Member Since: March 17, 2014
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Last Update: March 17, 2014
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i m from a middle class family..I had an elder brother..my mom always hurts me for each and every unnecessary things..this is from my childhood.my dad never took us as a responsibility.he nodes his head for whatever my mom says.whatever happens in our home my parents scolds me even i dnt have anyhting to do with what had happened.
My mother has a friend who is a pastor..he is such a cunning guy..i hate him.he misbehaves with me in front of my mom.but my mom doesn't say anything about this..even i complained to her she said that i am thinking in wrong way.one day even my friends saw the behavior of that uncle and warned me about him.since my mom didn't care about me i complained to my brother.even he didn't took any action on this.i was really shattered of this situation.slowly my mom changed my dads mind against me and now they are harassing and hurting every day..every hour..i am not able to bear all this...i don't have anyone to help me out even. None believes me...because my mom has done like that.i started to hate myself.i am losing hope on everyone and even on myself..
Please anyone could help from this situation..day by day my situation is becoming worse..what can i do?????!!!! (link)
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First things first. You need to get away from that so called uncle. If youfeel a certain way or your gut feelings are telling you something, get out of the situation. As the previous person wrote....the school social worker or councellor is your best bet. Make an appointment and voice your concerns. This has to be dealt with right away. Whe you say misbehaving in a certain way, I am not too sure what you are saying. Is he tickling you, or saying things to you? Maybe you can elaborate abit on that. Other peoples behaviors may be seen different from different people. I wish you the best. And hope you find the help you need.
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I'm 16, turning 17 in a few days. I have a 1yr old. and I believe I'm addicted to sex. I started when I was 15. I didn't start having actually sex til after my daughter. I have had sex with around 15 guys. I have never had sex with more then one guy at a time but some say they ran a "train" on me. which never happened. I have had sex with a set of brothers but at SEPARATE times, I REGRET IT ! I have had one night stands and regret that also! alot of the dudes I've had sex with were my regrets!! Sex makes me happy, but not all the time. Am I a whore for this?? (link)
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I don't think you are a whore at all. Only a young woman trying to find herself. I am answering this since I had similar things happen to me when I was young. I would have sex with different boys/men and I never felt guilty or remorse for what I had done. Then rumours (true) were flying around within my circle of friends. I found out later, too bad it wasn't sooner. I was in my late 20's when I started seeking professional help. Found out it had alot to do with abuse by men and family members that had me doing this. Plus no father growing up. I was looking for fatherly love. All that sex never made me happy. For the moment the closeness was all I needed. But that was it. You need to respect yourself and maybe seek some councelling to get to the bigger issues in your life. You have a right to feel good about yourself and to hopefully find one person that you can share yourself with. I too thought I was addicted to sex, but sitting down and talking to someone who is a professional may help. Sure its embarrasing but belive me they heard it all. All the best to you.
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