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What to do?(ex of two years)
So its been a while but, he asked a girl to prom i lashed out on him and he told me while he was emotional amd mad at me that he cant believe he actually considered getting back woth me. And talked about how he was thinking about it but since i lashed out on him it apparently showed him who i was and made him take it back? He told me he gave me hope cause he considered it. And after when it was the apse of his rage he told me countless harsh things like leave me alone amd let me live my life, youre lucky i havent blocke you, youre annoying me, ive tried fixing it for three times but it hasnt worked yet you say im not trying? That kind of harsh things. Well i havent talked to him since so its been about a week. Im still st the point where im like i have feelings for him still but maybe we will never be able to work out. Theres an event at the temple we met tomorrow and i wanted to go for half of the performnave my friend is doing and half to see him. Should i go? If i do what hould i react if he goes? What should i do...
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You don't want to be with someone who talks to you like that. He knows you're still crazy about him and that's why he said that he was considering getting back together with you.
I dated my ex for over two years. We broke up a couple months ago and maybe a month after that we were talking and I had gotten really mad at him and then he told me he did for a little bit think I could be the one.
It absolutely killed me inside and gave me hope. Just like it did for you.
You still of course have feelings for him. That's normal. You'll probably have feelings for him for a long time. But for now, you need to put them aside and do what's right for you. It's hard and it's difficult but it needs to be done.
Don't go if the reason why you're going is to see him. If you decide to go, for the right reasons, don't look for him and don't react. Just act as if he's not there and enjoy yourself.
My dad gave me some advice tonight on my ex. Don't chase him. Just give it time and if he does ever come around and contact you, don't be completely available.
I'm sure you're a good girl. It's fine that you messed up a couple times, we've all done it and we're not perfect. So don't beat yourself up for lashing out. Don't contact him first, wait for him. When he does, just apologize for lashing out. Don't give a long paragraph spilling your feelings and going into detail of why you did it and all that, just say you're sorry and that's it.
For right now though, give yourself time to heal and don't wait around..
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