favorite body parts were and what type of legs he liked and again, he described my legs) & he wouldn't object to changing the subject back to normal afterwords, unlike other boys I've talked to. I told him once that I haven't found a mutual liking with someone & he mentioned that maybe he already had, then he said "maybe one day we'll find it" (what does that mean?) & it had my head spinning every time he said something like that. He would call me "awesome" and said that he would miss me if I moved, use witty little lines on me, never tried too hard but still he was very subtle.
We agreed that he would tell me a story about the girl that he used to go out with & he insisted on telling me this as soon as possible for some reason. When I was going to go meet him so he could tell me, the same girl from the trip was keeping me from going over there, (I didn't want to ditch her and be rude) & he was asking me "are you coming outside or not" (it sounded like he was eager, but then he goes and does this...) Then I explained to him that I've been there, but I didn't want to be rude. I found a way to position myself and the girl where he could see us, front and center. This girl is also in our class, and he knows her for a while longer than he knows me so when he comes up to us, he starts flirting with her immediately. She flirts back (of course -.-, she's one of those.) She has a boyfriend. I'm not sure if he is aware. So this makes me extremely uncomfortable, considering. We were looking at each other this whole time, so I tried to show him with my face that this might be a bad time, but my face didn't say that, it looked at him as if I was sad and confused that he was paying attention to her & not me (exactly how I was feeling, but not what I meant to do at all) so he stopped & came to me and properly greeted me. I smiled & the girl got the idea & started walking farther in front of us, and soon we were alone and she was getting her face sucked. He tells me the story as normal, we flirt and giggle and I admire him as he talks. I notice he's a bit nervous... But he never gets to finish, so we plan another day later, & he asks me if he could call me to tell me, but I say no because I want an excuse to stare at him. So when this day comes, I watch him play, (this is outside by the way) and I'm waiting for the bell to ring so he could talk to me. It when the bell rings he's still playing. I get up, a little sad since this time he wasn't texting me, he was absorbed in the game. So as I leave, I feel a hand on my shoulder, it's him of course. I give a huge smile (can't help myself) and he continues where he left off. I can't help but notice he's a little antsy and nervous as he talks this time too. He tells me about this teddy bear that he gave that ex, and he says he has it now because her parents didn't like him so she had to give it back (don't understand why) So he's talking, and a bunch of people notice us in the halls walking together, and a handful of my stupid friends make things very awkward. Pointing and giggling at us, saying "ohhhhhhhhhhhh that's him" quietly but obviously, staring at him, & one friend even went as far as to say "hey, I know you like her because she's beautiful and everything, but you'll never get that" and I wouldn't dare to look at him so I couldn't tell you his reaction, all I know is he kept talking, while I struggled to listen and respond.(I swear, I want to listen to what he's saying with my FULL attention, but he's just so gorgeous sometimes I can't believe he's talking to me.) anyway, when we said goodbye, I think I caught a glimpse of him leaning closer to hug me, but I quickly turned away. I'm not ready for all of those eyes looking at us yet. Then again I'm not sure he did.
If you don't understand what my question is, which most likely you don't (sorry) it's that I don't know if this kid likes me back! He's so confusing, he flirts in my face with that girl (which is really nothing by the way, it's just a little confusing that's all) and then texts me when we get home and treats me like a princess.
*by the way, if it sounds like I'm jealous of that one girl, I'm really not. I used to be, but I got my brain back. I just wanted to illustrate my frustration with her cockblocking.*
I want to thank anyone who got this far in advance. If you think I don't want to read extremely long answers, you're wrong lol :) you reap what you sow, or so I've heard ^_^ (link)
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It definitely sounds like he likes you. Most guys won\'t text a girl that often unless they liked you, believe me. Because I\'m pretty sure he doesn\'t talk to his guy friends that often.
There are just so many signs that point to him being interested in you.
As for him flirting with the other girl, who knows. Maybe he\'s naturally flirty and doesn\'t realize he does it? Maybe he was trying to make you jealous for some reason? Maybe he is interested in both of you?
Who knows, but it\'s pretty obvious he likes you so I\'d go for it!
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So like everyone is shippin him with his prom date and even to the point that the girl posted a picture and was like caught you peeping a look at me and its one of those cutesy couple pictures. Im really jealous... Idk what should i do... Like to me it feels like i want this situation to be in my control like for him to be sad and come back for me but clearly he's just moving on. He still checks my snapchat stories everyday so i dont know of. That means anything in particular i may be just finding hope in a hopeless situation. Its just weird cause this is the guy whove. Ive done sexual stuff eith and like even tried more than me in the first year or so. And now everyones shipping him off eith another girl only two months after we broke up do you think he moved on that fast? Was it me constantly annoying him make him hate me and want to move on? I know i should keep my value high but i cant help the feelings i stoll get from him. Sometimes i tell myself to move on but sometimes i cant do that and just hope i can possibly see him one dayand have him at least flirt with me like how we used to. (link)
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It\'s normal to feel jealous when the person you have feelings for is moving on. It just sucks.
Him checking your snapchat stories don\'t mean anything. If anything, it would just means he\'s bored and curious.
Some people can move on faster than others. I think it\'s easier for the person who broke up with their partner. Only because they\'ve already had time to move on even before the break up because they had been thinking about it for awhile.
I don\'t know what the reason he broke up with you was for. It\'s ok not to know, you just need to let go. It\'ll be extremely difficult. It\'s even harder seeing him with someone else.
Let go of your hopes with him. It\'ll just make things worse on you.
I think you shouldn\'t be friends with that girl on Facebook or wherever you\'re seeing the posted pics. You should also not be friends with him on there. You need to cut him out of your life so that you can move on without constantly being reminded of him.
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I want to know how to give urself a bruise im making a low budget film with my collage class i want authentic bruises so it looks real since i had to settle on snags for organs i should get this one! (link)
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If you tried to give yourself a real bruise, it probably won\'t show up on camera.
Like all other films, it\'s probably best to use make up. It will show up better on camera. So just go on youtube and you\'ll find lots of videos that can show you how to use make up to make it look like you have a bruise.
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So its been a while but, he asked a girl to prom i lashed out on him and he told me while he was emotional amd mad at me that he cant believe he actually considered getting back woth me. And talked about how he was thinking about it but since i lashed out on him it apparently showed him who i was and made him take it back? He told me he gave me hope cause he considered it. And after when it was the apse of his rage he told me countless harsh things like leave me alone amd let me live my life, youre lucky i havent blocke you, youre annoying me, ive tried fixing it for three times but it hasnt worked yet you say im not trying? That kind of harsh things. Well i havent talked to him since so its been about a week. Im still st the point where im like i have feelings for him still but maybe we will never be able to work out. Theres an event at the temple we met tomorrow and i wanted to go for half of the performnave my friend is doing and half to see him. Should i go? If i do what hould i react if he goes? What should i do... (link)
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You don\'t want to be with someone who talks to you like that. He knows you\'re still crazy about him and that\'s why he said that he was considering getting back together with you.
I dated my ex for over two years. We broke up a couple months ago and maybe a month after that we were talking and I had gotten really mad at him and then he told me he did for a little bit think I could be the one.
It absolutely killed me inside and gave me hope. Just like it did for you.
You still of course have feelings for him. That\'s normal. You\'ll probably have feelings for him for a long time. But for now, you need to put them aside and do what\'s right for you. It\'s hard and it\'s difficult but it needs to be done.
Don\'t go if the reason why you\'re going is to see him. If you decide to go, for the right reasons, don\'t look for him and don\'t react. Just act as if he\'s not there and enjoy yourself.
My dad gave me some advice tonight on my ex. Don\'t chase him. Just give it time and if he does ever come around and contact you, don\'t be completely available.
I\'m sure you\'re a good girl. It\'s fine that you messed up a couple times, we\'ve all done it and we\'re not perfect. So don\'t beat yourself up for lashing out. Don\'t contact him first, wait for him. When he does, just apologize for lashing out. Don\'t give a long paragraph spilling your feelings and going into detail of why you did it and all that, just say you\'re sorry and that\'s it.
For right now though, give yourself time to heal and don\'t wait around..
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Urm how do I even begin.. Basically me and my ex saw each other again after two years and well I don't know recently we spoke and all and I'm really confused and feel like iv been wasting my time because he said to me that he doesn't want a relationship just to put a tag on something he would rather continue seeing me etc.. But iv been waiting for this guy for almost 3 years like I feel I'm wasting my time it's acc hurts me cause I feel like he ain't taking me serious he just wants a fling,
Honestly I'm 20 next month and I'm at that point where I do not want a fling with someone I feel he's taking advantage of my feelings , basically he said it's all up to me I can choose whether we carry this on or not but I don't want a relationship like if it's going good why do we have to put a name on it.. I'm really confused I love this guy but I don't know if he's taking the piss it's like whenever I'm in London that's when he acc decides to talk to me (I live at uni) but when I come down for quite a while he never makes like plans to see me till recently I feel that he's paying with my emotions since he knows how much I acc like him and I don't know what to do it's such a out off knowing you've waited so long for something and it turns out the person doesn't want a relationship wtf it makes me so mad I don't want force love but when your in love your so blind you don't see behind anything and it's tearing me apart , the worse thing is I don't know how to walk away and say no.. With the way he speaks like saying do whatever you want it's up to you whether this carries on or not makes me realise that he acc doesn't like me the way I do I find that so immature I don't know :( what can I do now (link)
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These situations are just awful.
Obviously, he doesn\'t want what you want. There could be many reasons why he doesn\'t want something serious. He might be wanting a fling and also be able to see other people.
Either way, it\'s not fair to you to stick around. You care about him a lot but he\'s not returning the feelings.
A lot of guys will say what he said. \"If it\'s going good why do we have to put a name on it\". Girls need security. You don\'t have that with him and you won\'t end up happy.
So either set the boundaries and tell him that you guys can\'t talk to each other like that and be physical or romantic and all that because you want it to mean something and you need the security. Or you can just let him go and find a guy who will actually care about you.
I think you should just move on. It will be difficult. It\'s definitely easier said than done but it\'s possible and you just need to cut contact and let go. It will hurt but you\'ll feel so much better when you meet a guy who actually cares and loves you. You can\'t make this guy love you, you\'re only in control of yourself so it\'s probably best to find someone better.
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It's sort of hard to explain, so I can't imagine myself in a trillion years dating a boy. Ew! But dating a girl sounds much better to me. Yet this one boy teases me every chance he gets, which obviously means he likes me, I'm not a retard. Another boy won't leave me alone and keeps stalking me. I really don't wanna admit it, I'm not ready, but this is really uncomfortable for me, and I don't know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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If you\'re not comfortable with telling them you\'re sexual orientation then you don\'t have to. If anything comes up, just tell them you don\'t see them like that.
If one of the guys is actually stalking you, then you might want to talk to a teacher or counselor or an adult who can help you with that.
But as for now, if they tell you they like you or want to date you, just tell them you just see them as friends or you just aren\'t interested.
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Im 16. so my ex boyfriend is dating another girl and she believes in no sexual stuff before marriage and he was the one I lost my virginity to when I was 14 and he was 17. i wanted to ruin the relationship so I told her that we had sex. So anyway she got really insecure. I said " I hear you're dating my ex, how do I taste?" Every time they kiss I think it's funny cause his mouth was on my vagina before and how shes getting my leftovers. every time she kissed him my friends said its like her kissing my vagina. Was that mean? do you think it stopped them her from kissing him? i had a boyfriend after him so I have moved on I just want to make my ex mad because he deserves it cause he is my leftovers. (link)
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Your question is was that mean?
Yeah, that was mean. The only reason you said that stuff is because you\'re jealous and wanted to be mean.
You\'re now tagged as the \"crazy ex girlfriend\".
I\'m pretty sure it didn\'t stop her from kissing him. I\'m sure they\'ll blow it off because a lot of people date different people.
I mean if he\'s your leftovers, then he can say the same thing about you and the next guy you\'re dating. I mean technically, you\'re his leftovers.
Anyways, when ex\'s do that kind of stuff like text the new girlfriend, everyone will think you\'re crazy. It just sounds like you\'re jealous. If you weren\'t, you wouldn\'t care about their relationship. But here you are, wasting your time trying to destroy their relationship.
Time to grow up honey.
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So if yiu read the title, I like a guy in my math class. He is really funny! We often have suply teachers in our classes so we all mess around and be louder than usual, but he likes to play tricks on the suplys. When he finishes a prank he walks back to his seat at the back. I sit at the.front and we always catch eyes as he walks back. I really want him to notice that I like him. We do talk sometimes, usally in class and that so I cant really talk to him privately. How can I give him the look? ♥♥
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A lot of guys don\'t pick up subtle hints. So I\'d say smile at him. That\'ll grab his attention and it\'s not over doing it.
Besides that, start talking to him more! Try walking of class next to him and strike up a conversation. The more you talk to him, the closer you guys will become and it eventually could lead to something more.
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The only signs I see of as of now.. is that when I'm around and he's on his cell phone.. he is constantly on it on face book and what not. He was on the couch and I was on the recliner watching t.v. and he was on his phone looking at different stuff. I noticed at times he would have his phone turned away from me as if he new I would look but then if it was something he wanted me to see he would have it visible to me and then ask me to look at this or that. Another sign I have seen is that he constantly has his phone by his side. I'm not 100 percent sure he is cheating because he gives me compliments all the time and he's attitude, the way he talks to me and treats me has n't changed. The only thing that has is him being on his phone and I feel he is hiding something I just don't know what. I also have seen him looking at other girls pics which that don't really mean nothing I don't guess I just wish he wasn't so secretive as it seems to me. I had once had this feeling with one of my exes and I was right. Just trying to figure out more signs. Maybe it's just me. I hope its not true that he is talking to another girl. Thanks in advance. (link)
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This is something that will drive you crazy until you talk to him.
You don\'t want to look through his phone, that will just ruin your relationship because without trust, there is no relationship.
Communication will help strengthen the relationship.
Just sit him down and ask him if you guys can talk. Let him know that you\'ve noticed that he turns away from you while he\'s on his phone and it makes you wonder if there is something on it that he doesn\'t want you seeing.
Then he\'ll probably stop doing that.
You can\'t really accuse him of anything unless you have actual proof him doing anything with other girls.
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I'm friendzoned by a friend. We are really close to each other and one time when her boyfriend left her I was by her side when she was really hurt and sad. And now she said that she is now looking for another love. And I volunteered but of course I made it a joke cuz I'm afraid I might be rejected. But then she said I must nit volunteer because she doesn't want to lose me cuz she treasures me as her brother. Wtf? I really like her and loved her but she just think me as her brother. Please help (link)
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It sucks when someone you like doesn\'t feel the same towards you. But you can\'t make someone want you or want to be with you.
Maybe someday in the future she might feel that way, but I wouldn\'t wait around for it. If she doesn\'t feel that spark between you two, there\'s nothing you can do about it.
Keep being her friend, but don\'t expect anything more to come out of it.
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Hi I'm Liv, 15 and I've met this guy named Barry (going 17) on xbox 360 live. And our friendship started when we started chatting on facebook. We've been chatting for a year and 3 months. We are quite far he is in New York while I'm in Hawaii. I never moved Hawaii since then. We planned to meet but my mom won't allow me. He is very nice guy and I'm inlove with him. I know that he likes me too. What should I do with this? Is it wrong to be inlove with someone you don't even see? And I really want to see him. (link)
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It\'s not uncommon for people to start developing some sort of feelings for someone over the internet.
But like the others said, it wouldn\'t be smart to go to New York or meet him anywhere by yourself.
I mean it\'s not even the fact that you\'re 15. Like Rahzie said, it would be insane if an adult woman flew out to meet a guy she never met in person.
Your safety is priority. If he really likes you, he\'d have to come visit you and spend time around your family.
I mean he could be telling the truth about everything. But there are lots of situations where it\'s not true, so that\'s why you have to be extra careful.
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I am a female aged 21 and have recently started going out with a guy who regularly calls me a slut, whore, worthless and tells me how he doesn't trust me around any males but yet he tells me he has never loved anyone the way he loves me and he wants to marry me.
Long story short I went out with a guy for 2 years and he broke it off with me as he had been seeing another girl. A month later I had sex with one of my older friends (he knew my ex). A month after that I got back with my boyfriend.
We lasted for a year until I ended it with him for reasons of no trust etc due to what he had done before. About a month later I had sex with the same friend again.
I told my current boyfriend about my past history and he finds it very hard to deal with. He constantly tells me how he can't trust me around anyone. He asks me to send him photos of where I am every half an hour so he knows I'm not lying about my whereabouts.
He sends me messages such as (sorry for the vulgarity in some of these messages):
I bet you looked at his nice hard c*ck and loved it
You f*cked a guy who knew your ex
You wanted him to f*ck you
I find it funny that you aspire to be a mother one day
You really are a dirty sl*t
You used to deserve to get treated better but now you don't
You ruined yourself by f*cking him
Stop saying you're not a sl*t and face up to what you are
You f*cked up and you have to face the consequences
You are a disgraceful human
You are a f*cking whore
You just wanted his c*ck inside you
Do I deserve to get messages like this? I have only had sex or done any sexual activities with my ex, my friend and now my current boyfriend so I always thought I was a very good person.
He also has issues with the amount of guys that I have kissed which is 12. He hates that I have kissed three guys that I met on nights out (separate nights). One I dated for a while but the other two I never spoke to again.
I don't know whether I just hung around with people with no morals but I thought up until now that I was well behaved.
Do I deserve to get treated like this? (link)
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This guy is abusive. It\'s verbal abuse and you should never stay with anyone who talks to you like that.
You don\'t deserve to get any messages like that.
Now, even if you did sleep around with a lot of people or kissed tons more guys, you still wouldn\'t deserve to be talked to like that.
Because even if you did, it was in your past.
But anyways, dump him. You deserve someone who respects you and he just talks to you like you\'re trash. So find someone better.
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