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texting a guy
ok so i have been texting a guy i already know tht he likes me and i like him back but i dont think we have established tht we r "dating" yet we dont even call each other nicknames or bf and gf i am 13 and he is 15 and he does not go to my school i know i am not ild enough to have sex and doo not want to do so for a while but i still want to "tease" him and "turn him on" with out being too raunchy please help me what should i text to him?
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I'd talk to him, and ask him what you two are so that you know what to do with your dating life.
He's 15, he will get turned on from anything. You can hug him or something and he'll probably get turned on. Just because of those hormones.
But if I were you, I wouldn't tease him or anything like that if you have no intentions of doing anything with him because it will probably bother him and give him the idea that you want to have sex with him. Just not a smart thing to do.
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Teasing might lead to rape. It has happened before so be careful.
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Well heres your problem, if you want to in the end anger him and make him hate you, then keep teasing him because boys that age only think about one thing and i think you know what it is. He may expect you do stuff in person that you did over the phone, so that kinda stuff just isnt a good idea.
If you want to get things straight with him just JUST SAY, im looking to date guys not "play around" and that will either get him serious about you and lead to a long term relationship or it will make him face reality and know that your serious about your life and where you wanna be and with who you wish to do it with.
I told guys i knew straight up and it ended up scaring away the guys that were just trying to keep me around to use me in the future and kept the real men around because they respected that i was honest enough to say what i wanted.
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