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ExBoyfriend Trouble!
Ok so i have this problem with my ex boyfriend i really need advice.We were talking the other day and i was telling him that i was going to leave and he will never know anything about me,he made so i wont leave him and actually confessed to me he still loved me like the first day and says that he wants to keep talking to me to see where things go again and what could happen i decided to accept but... i really dont see the point i love him to death and still talking to him means the world to me but he doesnt call me or does not send me any messages doesnt even make a move to at least proove to me he still loves me he makes it seem like he doesnt and this all makes me soo confused i dont know what to do with this.I still love him and he is scared because he says that my parents hate him and thats why he hasnt gone back with me but my parents really dont they are actually ok with him and wouldnt mind,and maybe he is just afraid of making that move again of talking to my parents but i have to do something because there has to be something wrong when you tell someone you love them and want to keep on talking but dont even call...should i be the one to call him or just wait...i know its kinda long but i really need advice
Thanks.
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If i were you, I wouldn't even be asking myself' should i call him or not?'. I mean.. jesus christ.. ofcourse you shouldn't call him.
I can't really judge if he does love you as he claims or not, but if he really was serious about this all and was ready to die for you and do anything, then he wouldn't even mind your parents or put them into any consideration.
I do know some guys who love the opposite person ,but they have this thing about them, where they are not bothered to pick up the reciever and call and ask , or even to send a message with a cute teddy bear saying 'I love you'. But this all doesn't mean, that he doesn't love you or care about you, on the contrary, i am sure he does, but its just his personality to not bother using a phone or a cellphone.
Now that is all out of the point whether he calls or not. And YOU hanging around beside the phone waiting for him is not gonna do you any good. Just don't waste your time thinking of someone who is probably just busy doing something else and enjoying himself. I don't mean to sound harsh, but thats always the truth there. Therefore, i want you to just know, that if he loves and wants you as much as you do, then he deserves you and he will come to you and tell you that he wants you and is ready to be there for you this time. But if its anything besides that, then you really should be doing something else with your time.
Think of what i said pumpkin, and if you need any other help or advice, please be free to contact me with a private message or an email.Take care.
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i would wait, if he wants to be an adult and put his money where his mouth is then he will take the first step to try to be with you, seeing as how you are gracious enough to try to make it work with him, he needs to do his part to try to make it work also...
wait, don't call, don't try to get in touch with him... put your energy into developing yourself better as a person, make new friends, excercise, indulge in a hobby, spend time with your family.. whatever, you need to do to keep your life on track and to fill your mind and life with positive and rewarding experiences... it is easier said then down, but it is better for you in the long run if you don't let this consume you.
and if you were meant to be then it will all fall back into place... he needs to get over what ever he is hung up on... and he needs to do it on his own.
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