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I wasn't really sure where to put this, so I picked friendship, since it has to do with a friend.

Okay, so it's indirectly about my best friend. Her name is Lisa. But it's also about her boyfriend. His name is Tyler.

So, recently, Tyler told me that he's wanted to ask me out since he first came to our school in the middle of this year. (I'm a girl, in case you people didn't already figure that out.) I've always liked him, but I never let on. But now, he knows.

So, today, I stayed after school, because I didn't want to go home and clean my room. (It's a MESS.) Well, Tyler ALWAYS stays after school. For reasons unbeknownst to me. (I hope I spelled that right.)

Well, at first, we were just sitting at the picknick table, talking. About nothing, really. Then we got onto the subject of us liking eachother. Which quickly turned into flirting.

I had a metal... Thing, I have no idea what it was... in my hand. Well, Tyler took it. I tried to get it back, wich turned into us holding hands. Which turned into a kiss... Which turned into a make-out session...

Now, Lisa is my very best friend in the whole wide world, and I'd rather do ANYTHING than hurt her... But I think I just did.

We both knew it was wrong. And it was. Now I'm wondering what I should do. Please help me. :(

Your right this is a terrible and with your BFF's BF? WOW. but this is SOOOO romantic! talking to flirting to holding hands to a kiss to making out?
Anyways back to the question.
Well I think that you should REALLY tell your BFF and tell quick before someone tells her first. Before you tell her though you need to talk with tyler to know what is going to happen. Like if Lisa breaks up with him where is it going to put you and him. And like was it nothing or was it something,(it sounds to me its WAY more that just something.) If it is more than just something you and tyler need to know you how you can avoid this again.

With your friend Lisa.... You already hurt her and it happened and there is no going back.
So I think you need to be COMPLETELY honest with Lisa and tell her that you and tyler talked and tell her everything that you to said to eachother.
This is a total mess and I wish I could help you more than just sitting here typing words.
Just remember these things happen for a reason and they happen and you can't stop them sometimes. Remember this quote "You'll regret what you may do now, but you'll regret what you don't do so much more"

I REALLY REALLY hoped I helped
sncerely
advice~gurl
kat

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can u still swim if you got like 5 stiches in your finger????????

Well... yes you can swim but I wouldn't want to swim in a pool when you have some sort of injury.
Take it from me, every time i swim in a pool I always get sick afterwards. They'er is always a chance that someone has peed or bactiria.
You really should ask your Doctor instead of us advicenators becasue he may say yea or no. but not matter what I would reconsider swiming until your finger is healed.

hoped I helped
sincerely
advice~gurl
kat

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Hi i have a comment im friend2all and love answering questions ive also wrote for advice myself. To the people who give a unbleable joke question pls when u ask a question like this u will get some bad comments but advice nators do not aim to do that. If u are bored or wanna talk about anything then u can. Advice nators is not just about giving and asking for advice its finding friendship from all over the world.

WHAT??? I thought Advicenators was for people that want advice not to "make friends".
We as advice columnists are to here to help people with their Probs and for ourselves to get advice when we need it. Were not on advicenators to make friends yes I will say that I have a made some e-pals but no thats not the reason were here. If thats what you think you SERIOSLY need to reconsider your thinking.

sncerely
advice~gurl
kat

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Does it make you feel guilty that you are rating fake questions that you've asked to yourself? Or does that not bother you at all?

well I will be honest that I have asked about 2-3 questions to myself but I regret that I did rate a couple.Most of those that you think that I did wrote was my "Old" friend guardianangel04.
I will delete all my questions to myself.
sincerely
advice~gurl

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when is the right age to have sex?

Well... I normaly never would except a sex question but I feel I should answer this so I will.
There is no "set" age to have sex but yoiu shouldn't have sex until your older. But you shouldn't have sex just to do it. I think that you should wait till you have met the right person and feel that your ready. that you love him (or her:) I don't beleive that I should have sex before I'm married but I'm not trying to force my ideas on you either.
don't have sex because everyone else is doing it or that your being pressured to.
Sex is something that is specail and should stay specail not just abused. If you feel that you are ready and that you know have met the right person then I guess your at the right age.
But no you shouldn't have sex when your 14, 15 or even 16 but I'm just saying my oppion.

I hoped I helped and answered your question to your liking. If you need more help just ask again.
sincerely
advice~gurl
kat

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__Takes my breath away__

Sitting next to him,
I like to say,
that he takes my breath away,
To the Lord,
I pray,
because he takes my breath away,
In my mind,
over and over I play,
"He takes my breath away",
his name is no use,
for all I say,
Is that he takes my breath away,
He's taken, I know,
but be it as it may,
he still takes my breath away.

Youi write poems and you write good! trust me! keep up ths good writing! I wish I could write as good as you. *tear rolls down chee* you must really like this guy. I hope you 2 get togather. (smiles)
Crazy
A lonely girl wonders why she feels so broken hearted.
He doesn't feel the same and her heart is split in two.
She feels like a fool.
She holds her head as high as she can.
She crys and crys. Wonders why?
"Am I too ugly? am I too loud? Or is he just crazy?"
She crys and crys. Wonders why?
with tears in her eyes she smiles and says, "HE IS JUST CRAZY!"
I am not the one in the wrong, HE IS JUST CRAZY

What A Wonderful Life
As a young girl lays in bed one night.
She thinks of her life happenings.
She thinks of the smiles.
She thinks of the frowns.
She thinks of the tears that have been shed.
She thinks of the feelings of having her heart broken.
She thinks of the feelings of having her heart mended.
She thinks of all the people she knows and smiles.
What a Wonderful Life!
~K.J.B~
sincerely
advice~gurl
kat

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ok wut site would i go on to get some hair styles.... i have blonde kinda meduim its like an inch past my should hair... i wear it in a pony tail every day and i need good hair styles i also straighten it sometimes but i have had swimming for the last couople weeks so its hard i really extremly need hair styles wut website should i go to that gives good stles and steps?

Yeah, I know what you mean.
I personaly don't know any websites that have hair styles but you can go to www.ask.com or Google. just type in hair styles or swimmer hair styles you get what what i'm saying. i can give you a couple hair styles that works for my hair and by what you said we have pretty much the same kind of hair. French Braiding is always a good hair style (and if you don't know to french braid type that in a search too) or you can do a half pony tail and and let peices of your hair to hang around you face to give an airy look.

I hoped i helped!
Sincerely
advice~gurl
kat

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I'm working on a song. So far I have only the basic outline of the lyrics which need serious help. Here they are:

If I had to die right now
I'd die in your arms.
If I was crying right now,
you'd be near.
You mean so much to me,
I love you more than anything
right now.

You are my all in all,
I want you here beside me.
Your smile can dry my tears
Take away my deepest fears.
I love you more than anything right now.

I know I haven't known you long,
I hardly know a thing about you.
I know if I had to die right now,
I'd die in your arms.
I love you more than anything
right at this moment now.

Now I don't have a lot to give you,
I hope you'll understand.
And you don't have to give me jewels
I love you more without them.
I love you more than anything
dying in your arms.

It's called In Your Arms.

It's totally good! I really like I wish I could listen to it with music I bet it would be even beeter!

sincerely
advice~gurl
kat

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i like this guy who is one of my closest friends. but i dont know if he feels the same way about me i mean we're good friends and we have alot in common how can i get him to like me

How does he act around you? He is your best friend so its hard to say. You could always really really tell him how you feel. i got a quote from one of the other advicenators MichiruKaiou "You'll regret what you may do now, but you'll regret what you don't do so much more" so see? who knows he may like you!

i'm sorry im not more help but one more thing don't act like someone else to make him like you. becasue if you have a lot in common then that is all he should need to like you but if he doesn't like you remember that quote and just be happy with your self.
Crazy
A lonely girl wonders why she feels so broken hearted.
He doesn't feel the same and her heart is split in two.
She feels like a fool.
She holds her head as high as she can.
She crys and crys. Wonders why?
"Am I too ugly? am I too loud? Or is he just crazy?"
She crys and crys. Wonders why?
with tears in her eyes she smiles and says, "HE IS JUST CRAZY!"
I am not the one in the wrong, HE IS JUST CRAZY!
~KJB~

let me know how it all works out.
sincerely
advice~gurl
kat

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This is a site for people who want to ask real questions right? Or, is this a sight where people make jokes and write meaningless things? I'm confused!

Well... This is a site that is for people that have real questions and want the answers but there are the "different" advicenators that really don't care they don't take it serious.
I personaly think that it only manners how we answer the questions.
So yes this is a site that is for "Real" questions.

hope I helped
sincerely
advice~gurl
kat

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Greetings, it's me, the advicenator_admin. Lately I've been receiving more requests to have people monitor the site for unsuitable content. Some people would rather give bad advice. I haven't cared much before, I mean, annoying questions are a problem because everyone reads those, but not everyone reads every advice column so who cares how bad it is? I look at advice columns like your own websites... unless it's really hateful, I see no need to try to ban people. Plus, so far when a columnist joins and decides it's funny to slam everyone and be mean, they've gotten sick of it after ten questions or so. No need to pick a fight when they're dropping out anyway.

What do you all think? Should we ban people with really awful columns? Not display columnists with really low ratings? Ignore everything, and just let the site run free? I want to know what everybody thinks.

Well... yes and no. I think that there are a "couple" advicenators that are WAY out of hand and they haven't quit.
I think that it shouldn't be REAL strict but maybe if you get more than lets say 4 complaints then give that advice columnist a warning or something. because this is a great site and all but the more advicenators you get the more you have to do. i know you understand this but its just i was going to complain about this issue but i saw this question. so yes you should be a little more strict.

sincerely
advice~gurl
kat

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There is a place in California that has a red bridge but i forget the name of it. Do you know what it is called?

I'm guessing you mean the Golden Gate Bridge in San Fransico

advice~gurl
kat

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Another happy poem :)
Life is life
Love is love
Angels are blessing
from above
you are an angel
and will always be
my heart bears a lock
but you hold the key
you are my sunshine
on a cloudy day
one who washes my tears away
my lifes been so much better
since ive meet you
i wish i could tell you
i wish you knew
if only you knew how much
you mean to me
thats what my only wish
.... would be

GOOD!!!!! WOW! I know every poem i read i like but its just that everyone is good! I really like this poem. i write poems that are like this You should summit this to WWW.poetry.coom You might have it published!

sincerely
advice~gurl
kat

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Hey It's Here To Help a.k.a. Gessyka

YOU'RE SO MEAN Advice1300. I'm going to find a way to kick you off advicenators. You tell people to kill themselves and use profanity towards them?? What is that? You obviously are depsperate...you probably have nobody. Listen if you have anger TALK TO US ABOUT IT! Don't call anyone names.
*stifles laugh* you're sooo....ugh!

Get a life you little baby. People deserve better advice then from someone like you.
Who agrees???

Don't ask Advice 1300 a question...she may pop another blood vessel trying to think of another 'great' insult to your question.

I totally agree with you but I also agree with jbdreamer. I have had some advicenators that i have wanted to yell about but somehow i never did and am glad i didn't.
Yes advice 1300 may have some "personal" problems but still you or me or anyone shouldn't say anything because that may make her (or him) even more upset and were advice columnists so we shouldn't be so quick to judge. So to all advicenators PLEASE think before you write. It's not fare the way you "sometimes" judge. I have asked questions and you just judge without thinking. We all give good advice and we should be fare in thinking so i hope i have made you think about how you give advice.

sincerely
advice~gurl
kat

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me and my friend both have a crush on the same guy what should i do

sorry i took so long to answer this.

Well this is a toughy. I know how hard this is because i'm in the scenario. It is one of the worst things i think.

Okay back to the question.
well there is really nothing you can "DO" but having feelings for a guy and having you friend crush on him too makes things totally comlacated. All i can say is that try to save your friendship before breaks. because if you guys are in deep man! i would try to make the best of it. it may be nice for a while to share your crush but then you start fighting, and what i would do is just sorta let it go. No i don''t mean stop crushing but just let your feelings stay away form your friend. and i mean like just let her start going crazy about him and don't make to much noise. if ya see what im saying. I know know you may feel hurt for awhile but later on she will get tired of the crush. may be fast maybe long but it will die out.

im sorry that i took so long and imsorry this isn't very helpful but this is what im doing and seems to be working. please let me know if i gave the wrong kind of adivce you were looking for and let me know how it turns out. ask me anytime!

sincerely
advice~gurl
kat

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Some people think teens are depressing
But im not im just expressing
My thought and feelings
Bout people and all the killings
But what about all the news
About drunks filled with booze
So if a lil poem is bad
then what about the sad
Look at this pity war
Is it me or is this for
someone to be put in history
For what
......a mystery?

I like it. I don't know why people think teens are depressing. And the war in away is a pity i have a brother that is fighting and so i really like this poem. please ignore anyone that says you can't write poetry becasue you can. all my poems i write my peers think are stupid but somehow i keep getting my poems published so ignore anyone that says that. you should summit this to WWW.poetry.com

I like the poem
sincerely
advice~gurl
kat

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Death be silent
Death be still
Death be ready
For my last will

I like it. its short and has a meaning.

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Hey I've liked a certain guy for a long time, and I really want to tell him how I feel. I'm too shy to tell him in person, so I thought I'd write a note. What should I write on it? I don't want to sound creepy, or not know what I'm talking about. Help!

well I did this and well.... lets just say that it didn't work out but that doesn't mean it won't for you.
I wrote on a scrap peice of paper and maybe thats the reason but I would just write on simple writing paper and say how you feel.
Like for example" (guy's name)- I really like you and feel that I should tell you. if you feel the same please meet me at somewhere (you can give him your e-mail instead)
sincerely
(your name)"

Thats just example but you can change it around for you want it and stuff but I hoped I helped please let me know how it turns out.
my e-mail is kutekrushkat@yahoo.com

sincerely
advice~gurl
kat

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When people ask for advice it makes it alot easier for advicenators to answer when you give your **age**.

I personaly dissagree with you because when someone asks for advice and don't say they'r age they get good adivce. but when you say your age they'r is someone always being bashed because of they'r age and they asked the questions. i think that your age should not be mentioned unless the "asker" feels they should.

adivce~gurl
kat

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yes or no?

ummm... (thinking) BOTH!!!!

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