When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.
What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)
Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)
Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)
We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)
You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)
We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)
Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.
One person can make a difference and every person should try.
The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.
Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)
The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)
Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)
When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.
Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.
Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)
The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)
Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)
DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'
Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)
The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.
Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)
Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)
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i like my best friend but i don't think he likes me back. sometimes he really irritates me. but other times im sooooooo in love. what do you think i should dO? (link)
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Hey whats up?
I was once put in a situation like you.I had a best freind , and i realized that i had feelings for him , but he didn't have any for me. So i thought that if i tell him about it, i would be like honest and share my feelings with him, but that was the most stupid thing i had ever done, because when i told him how i felt about him, he just looked me up and down and said that he will just pretend that I never said anything or that i was just drunk or something. And after that, our friendship started to breakup till we were slipping away from one another ,and before i knew it, we weren't best freinds anymore. So basically, i lost him as my best friend and as a future boyfriend if he was ever gonna love me back. Therefore, what i am trying to say is, i think its much better to just leave things the way they are and share this amazing friendship you have going on because thats much better than loving each other and dating and then breaking up a week after for whatever silly reason.
I know that your feelings are too strong and sometimes you think that you have to tell him that you love him, but you have to try to control yourself. Because thats one mistake i did, and i won't let you do it. So trust me, because i am someone experienced who has been in this situation before and i know the consequences well, therefore i am saving you from the pain and disappointment. Besides, you have him right now beside you, loving you and caring about you, take advantage of that.
If you need any other help or advice, please be free to contact me.
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my name is Rachel and my boyfriend Roosevelt and i are both 17 and the thing is we have only been going out for 5 days now and on the first day we started going out he asked if he could french kiss me and the thing is i never kissed a guy before much less french kissed a guy when he kissed me on the cheek i was so excited i thought i got my first kiss and then when my cousin told me it had to be on the lips i was dissapointed.
I just don't think iam ready for kissing yet and i wanted to know how do you know when your ready for that? (link)
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Hey whats up?
Thats true, your first kiss should be on the lips, but its okay, don't be disappointed.
Umm.. being ready for kissing or the first kiss or whatever it is, doesn't have a fixed time that you should know about. It just comes like that, when you suddenly get the feeling that you wanna kiss the opposite person , so you just do it. And you also do it fine. I mean.. everyone knows how to kiss, its not hard at all. And believe me, you know how to kiss too, but its just because you have never done it before , so your not sure.
Its pretty simply, he just comes forward 90% towards your face, and you come the next 10%, he starts to kiss you on the lips and then he pushes his tongue in your mouth , starting to lick your tongue. And during the process, your eyes should always be closed, because its really rude to open, no offense. Thats it, its pretty simple and you will do it just fine. Don't worry,and who knows, maybe its his first time too.lol.
Take care, and if you have any other inquires, please be free to contact me.
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ok so here's the deal:
i have a crush on my girlfriend's best friend. . .and i'm pretty sure she's likewise, with the way she acts around me.
anyway, i really love my girlfriend, and i don't want our relationship to end. i need some advice on how to get over her.
it's not that i want to date her. it's that i have a crush on her.
she's my friend too if that helps.
thanks (link)
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Hey whats up?
I don't think that there is something that i could say which would help you get over her , or that would change your feelings.
I mean.. for heaven sake, you have a girlfreind, and i am sure that this girlfreind is crazy about you and loves you like total shit and cares about you and thinks about you all the time. On the other hand, ofcourse you do too as you say, but the difference is ,that you waste your time thinking of her best freind instead of thinking about her. When i put it that way, doesn't this trigger a guilty conscious. If you get any closer to her best freind, things could end up really bad and you would like her even more and maybe end up kissing or something. All in all, it all ends up in the 'unfaithful' column. But since i am sure that you wouldn't end up there, thats why, i am trying to point out that what your doing is wrong and that you should maybe pay more attention to you girlfreind and less time to her best friend. And if you can't control yourself, which would be really immature, then just avoid her best friend, but not forever though. Just limit the time you talk to her ,and don't give her an impression that you like her, so she wouldn't give you the same feeling, and at the very end, you would lose both your girlfreind and her best freind. Thats practically the end of every story. And i am not kidding, this happens in reality and it has happened to 5 freinds of mine. so start being a boyfreind to your girlfreind, if that makes any sense to you and give her back the love she gives you.
Take care and if you have any other inquires, please be free to contact me with a private message or an email.
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can any one help me find lyrics?
Double Decker Supreme by Gravy Train
ive been looking everywhere... (link)
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Hey whats up, I made a little search of my own and i found the lyrics.Here goes:
Get down on all fours, open your back door
Don't it feel so goood with a lady and a doood
Boy get in the center, she'll take off your sweater
I'll take down your panties, dress you all in leather
I had a fantasy since I was nine
'Bout blowin' loads in a butt while loads are blown in mine
Don't blame me for bein' sick for dick
Sometimes it's titties that I wanna lick
I'm such a slut I've tried everything
I've choked down six dix while eatin' Burger King
That ain't shit compared to what I've done
Once jacked off in a hot dog bun
So I got a idea, little boys listen here
Me and Hunx on you like cheese on a quesadilla
We're almost late for a 12:30 luncheon
It's your ass that we'll be munchin'
Kidnap your ass like you're Patty Hearst
Damn my dick is about to burst
Boy I know that your homework is due
But me and Chunx hella wanna screw
[CHORUS]
Two cocks one poosy, all three pretty juicy
More fire in my crotch than Danny Bonadoocy
Your mama looks like Tina Yothers
But I'ma eat you up like Sally Struthers
We'll take turns givin' ya head
You'll be the baloney in our Wonderbread
Stick your dick up in my coochie
I never thought I'd feel so bougie
I'll shove my nipples into your eyes
While Hunx hits your ass with a birthday surprise
I'm hungry, I'm randy and I just can't wait
I'm fishin' for sluts and usin' Chunx as bait
Playin' this game me and you together
Dress him all up like a daddy of leather
Pass the lube, the lettuce and the sour cream
It's time for a DOUBLE DECKER SUPREME!!!!
Oooh this dick tastes like shit
LICK THE CLIT! LICK THE CLIT!!!!
Thats it, but for further lyrics help, you can visit this website http://www.azlyrics.com/. You can search for lyrics of any album, artist, song. Take care.
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another question sparked these thoughts in my head. im 16/f, i havent been baptized and i dont think anyone in my imediate family [or any of my family, idk] has been baptized, but we all believe strongly in God and are Christians and do go to church every now and again [we are not morning people haha]. well i was wondering if youre not baptized but you believe in God and believe he is your creater and that he sent Jesus to die for you do you still go to Hell? the reason i havent been baptized 1- is because i dont want to be dunked into a tub in front of a bunch of people for one thing and 2- i feel as if i dont know enough about that stuff to be baptized. i know the jist of it and yes i believe in Jesus as my Savior, but i dont know, i dont know all the people associated with the religion and what they did in history and stuff. but i do live my life for God. that being said, i sin. i know everybody does. im not a bad kid though. im clean as far as cussing [ (link)
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Hey whats up?
While reading your problem, i had so much in mind to say,until i came across the last question. And unfortunately, i forgot everything in mind because i was too shocked that you'd even wonder about such an issue.
' If you just ask god for forgiveness does he still accept you in heaven? ' I quote.
Jesus christ,god is known to be very merciful and he would forgive you for anything, though how big the sin is, only if you admit that what you did was wrong, and you own a guilty conscious, and pray for his forgiveness and after you do so, you should never go back to doing that same sin again as if you have kept your word .If you do these steps which are written in his own holy book, then god would keep his own word too and forgive you and be merciful. And yes then ,he would still accept you in heaven, as an answer to your question.
Take care and if you have any other inquires, please be free to contact me with a private message or an email, and i would give my prompt reply.
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ok im 13/f and in eighth grade
ok this guy i really like likes me back and he asked me and i said no because im scared to be in a commitment like in grade 6 and 7 i used to hate being single and never was and now i cant even be in a short term relationship with the one guy i wanna be in a relationship with
*sleepiesheep* (link)
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Hey whats up sleepiesheep?
I read your problem as well as the other problem about 'depression'. And i have to admit, that i am really good at giving advice. Because in the previous advice i gave you about depression. I told you that I was sure that there is someone that you like ,and that could be a really good opportunity to take you out of your misery and depression ,and who knows, it could help you give up smoking and drugs and cutting and stuff.
So heres my chance, You definitely should be with this guy. Because first of all, love is present, you guys love and care about one another. Second of all, as i said, that its a great chance to make you feel better and have somone there beside you, and who knows, maybe you would be interested to going back to having sex again and enjoying it. Although i know how it feels, to be waiting for something to happen ,and then when it does , you get so scared and freaked out and you just panic. But i definetely need you to relax. Everything is gonna be just fine. After all, your gonna have a boyfreind, its not like your committing a crime here. On the contrary, its gonna be so much fun and excitement to know that someone loves you and cares about you and protects you and stuff. Besides, your not the only 6th grader or 7th grader to be in a relationship. YOur not weird or unique, everyone does that, and everyone likes someone and hooks up. So give it a try, OR to rephrase that, give yourself a chance to live your childhood and have some fun. Forget about everything else, jesus christ, your only 13, you should be having so much fun, because these days don't come again. So he loves you and asked you out, then go on, whats stopping you? Fear. Sorry, but thats crap.
Think again , and trust me on this. If you need any other help or if you have any inquires, please be free to contact me. Take care.
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im 13/f
i keep getting signs of deppression i used to be a cheerleader until i quit and iv just seemed to give up on everything im smokeing weed now i enjoy just getting drunk and stoned and iv lost all interest in boys and girls (im bi) and even sex at times i dont know what to do iv even cut my leg a couple times please help
*sleepiesheep* (link)
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Dear *sleepiesheep*,
I read your problem and that seems really tough, i guess. But what grabbed my attention the most, is that your still so young to be throwing your whole entire life that way. I mean.. we all have our moments when we are so depressed, melancholic and we have complete nervous breakdowns,but then this moment usually passes and things fall into place again.
But here, your acting so wrong and your not even thinking of what your doing.
Why did you quit as a cheerleader? That was the first wrong action. I am sure that cheerleading was one of the most favorable things that you enjoyed doing. so why give it up? I mean.. if its possible, the first thing you should do to fix this mess up is to try to go back to cheerleading.
Then, try giving up smoking weed and stuff gradually , by reducing the quantity you smoke everyday. I know its gonnna be hard and that you enjoy it and stuff, but you have to control yourself and work so hard to get your life back. And if things don't work out, then you should tell your parents or someone with an upper hand, so that you could be admitted to rihab, which is not a really good place to be in. Thats why, i am trying to make you give up smoking weed and drugs and stuff with your own will.
Then, speaking about the whole sexual thing, why don't you try to hook up with someone. I am sure.. that there is someone that your into or that you like, so why don't you try to take a step further and go out with this person and have some fun, maybe then you would realize how good it feels again to be with someone, and you'd feel interested and excited again.
ON the other hand, if you think that all i've been saying since the beginning is nothing but crap, then i have another suggestion, why don't you consult a freind, someone close to you, or your parents or anyone that you feel you could trust. Talk to someone heart to heart, and he'll understand, sympathize and make you feel better by listening and comforting you. Thats exactly what you need. Because you are just bottling everything up inside you and your refusing to have someone there beside you. Or you could talk to a physichiatrist, i am not saying that your crazy here. but they sometimes help to make the depression go away.
But away from all this, i need you to ask yourself, what do you honestly win or gain from seeing your leg bruised and swollen from the cutting your doing in it? If it was me, these bruises would just tell me what a depressed lunatic i am. I don't know what they tell you. But i am sure they don't make you feel any better or great. Look inside you, and go over all the drugs and smoking and nervous breakdowns, and depression periods, and the cutting you've been doing, and finally, at the good person you were before that, and at the awesome cheerleader you were, and at all the sex you had and enjoyed big time, and at simply the good life you had. Then after you think about all that, contact me if i was right or if i even made the least bit of sense to you. You can either send a private message or an email and i promise to help you all the way to giving up drugs and smoking weed and cutting and i can make you go back to the life you once had. You know why, cause i am about the same age as you, and i went through everything you went through, but i quit it all, and now i can make you do that too. Trust me.
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hi, im fifteen and a girl. i like this boy, a lot. and he has a girlfriend, i hate her. anyways, it always seems like he is flirting with me because he will be like "you're beautiful" and we always laydown together and watch tv, and like stuff like that, and whenever we say hi or bye, or just want to, he hugs me, and like its not like a friendly hug because ive gotten plenty of those, its different. im so confused, because before he went out with this girl, he used to kiss me and stuff, and like, idk, i really like him, and he knows it, help me. (link)
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Hey whats up?
I read your problem and I have answered a couple of similar ones before. But for the millionth time i think, i am sorry to tell you that there is nothing that you can do about it.
I mean... be realistic for a while, can you break them up? Or like make them hate each other? or tell him that you love him and that you would make a better girlfreind that she is?
Ofcourse you can't do anything of this, because first,your a good person.Second, you would hurt him if you do this. Third, he could hate you for that. And even though you hate her, and maybe he is not crazy in love with her, but she's still his girlfriend and apart of him wants her, thats why he didn't leave her till now.
So there's basically nothing you can do. Just stay friends, hang around, joke, and fool around. And if he hugs you, hug him, if he surprisingly kissed you, kiss him. But if there is anything else, you have to know,that your only freinds and that your not his girlfreind. Besides, if he really does love you as he's showing by his actions ,then he would have left his girlfriend, and asked you out.But it seems like he doesn't know what he wants himself. So just give the situation some time, and i hope things would soon fall to place.
Take care and if you need any other help, please be free to contact me by a private message or an email.
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i love getting high.Because i have alot of stress and depression but i dont tell people about it.So i get high to help me out.If i dont have pot i'll freak out an i'll act like im bipolor.What should i do?Should i just get help?Or should i get high anyways because pot doesnt really hurt me but just controll myself????? (link)
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Hey whats up?
That sounds really tough. Listen, maybe if you have someone to talk to when your feeling depressed and stressed out, that would help. I mean... a person always feels better when he simply lets everything out by talking to someone , knowing that the opposite person is listening, understanding, and sympathizing. Maybe thats exactly what you need. Don't you have a freind or a close person or a sister or a brother or anyone that you could confide in and trust? I mean, its all just about someone to give you the feeling that he's there for you, thats all. Try thinking of what i said and try finding that trustworthy someone who could help you . But for now, try your best to fight this obssession of getting high by maybe occupying your time with something, hanging out with freinds, getting one of those part time jobs, studying, taking up sports, writing,.. etc. And if it still doesn't work,maybe you should reduce the quantity one time after the other, and like control yourself. Maybe you could sleep for a much longer time to waste time. If this again doesn't work, then maybe you should tell your parents or someone with an uppper hand,so he could admit you to rihab or something, which would be really bad and hard. So if you made an effort to quit this with your own will, that would be better.
Try to think of it this way,does really some junk help you feel happy and high and great? Apart from the feeling it gives you at the spur of moment or even for a while after that. Does it like change things, make life better, make you successful, make you loved, make you a good person, or does it lead you to heaven?
If your so depressed and stressed out, then trust me, getting high is not what would lead you to happiness and having a good life. On the contrary, it would ruin your life, and a couple of years from now, you would be a crazy lunatic drug addict. I am not being harsh or mean. Infact, i understand exactly what your going through more than anyone.
And if you want help, contact me by a private message or email me would be better, and tell me everyhing, and complain and cry and tell me what lead you to doing this, and i will help you much better than those silly crap of drugs.
Take care and think things over.
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heyy umm i have just picked a new hairstyle and the picture shows dark brown under the blonde and im a natural blonde with straight hair and i wsa wondering what you guys think i should get the regualar blonde or the brown under the blonde well here is the hair style:
http://www.bestseatsusa.com/images/carrie2.jpg
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Hey whats up?
The brown under blonde seems really cool and unique, and i don't really know how you look, but i am sure it would look totally awesome on you. But try a darker shade of brown, and it would spice things up more.
I mean.. honestly, i think a regular blonde is just a dull colour and its everywhere, but that brown under yellow thingy is much attractive and cool.
Take care.
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I was looking at display pictures and I came across one that said
When You Love Someone You Can Tell
But When Your IN Love Everyone Else Can Tell
I was just wondering whats the difference? Like can anyone explain this to me? (link)
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Hey whats up?
When you love someone, it means that you LIKE someone,such as one of those crushes on good-looking guys and drooling over boys and stuff.
Or it could also be to a friend or a parent or just someone close, so you can tell that.
But when your actually IN LOVE, its totally different, and it also makes you act different and look different cause you pay more attention to your looks, and you start getting all shy and you space out and stuff. And that is usually pointed out by someone else. Thats why when your IN love , everyone else can tell because of the fact that you changed and act differently.
I hope i was of help, if you need any other advice ,please be free to contact me by private message or email. Take care.
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Ok so i have this problem with my ex boyfriend i really need advice.We were talking the other day and i was telling him that i was going to leave and he will never know anything about me,he made so i wont leave him and actually confessed to me he still loved me like the first day and says that he wants to keep talking to me to see where things go again and what could happen i decided to accept but... i really dont see the point i love him to death and still talking to him means the world to me but he doesnt call me or does not send me any messages doesnt even make a move to at least proove to me he still loves me he makes it seem like he doesnt and this all makes me soo confused i dont know what to do with this.I still love him and he is scared because he says that my parents hate him and thats why he hasnt gone back with me but my parents really dont they are actually ok with him and wouldnt mind,and maybe he is just afraid of making that move again of talking to my parents but i have to do something because there has to be something wrong when you tell someone you love them and want to keep on talking but dont even call...should i be the one to call him or just wait...i know its kinda long but i really need advice
Thanks. (link)
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Hey whats up?
If i were you, I wouldn't even be asking myself' should i call him or not?'. I mean.. jesus christ.. ofcourse you shouldn't call him.
I can't really judge if he does love you as he claims or not, but if he really was serious about this all and was ready to die for you and do anything, then he wouldn't even mind your parents or put them into any consideration.
I do know some guys who love the opposite person ,but they have this thing about them, where they are not bothered to pick up the reciever and call and ask , or even to send a message with a cute teddy bear saying 'I love you'. But this all doesn't mean, that he doesn't love you or care about you, on the contrary, i am sure he does, but its just his personality to not bother using a phone or a cellphone.
Now that is all out of the point whether he calls or not. And YOU hanging around beside the phone waiting for him is not gonna do you any good. Just don't waste your time thinking of someone who is probably just busy doing something else and enjoying himself. I don't mean to sound harsh, but thats always the truth there. Therefore, i want you to just know, that if he loves and wants you as much as you do, then he deserves you and he will come to you and tell you that he wants you and is ready to be there for you this time. But if its anything besides that, then you really should be doing something else with your time.
Think of what i said pumpkin, and if you need any other help or advice, please be free to contact me with a private message or an email.Take care.
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if you were bleeding internally in your head, how fast would it kill you, and what symptoms would you show? (link)
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Hey whats up?
Symptoms of bleeding within the brain (intracranial hemorrhage) include loss of consciousness, sudden and severe headache, nausea, vomiting, incontinence, and blurred vision. A stiff neck can occur as the result of increased pressure within the skull and irritation of the meninges. Impairments caused by local brain tissue damage on the bleed site are possible, including seizure, hemiparesis, a loss of touch sensation on one side of the body, or deficits in language processing (aphasia). A variety of other symptoms can accompany this type of cerebrovascular accident.
On the other hand, about that other question you asked 'how fast would it kill you',I quote, that is something that goes back to god ,only god knows when and where. Therefore,unfortunately, i can not answer this question. But it sometimes takes too little of time and sometimes it stays for long before you die depending on the condition and which part of the brain was affected most and so on.
I hope i answered your question and was of help to you. If you have any other inquires or problems of any topic, please be free to contact me by a private message or an email.Take care.
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what is 'feeling up'?
also how would you dry hump a guy? wouldn't that be a little weird? (link)
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Hey, whats up?
Feeling up,is for a guy to go for second base by slipping his hand under the girl's shirt and feels her breasts and touches her tits.
On the other hand, to day hump a guy is exactly what we call dry sex when a girl takes the same position on top of the guy or the guy on top of her and they start having it, but with clothes on. Ofcourse it feels different, but i wouldn't call it weird though. And you just feel all horny because his penis is rubbing on you. But then, if it gets out of control,a person could end up taking off his clothes and having actual sex.
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what is some stuff i could do w/ my bf without having sex..just like fun stuff
&& dont say like bj or hj or stuff like that
i mean like fun playful stuff
or stuff that could make making out more fun
anything that guys would like you to do?
any ideas? (link)
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Hey whats up,I am a girl, but i have some suggestions that could help you.
First, you shouldn't only kiss his lips, you could use your tongue more, and then you could kiss him on the neck while playing with his hair.
Moreover, but i don't know if you want to go as far, you could move your hand between his legs(meaning his penis, but over the clothes)and do that while kissing, it would make it more sexy and hot. Its actually lots of fun, and alot of people do it without being forced to have sex afterwards.
There is also this other thing, when he feels your breasts and ass and kisses you all around your body, and to make it fun, sometimes people like eat strawberries and then the guy like pushes his tongue in your mouth as if eating the strawberry, or for the body, you could spray whipped cream, and let him lick it off.
I gave you all the suggestions i have in mind, from usual everyday's making out to the extreme. Or you could just stick with taking mints and kissing on the lips .lol.
If you need any further advice, please be free to contact me by a private message or an email.Take care.
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why do people say be yourself? but what if they dont like how you act? its just hard to be yourself in public, because some people doesnt accept you who you are. i dont get life =[
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Hey,whats up?
A person should always be himself, and shouldn't change who he is, because if he does, he would just be faking and pretending. And there are some people, who find that when they change themselves in public and when meeting new people,it would help to impress and make a good impression to the opposite person. But actually, being yourself is the best option, the best and only option.
And here, it looks to me that your one of these people, and your afraid that people wouldn't like you for who you are, but thats totally wrong. Because being yourself makes you unique and special , and who doesn't like you for who you are, then they are just idiotic dumbos and they are the ones who don't get life. Besides, only the closest people to you are the ones who always accept you the way you are, no matter what.
So basically, there is nothing much to get about life. Just act natural and cool, and in my opinion, i see that all you need is a boost of confidence and believing in yourself, because you care too much of what people think of you. And thats not something bad, infact, thats something alot of people are characterized with, but try to have more self esteem and confidence. Goodluck.
If you need any other help, please be free to send a private message or an email. Have a nice day.
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My big toe is broken. Plain and simple, it is definitely broken, please trust me. I haven't told my parents about this, because I am afraid to go to the doctor. It's been broken for about two weeks now. It feels like it hurts more and more everyday. Which might make sense, because since no one knows it's broken.. I am always the one having to go up and down the stairs for everyone and driving everyone everywhere. I never get to rest it. And it's disgustingly swollen. I just hide it like nothing is wrong, and no one would ever know. I just can't do it anymore. It hurts. So my question is, can anyone tell me what might happen if I go to the doctors? X-Ray? Height/weight? Think I might get a cast? Crutches? I am seriously very frightened. For the past two weeks I've felt like I'd rather live with this pain rather than face the music at the doctors. And another thing, is there any possibility the doctors might tell me it's best to leave it alone and stay off of it as much as possible? Could it "heal" on it's own? If I keep my mouth shut about it, will the pain eventually fade on it's own? What would be my consequences by not taking care of it in a proper medical fashion? Finally, I am over 18 years, and we don't have any sort of health insurance. How much would it presumably cost to take care of? Anything you can give me is more than I already have, so thank you so very much!! (link)
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Hey whats up? My freind got her nose broken once, just like your toe.And when its broken, then no it can't be healed on its own, becuase broken means that the bone is not in its correct position, its misplaced to rephrase this.
Therefore, you should immediately tell your parents before it actually gets worse or totaly swollen and ruined. So save your self, besides doctors are so helpful and always know how scared you are and know how you feel , so they make an effort to calm you down and explain things to you to show you that there is no pain or discomfort involved. And don't you worry, because a broken toe is not anywhere near the line of pain. Its really simple and won't hurt at all, and you will see that once you tell your parents and go to a doctor. Think of what i said , and you'd be thinking straight. Take care of yourself, and if there is any other help or advice you need, please be free to contact me with a private message or email me and i will give you my prompt reply.
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does it hurt when first having sex,and does everyone bleed for the first time ..plz help i really love my bf xx (link)
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Hey whats up?
ya it pretty much hurts when you come to do it, because your not usually used to doing it. And yes everyone does bleed the first time ,and that usually means that you have lost your virginity.
I don't really know how old are you, but if your planning anything, you could use condoms or hats or anything of these tools to avoid unprotected sex if you don't want to get pregnant.
Take care and if you need any other help or advice or questions, please be free to contact me with a private message or email me and i would give my prompt reply.
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ok my girlfriend and i have been haveing sexual intercourse for about a month now.. I took her virginity and she took mine.. Well she was wanting a baby and i as well was but i was haveing second thoughts because i was worried about what our parents might say. Well i went ahead and did. And now i think she may be pregnant because she has so many symptoms of it. like for instance. Breast's being tender, Stomach aches, Random tiredness, Breast swelling, And moodyness. And i was wanting to know how i should go about telling our parents if she truely is.. Please Help Me.. (link)
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Hey whats up, i read your problem and i understand what your going through. First of all, i won't tell you that what you did was wrong and give you a hard time. blah blah blah. Because i know that you already thought of it before doing anything and you decided in the end,that you want a baby just like your girlfreind. Therefore, since you did something like that and you took such a decision , then its exactly as if you had said that your willing to take the consequences which you are pretty much doing and gonna do by telling your parents. I don't really know how old are you, but i hope your at least 18 or above. Anyways, if you really want the baby, then have the baby and you shouldn't care about your parents opinions, i mean.. oh right!!! you should have told them and so, or maybe they were planning that you have to be married to do that, but then you did it, and there is nothing they can do about it no matter how they shout or curse or scream or have nervous breakdowns. But the most important thing is, that you can not let anyone change your mind and suggest that your girlfreind should have an abortion or something, don't ever put that thought in your mind, because you want that baby and she does too, and after all, you both sat as mature people and thought of it, and decided that you wanna have it, and if she really is pregnant, then that should be good news to you and her. Just take her to a doctor or do a test or something and make sure, and then go to your parents and tell them that you both did this because you wanted to have a baby and you are responsible enough to keep it and raise it and you will handle all consequences of the risk you took.
Think of what i said ,and please, if you need any other help or advice, please be free to contact me or email me and i would give my prompt reply.
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When you wear body spray, do you wear it before you put on your shirt or when your shirt is on? Because I spray it anytime before recess but then I was wondering if it would colour my clothes if I spray it too much and someone said you should spray it before you dress..which reminds me of the Axe body spray commercial where the guy sprayed it on his chest before he wore his shirt on. (link)
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Hey, body sprays are meant to be put on the body, to keep off any sweat that would form on your armpits, and would give a good smell. But if you put it on your shirt, then there is a huge possibility that it would colour your clothes, and it happened to me before. So its better to put it on your body, much preferable. Take care.
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