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Im thinking about being a belly dancer or maybe a bunny for halloween. Does any one know any websites that show pictures of belly dancer outfits???
PLEASE HELP
ASAP
MUCH LOVEEEE!!
5'S FOR DESCENT ANSWERS

Hmm...a belly dancer? That would be pretty hard to do (and not to mention very revealing! ;), but that's what you want, so here are some pics

http://www.cosmicoutfitters.com/images/belly_dancer_bs.jpg

http://www.bazaarontheweb.com/images/products/belly_dancing/blue_belly_dancer.gif

http://www.emersoncostume.com/Images/bdancer.jpg

http://img.alibaba.com/img/product/10/96/68/10966887.jpg

http://www.fahtiem.com/fahtiem-wh-sm.jpg

http://www.capedmaskedandarmed.com/justin/Leb3/belly-dancer.jpg

http://www.zehara.co.uk/bellydancef.jpg

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Ok so I was going out with this really nice,sweet,HOT boy. So our longest relationship was 1 week, but I still told him i loved him and he told me he loved me.But this other girl liked him and said something to him and he broke up with me. Icryed my slef to sleep for 2 weeks in a row and now I cant stop thinking about him,hes in my dreams at my school EVERYWHERE!!!! But today in skills he pushed me over and what i think flerted with me. He wont look at me only if i laugh and im not looking at him.All i wanna know is if it is over???

First of all, I'm not trying to sound mean or anything, but there's NO WAY that you could go out with a guy for 7 days and call it love. Sure, you probably had a huge crush, maybe even an obsession, but love? No.

As for "flirting," he might still like you a little. Maybe he just broke up with you because he doesn't want to hurt her feelings. To tell you the truth, I would've had to see the situation in order to tell, but if it looked like flirting to you, then he probably was.

I know you're going to give me a bad rating, but I don't care. You asked for advice, and my job is to give an honest answer

Good luck!

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okay i need help. there's this guy and i reallllyy like him. he's perfect, awesome personality, beautiful eyes, funny, gorgeous smile/dimples.. what more can you ask for? but anyways, we've known each other for like 1 1/2 months, and we text and call everry night. but then when we see each other at school we barely talk?! when we're on the phone we can carry on a convo. forever. do yall think he likes me? cause i wanna go out with him. but i don't know if he likes me and i don't wanna ask him b/c i'm scared to know his reaction. so what are some ways for him to liikee me? i've never really felt this wayy for a guy before. please help. i rate=) thxx!

You know what? Never ever never assume that he likes you unless he gives totally obvious signs like flirting, etc., or he tells you. If you totally get convinced that he likes you, but he really doesn't, and then finds out, you'll look like a fool. I'm not saying that he DOESN'T like you, he very well might, but don't make any assumptions. Maybe you guys carry on a long convo because you're keeping him on the phone and he's too scared of being rude to cut it off. Also, there are no ways to make him like you except be yourself. Guys love it when girls act like themself. Don't make up lies about yourself to impress him, don't badmouth about other girls to look better (it actually makes you look really bad), and don't try really hard to win him, because that could get really messy and screw up your friendship. And don't ask him out quite yet. You've only known him for about 1 and a half months. Wait until the time is right. You'll have a better chance of him saying yes once he's known you longer.


Best of luck! If you wanna talk, drop a word in my inbox

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All right,my sister is 18 and her hair is EXTEAMLY thin,its so delecate,and fine.I feel so bad becuase its so thin you can see her scalp in some areas when its wet.No hair cut will work for her.She has died her hair many times.I can tell shes trying to make it have body,but it doesnt work.I know she is going to try anything to make it look good.When its dry,its thin,and frizzy.I just feel so bad me and my mom talked to her doctor,they did some tests and everything was fine she isnt looseing any vitamins,does anyone know how we can fix this problem and what to do,and hair growing products or maybe even anything she can take to get thicker hair? and i mean...really thicker hair??

A really good thing to try is MOUSSE. It makes the strands of hair swell up a little and looks a little thicker. If you don't get any luck, another great thing to try is French-braiding. French braiding is perfect for thin hair.

Here's a site where you can learn how:


www.dreamweaverbraiding.com

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this question may be a little weird, but, i just need to know as many possible showering ruitines as possible.
1)How often do you shower?
2)girls- when you shave, when do you? Because i find it kind of hard to shave with the water frmo the shower head running over my legs and the shaving cream being watered all off
3)when it comes to shampoo, conditioner, soap, shaving, etc, what do you do first..like in order?
haha thank you guys itll help!

1) about once every 2-3 days
2) about once a week. If you don't want the water from the showerhead all over you leg, stick it out of the water.
3) First shave, then shampoo, then conditioner, and last soap.

Hope I helped

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sorry it's so long, and please look at this in an open-minded manner, and i'm not looking for answers that say you're waiting for marriage so i'm a slut. i'll rate high if you tried, and low if you're ignorant.

my ex-boyfriend broke up in august and aren't dating exclusively, but we still hook-up from time to time. hooking up meaning having sex. we had sex today, and then i went to the movies with one of my close guy friends. we went back to my guy friend's house and we had sex. i really want to forget it ever happened and not tell anybody, though. the guy promised he wouldn't tell, and i trust him. the thing is, if it gets out somehow, and my ex-boyfriend finds out, he'll hate me. should i tell him or just let it slide? by the way, i'm on birth control and i only have sex with a condom.

Let it slide. ABSOLUTELY let it slide. Try not to worry about "what if" it gets out. If your guy friend said that he won't tell, you'll just have to trust him. There's absolutely nothing you can do about it except just to keep quiet. Also, don't cheat. It's not nice :(



Hope I helped

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What exactly happens in the movie Hide and Seek? I want a fairly detailed and comprehensible answer (so anyone who wants to say 'wel dey hav a scari tyme n its rli rli CoOl lOl yu shud WaTcH iT OMG haha', don't bother answering) as I am a wimp and want to avoid nasty suprises. I'm watching it at Halloween and no I don't mind if you ruin the plot/movie/ending...that's the whole point of this question! :)

I picked this up from Yahoo! Movies:

A father discovers his 9-year-old daughter has come up with an unexpected and terrifying way of dealing with her mother's death through an imaginary friend. The daughter has an imaginary friend named Charlie, and her father soon realizes that Charlie isn't make-believe.

Genres: Suspense/Horror and Thriller
Running Time: 1 hr. 45 min.
Release Date: January 28th, 2005 (wide)
MPAA Rating: R for frightening sequences and violence.
Distributor: 20th Century Fox Distribution, 20th Century Fox International



If you want more, go here: http://movies.yahoo.com/shop?d=hv&cf=info&id=1808598847

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13/m Long story short, I like her a lot, I told her, she doesn't like me back. Here's my current problem: I think she's ignoring me. Like at schoool everything's just too weird to talk to her. Awkward, let's say. So I've been trying to patch things up. I tried inviting her over one day. Saturday, she was babysitting. Sunday, she had rehearsal for a play. Same thing happens week after week after week. Just today I tried asking her to come over. Same story. No good. I really want to make things all better. I want to be able to just talk to her, which we haven't done in months except for on AIM. Our only 3 classes together, we're across the room, which sucks. So we don't even see each other much. We used to goof off a lot as friends. Like all the time. Things were cool. But now they're not.

Last night was a school dance. I had asked her a few days earlier. She said she had rehearsal. So I went with three of my friends to eat food and drink punch & soda. And guess who was there, that's right her. So those three guys were like pushing me to talk to her, bribing me, etc. Eventually, I talked to her. Apparently, she sent me an e-mail (I checked this morning, it didn't go through) saying that the rehearsal was cancelled. Then this girl started teasing me about my e-mail address (I made it up when I was 7) and the one I like hugged me.

It's not the first time. Third, actually. First time was last year in science. I told her I was feeling like crap. She hugged me. I got scared, never having hugged anyone outside of family before. So I rejected it. Second time, we were at a carnival. She had persuaded me to get on all the wild rides. Hardly anyone was there yet, so there was no line. After the fifth one, I started vomiting. "Oh my god, are you OK?" and hugged me. I stood there and just murmured that I was fine. Third time was last night at the dance. It's my best one yet---I stood there. Yes, that's right, I just stood there. Then I did the stupidest thing in the world---I cut it short for the $5 I had been bribed for.

I'm such an idiot. I've been waiting for another moment in which she would hug me, and here it is. What do I do? I run away to get $5. (In the end, all he gave me was a quarter...) But I couldn't help it. I literaly couldn't think! My mind was drawing a complete blank! The only thing going on in my head was in my subconcious, saying "Get out of here, fast!". My concious side was just scared and confused, and didn't know what to do. For those of you who have read Flowers for Algernon, it was exactly what Charlie was feeling. Whenever he got too close to Alice, his inner child would pull him back and prevent him from doing anything. I guess my inner child was still scared of commitment and everything. I want to hug her, considering it's the first of many steps to a successful relationship, but there are no opportunities in the halls at school, and as I said before, there's never a good time for her to come over. So I guess I'm just doomed to be a hopeless freak with subconcious fear of so much as a hug...

I guess my three big questions here are:
1) Is she ignoring me?
2) If so, how do I prevent it?
3) How can I hug her?

I know it sounds really pathetic. All I want is a hug. There's all these people here asking about banging and stuff, and here I am, eager to get a hug. But you have to realize that I've never had a relationship before, and I don't believe in dating unless there are true feelings. And if you believe that teenagers don't know love, I acknowledge that fact, and I'm not the same as every teenager on Advicenators. Besides, it's important to get a feel for what dating is like before we start the real thing, eh? And don't treat me like a little kid. I may be 13, but I'm not stupid. I'm just socially distressed. No smartass answers either, please. And if you give a response that doesn't have any advice in it, you are liable to be reported, as one of the rules in the Terms of Service is that you may not give unhelpful advice. I usually rate. Thank you a lot.

You asked a really long question, so I'm just going to have to give you a really long answer ^_^

1) Do not keep trying to push it, like asking her to the dance and all. She doesn't seem to be interested in you. To tell you the truth, I think it's you who is creating all the trouble. "Like at schoool everything's just too weird to talk to her." "I literaly couldn't think! My mind was drawing a complete blank! The only thing going on in my head was in my subconcious, saying "Get out of here, fast! My concious side was just scared and confused, and didn't know what to do." Because she rejected you romantically, you're freaking out that she's avoiding you. So you push yourself away from her. I infer from your descriptions that she wants to stay friends with you (she hugged you and wanted to go on the rides with you, right?), but doesn't want it to go further than that.

2) I highly doubt that she is ignoring you. Girls get past the "boys are icky" phase quicker than boys. In fact, most girls by that age would probably feel flattered that you have a crush on her. Maybe the times that you asked her over were just busy for her. Wait a while, and ask her again. But if you keep trying to push it romantically, she WILL avoid you because she doesn't want to get romantic with you.

3) Don't accept bribes for things like "cutting it short." It makes you look really foolish, and if she found out, she would be really angry and embarassed. I HATE it when guys do that. (I'm not saying that you're foolish, but just keep that in mind next time)

4) If you wanna hug her, wait for a time that the two of you are talking. It takes courage. I know. If you're on the brink of doing it, remember that you have nothing to lose, and JUST DO IT.

Lastly, good job for realizing the fact that you are too young for love. It takes real maturity for a 13-year-old boy to understand that.

Good luck!

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does anyone know where i can get the lyrics to this song in chicago called roxy... it goes like "the name on everybody's list is gona be ROXY..." i need to know the rest cuz im auditioning for a musical and i want to sing it
i rate!

thanks

Here ya go.


http://www.allsoundtracks.net/songlyrics/ChicagoSoundtrack/Roxielyrics.html

(COPY and PASTE into your address bar)

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You know in the song "When September ends?" and the girl is screaming "how could you blah blah blah" why is she screaming that?

She's screaming because her boyfriend is going to join the Army in Iraq and she doesn't want to lose him and she's mad because she thinks he's making a foolish choice

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I didn't know where to put this, but anyways.

So, Sometimes, I get this thing on my two front teeth. Its like really fugly white like tips and they look sooooo gross and bad. I was wondering if there is anyway to avoid this or like make it go away.

PLZ N THANKS.

I'll rate/.

those are calcium stains. They just come naturally, and I'm sorry to say, they won't go away quickly except if you get your teeth whitened. Sometimes they fade away over time. Good luck :)!








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HEY DOES ANYONE KNOW ANY CUTE BOY COUNTRY NAMES .? CUZ iM GONNA NAME ALL MY KiDS AFTER COUNTRYS AND MY OLDEST iS GONNA BE LONDON THEN PARiS AND i DONT KNOW WHAT TO NAME MY LiTTLE BOY SO DOES ANYONE KNOW ANY AND i DONT LiKE JORDON , iSREAL , OR BROOLYN

....

Here are some that I like:

Bismarck
Juneau (You could change the spelling to "Juno" to make it more of a name)
Chad
Witchita lol
Madison
Troy
Munich

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hey guys! okay, so i have this best guy friend and he's pretty close, like i talk to him every day and see him a lot and stuff. well he's obsessed/in love with one of my best friends. but, she's recently going out with someone, and he hates the guy. i'm not sure if i like my guy friend like more than a friend, but i'm pretty sure i do :-P and like... i'm not sure, but i know he doesn't like me more than a friend back, but i'm not totally sure. a lot of people think he likes me, but who knows? well... after saying all of this, how could i get him to possible go out with me or something? iknow that's weird and all, but like... haha, just like... since the girl he likes is already going out with someone, do i make my move? 'cause he's like a really good friend and stuff, but i dunno. lol, not REAL sure what the point of this was, but if you can figure it out :)

thanks

Don't make your move! Even if he likes you as a friend, he will be way too distracted by your best friend and will not say yes, and anyways, would you actually want to go out with a guy who's obsessed with your friend? Don't even assume that he likes you unless he says so and/or obviously shows it, and/or you know he's not "occupied by someone else." Trust me, you'll totally look like a fool and be so embarassed if he knows that you got the wrong message. The peoplen who say he likes you probably aren't aware that he's infatuated with your friend. Hun, I know this seems hard, but the best thing to do is just wait. He'll get over your friend eventually. Once the coast is clear, make your move.

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i have 2 questions, and i would like honest answers!
What do you consider a girl that has had sex since the age of 13. Had 2 other bfs at 14, cheated on the last 1 with a guy she hardly knew the 2nd day they hung out? (the guy was 17) they are still together.

What do you consider a guy that has sex with a girl he barely knows the 2nd night knowing she has a bf??

i rate 5s for intelligent answers!!!

To tell you the truth, I think that a 13-year-old girl is too young to be having sex. I mean waaay too young. 13 years old is old enough to start venturing into warm relationships with boys, but certainly not sex. And I'm not tryng to be mean or anything, but it's also kind of slutty. Making yourself available to boys is a very bad reputation for a girl of that age. Losing your virginity is a big step, and a 13-year-old isn't mature enough to handle it, even if she's considered "mature for her age." Sex shouldn't just be with some hot joe shmoe, but a person you really love and trust. A lot of girls go "but I do love him" but a girl of that age cannot fall in love. A 13-year-old isn't emotionally mature enough and isn't experienced enough of the world to fall in love, no matter how much she's gone through.

There's nothing really wrong with having a boyfriend at 14, but not if he's 17 and you barely know him. You should go out with a guy if you know him and you feel good around him. If they get to know each other, etc., that's lucky. But that's not always going to happen.

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I'm having a Halloween/ Birthday party today and I rented Amutiville Horror and Texas Chainsaw Massaccre. I was wondering are they really scary, like should I be watching the,? (i'm 13)

The Amytville Horror is pretty scary, but I think you should be able to see it. Just keep in mind that there are going to be kids at the party who probably aren't allowed to see it, even if you might be. The Texas Chainsaw Massacre is disgusting...sooo much blood and guts It's waaayyy too inappropriate for you or any other 13-year-old to see.

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ok so my periods started today, agh what a pain. but im supposed to go to a theme park tonight and i LOVE rollercoasters and going upside down and stuff. if i wear a pad (cant wear tampons for some medical reason) would i like leak going upside down or something? haha idk really i was just wondnering if itd be stupid or something
haha
thanks to anyone who can help :-D

No, you won't leak. This sounds really gross, but the period blood is supposed to come out of you, right? Instead, it will go back in a little. It's a little uncomfortable, but it's not so bad that you won't enjoy the ride. Have fun!

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i want to get my hair cut like kristens from laguna beach but there are no good pictures of her hair on mtv the pictures are too blurry and stuff so can someone find good pictures of it and send it to me (there are none on google)


Here's one:

http://img.timeinc.net/ew/dynamic/imgs/050725/135758__kristin_m.jpg

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ok i am 5'4" and i weigh 106.5 lbs. am i overweight? is it irrational to think that i am fat???people tell me i worry too much i dont c y though.please help!

No! You're not fat! You are just right. You might even be a little underweight. Don't worry. You're fine :)

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Ok well I have really big boobs and I am skinny and so ya I am considered hot...but see a lot of guys that I talk to only like me because I am "hot" and so I don't know how to get a guy that likes me for me and not just my body..because all the guys just look at my boobs and stuff...How do I get the guys to like my personality and not just my looks?? I want guys and girls to answer this...THANKS!!!

To tell you the truth, if a lot of guys just look at your boobs, they're jerks and not even worth being liked by. You can't try to get a guy to like you for your personality. He should naturally. You have to FIND a boy who likes you for you...not because you have big boobs, not try and change ones who don't.

Hope I helped

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Ive never really thought about this, but now I have to question it. I am 29 and have 2 kids. both were planned pregnancies. I guess my question is kind of gross, but I couldn't find out any where else. I was just wondering, what are the odds of getting pregnant if the man ( my husband) ejaculated before actual vaginal intercourse? I know before ejactulation you can get pregnant, but i'm not so sure about afterwards. It would be helpful to find out, I've missed my monthly, but took two home tests, and both were negative, but still no period...?



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