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Loveletters


Question Posted Sunday April 11 2004, 6:59 pm

Hey I've liked a certain guy for a long time, and I really want to tell him how I feel. I'm too shy to tell him in person, so I thought I'd write a note. What should I write on it? I don't want to sound creepy, or not know what I'm talking about. Help!

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Friday July 9 2004, 3:48 pm:
just dont start out with hey i like you ask hey whats up what'd you do this weekend or if they weekend is coming what are you doing this weekend then slowly go into you liking him and maybe give your number or aim/yahoo/msn name and said call me or something like that-trix

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amy answered Thursday April 15 2004, 2:42 pm:
don't write a note what ever you do! this will make you look a geek, start off by being his friend. this way you no is personality first, it will also show him yours. if you start of by being mates then it make your relationship stronger and you will form a special bond. try this first before writing a note because you never no he might not be all he's supposed to be.

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dottie13 answered Tuesday April 13 2004, 11:34 am:
You shouldn't write a note to him. It will sound more sincere in person. And that way he won't think it is creepy.

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C_Talon answered Monday April 12 2004, 7:25 pm:
I'm the same way, except i'm even too shy to write a note. But I would put "I like you a lot." Or something like that. Simple, and sweet.

The End

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dionne answered Monday April 12 2004, 11:57 am:
Dear Loveletters,

Have a friend go talk to him for you...Does he know who you are?If he does have her ask him out for you.

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clouds answered Monday April 12 2004, 5:03 am:
all I have to say is BE YOUR SELF!!!

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LadyV answered Sunday April 11 2004, 10:48 pm:
Avoid saying things like "I've been watching you for a long time" or "I really like you." Keep the note brief and to the point. Tell him you think he's cool and fun and you would like to chill sometime, if he's down with that. If you haven't already, talk to him in person (just small talk) before you write the note. Find out what he is interested in, then make a suggestion that you do something pertaining to that interest in the note. For example, if he likes soccer, ask him if he wants to come to the next game with you. If you find out he likes a certain band that's playing near you sometime soon, grab tickets to the show and invite him. Once you ask the question, finish with "Just let me know!" and sign off. He should be very flattered, unless he's a complete ass, which I'm assuming he's not since you like him so much :). Good luck!

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advice~gurl answered Sunday April 11 2004, 9:53 pm:
well I did this and well.... lets just say that it didn't work out but that doesn't mean it won't for you.
I wrote on a scrap peice of paper and maybe thats the reason but I would just write on simple writing paper and say how you feel.
Like for example" (guy's name)- I really like you and feel that I should tell you. if you feel the same please meet me at somewhere (you can give him your e-mail instead)
sincerely
(your name)"

Thats just example but you can change it around for you want it and stuff but I hoped I helped please let me know how it turns out.
my e-mail is kutekrushkat@yahoo.com

sincerely
advice~gurl
kat

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GC_rox_my_sox answered Sunday April 11 2004, 8:35 pm:
Write something like this:

Dear Joe,
You know, (insert friend's name here) said that maybe we would make a good couple. She acts kind of crazy sometimes, but I thought maybe we could give it a try. If you don't think it would work, I understand and all. Call me later.

And remember, don't forget to sign your name! An anonymous letter does no good.

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A_Friend answered Sunday April 11 2004, 8:20 pm:
We all have one life to live. A note is a silly childlike thing to do. If u really like this guy why not just try talking too him as a friend. And if things are meant to be then they will happen...

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adviceforteens answered Sunday April 11 2004, 7:33 pm:
You should just try talking about all the things that have happened to you. A letter is always more interesting if you can answer things as you go. So throw some questions in there and try to make them interesting not the boring ol' how is the weather. Really think about what their answers would mean to you. Hope you have agreat day.

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Cspinoza1 answered Sunday April 11 2004, 7:17 pm:
I will be honest, telling a guy you like him through a letter is at least telling him thats it. We prefer that you tell us face to face, just like you. Would you like a guy that really likes you to tell you through a letter or would you like him to tell you through words coming from his mouth. Its more special for both of you that way. And trust me if you can't tell a one person you like them, how are you supposed to talk to a room full of people. You have nothing to be shy about. But if you must go through the letter, explain why you are writing a letter and not tell him, and just tell him why you like him so much "guys do get flattered". Just remain on topic but don't be to agressive. Tell him how you feel.

Cspinoza1

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Winona1992 answered Sunday April 11 2004, 7:12 pm:
After class or in your spare time, pull him away from everyone and tell him how you feel..."Excuse me so and so, I have really liked you for a long time, but I was to shy to tell you" See if he feels the same way about you. If not, you may be sad but, its okay. Just dont follow him and let him see you drool over him because hell find you a pest.

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