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what can i do in this situation i am helpless!!!
i m from a middle class family..I had an elder brother..my mom always hurts me for each and every unnecessary things..this is from my childhood.my dad never took us as a responsibility.he nodes his head for whatever my mom says.whatever happens in our home my parents scolds me even i dnt have anyhting to do with what had happened.
My mother has a friend who is a pastor..he is such a cunning guy..i hate him.he misbehaves with me in front of my mom.but my mom doesn't say anything about this..even i complained to her she said that i am thinking in wrong way.one day even my friends saw the behavior of that uncle and warned me about him.since my mom didn't care about me i complained to my brother.even he didn't took any action on this.i was really shattered of this situation.slowly my mom changed my dads mind against me and now they are harassing and hurting every day..every hour..i am not able to bear all this...i don't have anyone to help me out even. None believes me...because my mom has done like that.i started to hate myself.i am losing hope on everyone and even on myself..
Please anyone could help from this situation..day by day my situation is becoming worse..what can i do?????!!!!
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First things first. You need to get away from that so called uncle. If youfeel a certain way or your gut feelings are telling you something, get out of the situation. As the previous person wrote....the school social worker or councellor is your best bet. Make an appointment and voice your concerns. This has to be dealt with right away. Whe you say misbehaving in a certain way, I am not too sure what you are saying. Is he tickling you, or saying things to you? Maybe you can elaborate abit on that. Other peoples behaviors may be seen different from different people. I wish you the best. And hope you find the help you need.
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Many schools have a police officer who is assigned to the school. They, or social workers, are experts in these areas. At school tomorrow, please ask at school. You can say something as simple as "Someone at home is hurting me and I need help."
Do keep in mind that people who work in schools are mandated first reporters. This means that they are required by law to tell the police if someone tells them what I told you to tell them. Only you can decide what you want to do, but I highly suggest telling someone. You should not be abused by your parents. This is not acceptable behavior for adults.
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irst off. This is abuse. And you do not have to deal with it at all. There are people that can help you! You can live a better life. Take a look at this website to help you :)
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You need help, talk to an adult you trust, a school teacher/counsler, a neighbor, ANYONE you trust. If it's getting worse, call CPS (Child Protection Services). I wish the best for you and I hope you get the help you need, :/
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