When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.
What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)
Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)
Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)
We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)
You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)
We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)
Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.
One person can make a difference and every person should try.
The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.
Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)
The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)
Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)
When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.
Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.
Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)
The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)
Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)
DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'
Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)
The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.
Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)
Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)
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im not running away i plan on coming back in like a week
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Thanks for the SUPPORTIVE ANSWER.... It is quite helpful and i feel much more relaxed. Thanx...
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Thank you for the advice, but I think you misunderstood the details. I'm not actually in the relationship yet. I'm wondering if I should get into it. But your advice is really good, I'll keep it in perspective.
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thanks but i have been to a ton of doctors.
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Thank you so much, you're totally right!
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Thank you, I'll solve as much as I can.^_^
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it was awesome everything went just right thank you for the great advice!
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I think you are absolutely right, because I never stopped to think what it would feel like for him if I plan all of this and then just kind of surprised him with it! I would look like a stalker freak! Thank you for saving me from doing something incredibly stupid. :-)
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Thank you for sharing your story with me. Sometimes it helps more than you would know to just know that I am not alone. Maybe that somebody else has felt like this and I am not some kind of freak. I promise I will get the help I need, and you had a great deal to do with that!
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thanks, thats not totally it but thanks for your input i guess.
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Thank you sooooooo Muchhhhhhhh !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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you are so nice! thank you so much :]] its just that someone on this sight told me i could be and i freaked out, but thank you for being so nice.
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aw, thank you yeah im gonna try all of your sugestions theyre all great (: i just hope your right about me getting used to it!!
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Thanks a million..it turns out I was just worrying I got it yesterday :)
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You described the steps perfectly! thank you so much!
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you are right, he is everything i know, and what i am. Thank you so much :)
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THANKS A LOT..u were damn right.. :)
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She and I do both believe in God and that's really the only thing I can talk about. I'm always afraid to use Him in situations like these because what if it makes the person start to lose faith? I told her that the baby is now an angel and can watch over her big brother, and maybe this was also God's way of giving her more time with that baby while he needs her so much (he's about to turn 1 in a couple weeks and just started walking).
The baby did have a genetic disorder and she knew she would miscarry about a month before she lost the little girl. She didnt tell me anything until about a week before. Her brain knows that it's better for the baby to move on now, rather than suffer severe deformities or something... but that doesnt make her heart feel better. You did give me some things I can use, and I really appreciate your time and willingness to help.
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You are right,I really do feel like I'm not able to move on...sometimes I wish I never even had a boyfriend...
But the truth is,no matter what I do,life goes on...so thanks for these words of encouragement...I will try to make myself stronger and move on,it's useless to bother about something I have no influence on...
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Hey Lola, Thanks for the advice. This should work well but the thin gis am I brave enough to do it?
But again thanks for the advice.
~!MysteriousGirl!~
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thanks lola... i shower three times a day since the nature of my job...well, kind requires that since i work with sand, mud, water, rocks......etc there is no smell with me... if anything it's just the smell of the deodorant or body wash... it is as though my underarms are pouring water!!! but one thing for sure thanx for the medical procedure for sure.. i didn't know they could do that!
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thankss
unfortunately he's not graduating =/
and there's no avoiding him bcs he's my bff
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wow you sure have a way with words.
& yor advice is great. it was so hard at the beginning to stop talking to him; in the end he came back to me.
now we talk little by little bu i try to make it seem that im not interested & im playing his game. im getting over him which is good. :]
thank you so much !
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haha thanks for the advice ur egpytian right?
asalam alkuium! im also egyptian:D well american egpytian lol
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This was the best advice anyone's ever given me. Thank you so much. I'll take your advice and slowly start getting to know him. Thanks again! xoxo
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thanks that really helped me alot!!
your great!
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I dont think you really gave me the answer to the question i was asking and as much as i can understand you dont think we're in"love" the fact was i knew people who answered this would say that. Instead of giving me any advice i feel twice as worse and the point is i WANT to tell them not should i or shouldnt i. In the past months we've been together he's actually met alot of girls that he's not interested in as hard as that is for you to believe he actually DOES care about me. Next time could you try answering the question and not giving me your opinion on my feelings for someone when its none of your buisness.
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haha, i know, it was a stupid question, i just find it wicked interesting! thanks for answering!
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This is the best advice i got from anyone...thank you so much! ♥
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thanky you. i feel a little more comfortable thinking about going into a kitchen
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thx but i cant go back to cheerleading i just had surgery done
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THANK YOU SO SO MUCH!!!I appreciated taking time an effort to help me out. :)
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Ahhhh. :/ This is such bad news. But yes, thank you, thank you, thank you for your response. I really appreciate it, Lola!
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That did not help us one bit I am sorry that that did not help us
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Thanks, look at your advice column because i left you another question!!!
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Thank you soooo much U really brought up my day and u r soooooooooo rite! :-D
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that was like the best advice i have ever got on that topic..thank you so0o much
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thanks, i try talking to him it doesnt work nothing works there are a few people in his life that he cares about and theres others taht care about him, he just doesnt really like to, well he just doesnt give off the friendly vibe he hates his home life and everyhting. last year we became really good friends we talked about evrything under the sun and he was ws getting back on track he was fun he stopped smoking he cut back some on drinking and as soon as that happened she gave hi ma hint that she wants him and he fell back int o her world again
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thanks a million. My mom started talking to me and she was mad that i wasn't going to go. I dunno but again thanks it really helped.
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the thing is.. you don't understand how he is. he won't be that nice about it. he will yell at me. he won't care if i have the money to buy one. i would not be allowed to get one because i'm "stupid" and ..for that reason i will not be allowed another one.
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Thanks this is great advice and i will give it a shot!!
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hey thanks so much! can you email me some stories on your own personal experience with what you have told me? thanks!; xoxmichh@aim.com <33333
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Thank you. I'm going to talk to her again but you did help me out!
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Your advice was sensible, and it is what I keep telling myself. I guess I needed to hear (read?) someone else saying it to pay attention to it. Thank you.
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i really appreciate your advice. it's an excellent idea except i don't have a dad =(
but thank you. i appreciate your help. it was really great advice!
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thanks so much for your answer, i really appreciate it and i hope someone sees that i am a good person soon... because it's getting extremely lonely...
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OMG Thank you so much It helped alot>3
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thanks. like its just a few girls think its 'gross' to makeout with a guy, so yeahh.
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Thanks for the advice! It was very informative. I'll approach him and after talking to him some more, I'll ask him to hang out, in a friendly way. That's what I was thinking, too.
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Thanks! Wow.. I always thought I wrote the longest answers.... And I can't believe Egypt is that bad. I knew it had to be a little rough but I didn't know it was like that. Thanks again!
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thank you so much.. that really is helpful advice!
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