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girlfriend's best friend
ok so here's the deal:
i have a crush on my girlfriend's best friend. . .and i'm pretty sure she's likewise, with the way she acts around me.
anyway, i really love my girlfriend, and i don't want our relationship to end. i need some advice on how to get over her.
it's not that i want to date her. it's that i have a crush on her.
she's my friend too if that helps.
thanks
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truthfully this is a hard question, but ill do my best to answer.
Crushes arn't that much of a threat, but again make sure it doesn't turn into anything serious. maybe you should think of what girl you like more. FYI being a girl, its a general rule you don't date your best friends ex. ( if you choose to dump your gf), or atleast until your best friend has moved on! hope it helps, and good luck! :)
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Generally, crushes are no real danger. However, what you need to do is decide whether this is a crush that could turn into anything serious.
There is no way you can distance yourself from your girlfriend's best friend without making it look like there is a reason for the distance and if you do this, your girlfriend will get suspicious. If, over time, the feelings you have for her best friend get stronger, you will need to reconsider your current relationship.
In most cases, however, crushes go away over time. You can't force them and you can't speed them up. I'm sorry to say that but there's no magic cure for these things. If it is just a crush then it WILL pass.
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Put a little bit of distance between this girlfriend's best friend. Not as much that'll give her the message that you don't like her, but as much needed for you to have more time with your girlfriend. It's good that you want to be faithful. That's a start.
Whenever you're with this girl, think of your girlfriend. Remind yourself about how great she is and how it would feel to lose her. When she flirts with or acts a little TOO friendly, edge away. It's hazardous to stick around when she's flirting. Plus, she's being disloyal to her friend.
xoxo
-Jenny C ♥
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Hey whats up?
I don't think that there is something that i could say which would help you get over her , or that would change your feelings.
I mean.. for heaven sake, you have a girlfreind, and i am sure that this girlfreind is crazy about you and loves you like total shit and cares about you and thinks about you all the time. On the other hand, ofcourse you do too as you say, but the difference is ,that you waste your time thinking of her best freind instead of thinking about her. When i put it that way, doesn't this trigger a guilty conscious. If you get any closer to her best freind, things could end up really bad and you would like her even more and maybe end up kissing or something. All in all, it all ends up in the 'unfaithful' column. But since i am sure that you wouldn't end up there, thats why, i am trying to point out that what your doing is wrong and that you should maybe pay more attention to you girlfreind and less time to her best friend. And if you can't control yourself, which would be really immature, then just avoid her best friend, but not forever though. Just limit the time you talk to her ,and don't give her an impression that you like her, so she wouldn't give you the same feeling, and at the very end, you would lose both your girlfreind and her best freind. Thats practically the end of every story. And i am not kidding, this happens in reality and it has happened to 5 freinds of mine. so start being a boyfreind to your girlfreind, if that makes any sense to you and give her back the love she gives you.
Take care and if you have any other inquires, please be free to contact me with a private message or an email.
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