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he's my friend...?
hey guys! okay, so i have this best guy friend and he's pretty close, like i talk to him every day and see him a lot and stuff. well he's obsessed/in love with one of my best friends. but, she's recently going out with someone, and he hates the guy. i'm not sure if i like my guy friend like more than a friend, but i'm pretty sure i do :-P and like... i'm not sure, but i know he doesn't like me more than a friend back, but i'm not totally sure. a lot of people think he likes me, but who knows? well... after saying all of this, how could i get him to possible go out with me or something? iknow that's weird and all, but like... haha, just like... since the girl he likes is already going out with someone, do i make my move? 'cause he's like a really good friend and stuff, but i dunno. lol, not REAL sure what the point of this was, but if you can figure it out :)
thanks
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Don't make your move! Even if he likes you as a friend, he will be way too distracted by your best friend and will not say yes, and anyways, would you actually want to go out with a guy who's obsessed with your friend? Don't even assume that he likes you unless he says so and/or obviously shows it, and/or you know he's not "occupied by someone else." Trust me, you'll totally look like a fool and be so embarassed if he knows that you got the wrong message. The peoplen who say he likes you probably aren't aware that he's infatuated with your friend. Hun, I know this seems hard, but the best thing to do is just wait. He'll get over your friend eventually. Once the coast is clear, make your move.
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you can definately make your move. your friend has a bf already, so it isn't a big deal & she probably doesn't like him anyway. hang out w/ him a lot, but don't over do it er anything. since he's your best guy friend, you should definately let him know how you feel. i mean, he'll completely understand, & be flattered er something. he might even end up realllllly liking you if he doesn't already. juss talk to him about it.
-hope that helped!♥
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