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ok so i have been texting a guy i already know tht he likes me and i like him back but i dont think we have established tht we r "dating" yet we dont even call each other nicknames or bf and gf i am 13 and he is 15 and he does not go to my school i know i am not ild enough to have sex and doo not want to do so for a while but i still want to "tease" him and "turn him on" with out being too raunchy please help me what should i text to him?
Teasing might lead to rape. It has happened before so be careful.
I was giving my bf a blow job.his penis was dry.then we kissed.we didnthave our pants off at the same time..after he put on his pants.he took mine off.then he licked my p***y..he was not cumming at all..am i pregnany?? Please give 100 percent sure answer..i am not pregnant right???
My question is how old are you? Sweety no offense but if you dont know the answer to that you may be too young to ne doing those things.
But like they said only intercourse which means him putting his D*** in your P**** can get you pregnant
Hi i need some advice i want to find god i'm 13 male and have had a few family problems and feel lonely sometimes and i do want to become a christian a couple of months ago i started going to church i go every week i pray to god twice everyday i feel good after praying god has really helped me i have started reading the bible i want to give my life to god what else do i need to do to be a christian?
I think that may be a question for the lord :) i congratulate you not many young males make the decision of giving their lives to god. But i believe the only one who can guide you threw you new found life is god himself ask him what is it you have to do to be pleasant threw his eyes. Ask him to rest in your heart and to guide you threw life. If you read the bible thoroughly it will tell you the outstanding qualities of his disciples and why he chose them. Being humble and generous kind and loving helpful and non judgemental of others. But most importantly never doubt your lord or deny him. Always hold his commandments in your heart and even when your life is at its toughest never give up on that feeling you have now. When you feel at your worst read the book of Job and see how much pain he suffered he got stripped of all his land and family and beauty and health but even in his last second of life he praised the lord!
Be strong! Christianity is not the easy path but it will be worth it when you stand before the father and he calls out your name
I really wanna runaway, I'm not abused or anything, but I don't really get out much, and I wanna have an adventure. I read into it and learned that if I'm caught I could get a police record or have to see a psychologist. I have family members who are cops, and live in New York, so can someone tell me what I need to do? BTW, I'm 10.
10? Where will you go ? Who will take care of you being that you are only a child and unfortunately can not yet fly on your own?
I know you want to be adventourous because you are so young but there are orher ways of doing so than putting your life in danger or by making choices that will scar. Have you considered talking to your parents telling them you feel trapped maybe a bit more liberty? You can abuse it either
If you compromise with your parents and they agree for a bit of liberty than you have to obey the rules that follow.
Dont run away it is a bad experience !
Be young and have fun while you can because when adulthood comes and its time to pay your own bills you will wish to be 10 again!
I live in an apartment complex, and the apartment above mine decided to overload their washer, causing massive leaking from my ceiling. I have come to notice than when my one year old son and I are home, we are very congested, but when we leave, within minutes, our noses are clear and we can breath just fine again. I have spoken to the maintenance man about the possibility of their being mold, but EVERY time I bring this up "Oh you don't know what mold looks like. It ain't mold" I had lived in an apartment before this one, where there was NO ventilation system installed in the restroom, and yes, I dealt with black mold before. I know what it looks like, and what effects it has on me. I was mostly wondering, what organization would I get a hold of to hopefully get this situation properly taken care of? I am worried about my sons health, and speaking with the buildings management seems to do me no good. I can't move out because I can't afford to break the lease and to find a new place to live on my salary. Any and all help is greatly appreciated. For easier references, I live in the state of Indiana, and my apartment is supposedly owned by the IRS, so they say. Thank you for your time.
Well have you reviewed your lease agreement? Most leases will tell you what matience will be obligated to go see. I suggest go to a lawyer and have him just go threw your lease agreement and tell him your problem he will see if there is something legally you can do. Im not from that state therefore i dont know how the laws work there. Unfortunately if the lawyer cant find a way due to your agreement you might have to pay out of pocket to a company that deals specifically with mold and such. Best of luck hope my info was helpful
So my boyfriend & I recently discovered we both had chlyamdia. I got it cured. But my boyfriend on the other hand, hasn't yet. He went but they sent him somewhere else, anyways we were messing around we been using condoms since we found out but I was messing around & I was teasing him & didn't think anything of it but I just licked the top of his dick (the head) & just remembered you can get chlymadia through oral. I didn't think about it, but it was literally just a lick. Not a suck or anything. One lick! Lol he didn't cum or anything. Is there a chance I have a chlymadia? Please answer asap!
The main ways you can get a std is threw bodily fluids so sexual intercourse and oral sex if there was any fluid on his penis than there is a slight chance being that his fluid came in contact with your saliva that eventually that disease gets into your blood stream but if what you say is true and was one lick and the penis was dry than the chances are of you getting it might be very low but in case of doubts check out with your doctor ! Better safe than sorry my friend
I have been on/off with my current boyfriend for about a year and i always told him i have feelings for him, even when i had a boyfriend at the time, i just wanted him. By the end of that year we got together and he disappeared for a week or so, no calls no texts and picks up after many calls very coldly.
I started seeing someone else and then he started apologizing to me, I said OK but i was never ok, because I have trust and intimacy issues and then i told him im seeing someone else, but he said i had to choose, n i chose him. I met the other guy and we had a stupid quicky, never happened again, i tried to actually be with the other guy but i loved number one too much and i really fell for him.
all this was at the first month and a half of our relationship, and 4months in i told him something and it took us to me telling him about the whole thing.
I am trying now after 4months since i have done my cheating (which i would like to say a stupid mistake) to gain his trust and help him overcome this.
But ii want to know, from all of you, when you have serious and major trust issues, due to a history of abuse for more than 15yrs, does that really make you a cheater, like what i did.
All i was trying to do was to be fair to myself and assertive, as men always get a piece of me for nothing, and i was trying to just protect myself and be safe, i did wrong.
I say there are plenty of people who cheat you shouldn't feel guilty because be sure that you have been cheated on before without even knowing. Just get it out of your mind (the mistake) because everyone makes them and you felt the need to feel loved since apparently your boyfriend at the time didn't seem to care. But why was he acting coldly towards you than started apologizing? Do you think he was probably doing the same thing to you and guilt got in the way as it is getting in your way as well?
What are polatees?
"Pilates" is a system of exercises using special apparatus, designed to improve physical strength, flexibility, and posture,
Heres a link to a video that might explain it a bit better
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=E-2nTyxdKA4
I didn't expect to get this. I wanted a list of ways to STOP THIS. I CAN'T DO THIS ANYMORE! I even called a suicide hotline # about a month ago and was put on hold about a dozen times. I kept getting the same lady everytime I called and she clearly did not want to listen to me.
I need help...soon. I have called every number, talked to people, and been used by the rest.
Is there anybody out there who can help? The thought of even starting another month is too much.
Im sorry if it may be difficult to get answers but you must understand that it is a very hard task to give advice to a person who feels that all hope is lost.
Why don't you start off with telling us why you are even considering this awful idea? Maybe than we can get to that broken little heart of yours who in all reality may just need to feel loved, wanted,important, etc.
Please do not try to take your life because if i am sure of one thing and its that someone loves you very much! And you cam say no but that is just your depression talking because even if you truly feel that no one does it may be because the person who can take all these thoughts away and make you want to live your life hasn't came along
Who in life hasn't faced troubles and difficulties? We ALL do and each person has their own pain but its all about picking ourselves up and think that someone out their is suffering 10x the pain we are!
Think of all the people that very unfairly get murdered and have their lives just taken away! They did not have the choice that you do have! Its not fair to the people that know you to do that to them.
Why don't you open up a little more to tell us what is going on in your life and instead of asking for ways to end it ask for ways to save yourself
Hello advicenators,
I am going to be buying a "new used" car pretty soon. I got a new job recently and I will be able to afford the payments. Im looking to spend somewhere in the $18-25,000 range. I don't want to buy something I'll regret with that amount of money. I have never bought from a dealership before.
What are some tips? What are some things I should look out for (Any salesmen tricks I should be wary of, or extra things that I shouldn't be paying for?) I'm a girl in my 20s that knows pretty much nothing about cars (other than how to fill up oil and change a tire-the basics) and I totally expect to be taken advantage of when it comes to cars. I'm not stupid but there's a lot of car stuff I don't know.
So anything helps, really. I'm going to do some test drives this weekend. I've researched and decided on a couple of different makes and models based on extensive internet searches and reviews. I would like to be prepared before I go.
Thank you!
Car salesman always make things seem like a good deal so don't let them get you excited on what may seem like a good deal. If you are buying a "slightly" used vehicle you have to pay attention to the mileage if its been on the road a lot and has a lot of miles it wont be worth a big price
Another thing you might want to consider is fuel efficiency, some cars may cost you up to $90 or above on a full tank think about how often you drive.
And also pay close attention to the interest rates if you do not have good or high enough credit your interest rate might be really high and your monthly payments will too. I suggest you calculate your monthly payments and see what your monthly spending might be so you have an idea what exact price range you can afford
And probably the best thing i can tell you is to take someone along with you when you are car hunting. Someone who is very much experienced in cars and coming from a woman it might be preferable if its a male! Like you said they try to take advantage of first time buyers especially when its a young lady like yourself!
My best friends sister boyfriend keeps hitting on me , asking me for kisses and stuff idk what to do should I tell my best friend but she'll tell her sister & shes just gonna argue with him then take him back then Ima be uncomfortable going to her house being around him , what should I do ?
Well doesn't going over there already make you feel uncomfortable? I say you should let your best friend know first and talk to her about it than the sister might want to talk to you about it.
But even if they argue and get back together at least you were honest right? If you keep silencing and the situation gets worse when you are finally ready to tell they may not believe you because you didn't say anything from the beginning
Say something right now and avoid a more serious hassle later.
My boyfriend and i planning to have sex but i'm afraid that it will be painfull. We both are virgin and i don't know what should i do.
I am from india
I'm 16years
I would say you are young for this decision but that is not why you are here! Being that you are a virgin there is no doubt that there will be some pain but their is a way it could be a little less painful
1. Lubrication
This will make the entrance of his penis a little easier
2. Take it easy
Make sure to just take it slow and not rush into the act
And this wont be about what you asked but i do hope you are sure of this decision and that he is worthy of being your first partner
please someone tell me the easiest painless way to die.. i hate pain but i need to do this.
Whatever you are going threw you need to know that you were put in this world with a purpose! There are so many people that die young and not because they chose to but because of illness or of someone's heartless decision to kill them. But you... You have your life you have time and the oppurtunity to be happy
Whatever you are going threw there are people that have way worse situations
sweety everyone in this world is faced with challenges but the strong chooses to fight threw and the weak decide to find another way out. Be strong and fight threw your problem live your life and live it well do it for the people that didnt have a choice..like my sister who was murdered she didnt chose to die at 23 she had a wonderful life ahead of her but she got robbed of that
So please you have a choice dont make the wrong decision live your life
how do u know when u need a bra
Trust me sweety you will know when you need one! :)
In my personal experience i started wearing a bra when my breast started to take form and when my nipples started to show. Also if when you are walking and they start to have a little jiggle to them. Dont worry much it comes to you naturally and you will know when you need one.
i have been in this relationship for 11 months....no affection at all no kissing no huggin but we do have sex an oral..i am n love wit him but wondering do he love me...never a compliment ...he say if he didnt want me he wouldnt buy me things...very controllin ways...do i neeftoto move on? or will it change? i ask did he eva kiss his son mom he sad a few times...
It seems to me that he may not be as into it as you are. A relationship is composed of all the things that you say he isnt doing
1.hugs
2.kisses
3.compliments
How about you do an experiment and talk to him about this tell him how you feel and what your wishes are if he seems to not care about what you are saying to him than believe that he simply is not into it as much as you are
And im sorry to say but if its been almost a year and you have not seen any of those things that your heart desires than maybe its time to let him go!
Good luck and remember all girls deserve to feel loved by their partner and feel like the only girl in the world!
Hi. I've been with my partner for a year. I've lived with him since June 2013. I'm starting to think moving in was a mistake. Ever since I moved in, his mother and sisters kids control his life. We haven't been on an actual date because he'll bring mommy and sisters kids. If he doesn't, mom whines and cries and he'll pick them up. I feel like his moms his 2nd girlfriend. She always needs him and kids are always dumped on him. Parents never want to pick them up, so he's stuck with them. I'm always cleaning after his mom and sisters kids. She'll just sit and give orders. When I was contemplating breaking up with him, he'll cry to her and say you're not leaving him. She yells at me for not wanting to get pregnant. I'm starting to hate him and his family.What would you do?
The fact that you question leaving or not makes the choice simple for me..leave him. You are obviously not happy with the situation you are in so why would you stay? Moving in with the person you love should be a beautiful experience. Maybe there is a way you and him could get your own place? Ultimately it is your decision but know that if you stay you cant make them change because it is their house and they feel in control. Make yourself happy, always but your happiness first
Hey so me and my boyfriend are both in 6th grade and we have been going out for 4months and havent actually kissed yet like I've kissed his head(on accident) his neck and his cheek. But we have never actually kissed lip to lip if you know what I mean. And I need help on how to kiss him lip to lip for the first time because he doesn't pick up the hints of when I'm ready. ANYTHING helps thank you. :)
Best advice i could give you is telling you that the best kiss is the ones that are not planned or thought out :)
Let it happen without thinking about it
18/f
So here's the thing. My boyfriend just doesn't know how to have sex. We've tried about ten times now. But he just can't put the condom on correctly. We've tried different sizes and everything and he just says its very uncomfortable. He is still a virgin (I'm not)
Obviously I love him which is why I want to help him with this. But idk how as its not like I'm experienced either?
He just can't stay hard as soon as he attempts to put the condom on...
Are there any other contraceptive methods we could try? I have asked him if he's sure he's ready and he said he'd really like to try. I just feel like we both don't really know what we're doing!
Well believe it or not that is very common with guys that are virgins and they are just starting to experience with their first partner. The reason why he is not staying hard while putting on the condom is because he is not relaxed. You guys might want to try turning the lights down low or try some fore play before the actual act. Help him relax and don't try to make him rush to put it on on the contrary you should help him put on the condom feeling the warmness of your hands while kissing his lips should help out some! If you make him feel like he was at his house alone about to masturbate i guarantee you he will rock your world. Its all a game of relaxation and being comfortable. Good luck