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okay i need help. there's this guy and i reallllyy like him. he's perfect, awesome personality, beautiful eyes, funny, gorgeous smile/dimples.. what more can you ask for? but anyways, we've known each other for like 1 1/2 months, and we text and call everry night. but then when we see each other at school we barely talk?! when we're on the phone we can carry on a convo. forever. do yall think he likes me? cause i wanna go out with him. but i don't know if he likes me and i don't wanna ask him b/c i'm scared to know his reaction. so what are some ways for him to liikee me? i've never really felt this wayy for a guy before. please help. i rate=) thxx!
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Hey, yah i think he likes you. You guys probably have the same feelings for eachother. It sounds like you are both nervous to talk face to face. Sometime when he is alone, break the ice and go up and talk to him. That will really let him no you like him. Go for it Girl! :)
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ok you should just like say hey how much homework do you have so far at school and like have a friend go up to him and be like do you like _____ have your friend start a convo with him about you .. if not text him and be like i like you do you like me and if he says yes keep texting if he says no just dont text back pretend you fell alsleep and the next day act like you never asked.
hope i helped
x0o natalie
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You know what? Never ever never assume that he likes you unless he gives totally obvious signs like flirting, etc., or he tells you. If you totally get convinced that he likes you, but he really doesn't, and then finds out, you'll look like a fool. I'm not saying that he DOESN'T like you, he very well might, but don't make any assumptions. Maybe you guys carry on a long convo because you're keeping him on the phone and he's too scared of being rude to cut it off. Also, there are no ways to make him like you except be yourself. Guys love it when girls act like themself. Don't make up lies about yourself to impress him, don't badmouth about other girls to look better (it actually makes you look really bad), and don't try really hard to win him, because that could get really messy and screw up your friendship. And don't ask him out quite yet. You've only known him for about 1 and a half months. Wait until the time is right. You'll have a better chance of him saying yes once he's known you longer.
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Well, right off the bat it sounds like he might have a crush on you. What YOU need to do is attempt to talk to him like you would on the phone at school. Nobody will care, and he'll probably enjoy the conversation. It makes guys feel more confident in a girl when they can start a conversation, even though they usually can't themselves (hehe!).
As for asking him out, I think you really should. Even if its over IM or text, or through a friend, its worth a shot. My biggest fear is rejection too, but you know what?
Guys HATE asking girls out! They always expect the girls to. So HE might be waiting for YOU to ask him, you never know. And the worst thing he can say is "No", and all you have to do is be like, "okay, cool. friends it is, then." and just go on with your lives!
Hope I helped! ♥
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Well if you found the perfect guy....great job..:) Now...for your problem...well I suggest you start talking at school together. That way you can get to know each other more. also it woill not hurt if you ask him..to go out w/ eachother. But your one step to far, first you have to get to know him a little more. I think from all your writing, that he may really like you as a friend. For a guy to like you i would first be yourself and carry on coversation still. Second, flirt a little, not to much though..be careful...and third.....do what you think is right. That is my advice...good luck!
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xo megaroni's got the idea. I'll add my own bit to it though. How do you know he's not nervous or afraid to talk to you in person at school? He might feel the same way and not do anything because he's too afraid. It could be that. I say you should definatley ask. As difficult as that may seem, its definatley the best thing to do. Why? Because 1. If he doesn't like you, you could stop yourself from going too far and getting hurt, and 2. Because if he does feel the same way, that will definatley help him confidence wise, even you too. So yes ask him if he likes you. Don't expect the worst too. I mean from what it sounds it looks like you both are friends, so you shouldn't be scared of his reaction. Yes you don't know what it will be, but it can't be as bad as you think it is if you manage to talk alot on the phone and everything else.
By the way its ok to feel about a guy that way. Just try not to let it get to your head or push things too far because you might hurt him or yourself and thats never fun, right? Don't be too afraid to go for a chance though, or because of what you think may happen not even try. So yeah just ask him, in person if he likes you, don't expect the worst, and be confident in yourself. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Well, first off, it might be good to start talking to him more at school. That way you won't really be as nervous about talking to him. Cause I think that it is easier for you to talk to him, when you aren't looking straight to them. I feel the same way, and it is easier to say somethings, but it is probably not the best way to. If you ask him to go out while you are on the phone, think of how awkward it would be to go on a date, let alone talk to eachother at school.
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hmm there's been a lot of these questions lately & i've been saying the same thing. each guy is different. no one can tell you who likes you er not you know?? each guy has his own personality & his own ways of liking you. i mean he seems shy, because if you guys talk that much & then barely talk in person, thats probably showing he's shy. you should go for it, because basically you'll never know unless you ask yourself. i mean yeah your friends can ask, but he might think that's lame er something. juss go for it so you're not curious if he likes you er what he feels & stuff.
-hope that helped!♥
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you need to ask him to hang out before you do anything. if it can't work in person before a relationship, it can't work in person during a relationship. once you get to know him better in person, i'd say go for it!
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