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im sara, and i'm smallll. dig it
im in love with tylor mutton
& have been since june 28th 2006
he's a better boyfriend than yours
i work at carrabbas as a hostess
it's pretty amazing if you ask me
i go to wilson hs.. ill be a junior
i do that softball thaaaanggggg.
oh and i have a screen namee..
you can IM me if ya wanttt=]
it's onexlove09. yuuuurrpppppp
this advice column is pretty ghetto
i hate it anymore haha. kbye

advice

in my school theres this club called the "Duck Tape Club". me and my friend were CRACKING UP when we heard it on the announcements.. but seriously like nobody i know knows what it is!! and they said yesterday that there were only 7 more slots left, and today it said that the spots were filled, and not to fret cause they're making another club in the spring. L-O-L. Whats up with this?????

i don't know.. and chances are no one on advicenators would know either unless they go to your school and know about the "duct tape club" lol. ask the principal or whoever made the announcement=].

can you not flush a tampon?? like the cotton part?

it depends on the tampon. i know once i got this really crappy box of ones with cardboard applicators [yuck!] and the box said that you can flush the tampon AND the applicator! never used them though lol. but just look on the box, it should say there. if it doesn't say anything about flushing, then i suggest you don't, seeing as it can be bad for sewage systems. but nothing too major would happen.. maybe just a minor toilet clog =].

so i go to this smallllllllll like tiny catholic school. and all our health class told us was not to do drugs? so my sister and her friends who go to naz. said that a blow job is licking the guys dick is this true?
by the way im 14/F

welllll yes but it's not JUSTTT licking it. you also suck and blow on it and other things.. mainly just what i stated.. but i don't want to give too many details and get banned.. if you're really interested in how to give a blow job, google it =]

by the way, NO health class would teach you how to give a blowjob.. lol i'm pretty sure it's not allowed.

hope i helped ♥

i love u baby girl

awwwwwww hiiii mr. amazing, i love you too!! ♥ nice subject =] MWAHHHHH. see ya baby.. actually i'm callin you right now =]

how do you change that or get it not to show on your profile?

go to where you edit it...

*edit profile
*background & lifestyle
*then go down to where it says smoker and drinker.. just click the bubble that says 'no answer'. do that for whatever you don't want to show up on your page. ♥

okay, my boyfriend is in JROTC, and he invited me to the military ball, but i'm not really comfy wearing like the dressydresses you have to wear to go to those, im VERY modest, and also, hes shorter than me, so i wouldnt be able to wear heels, what should i wear? any ideas? i cant tell him i dont want to go because i dont want to dress up because he's really excited that i'm going and i couldnt do that to him. i need HELPPPPPPPP!

greattlyyy appriciatedddd

alright=]. i would suggest wearing a nice dress, but not a poofy one. something along the lines of this: http://www.cache.com/cache/control/product/~category_id=0100/~product_id=08024B22089461 see how it's fitted and nice and long, but not too poofy so it's not dressy? and if you get a really long one, people won't know you're not wearing heels so you can wear nice flip flops like things! or some kind of dressy sandals =] i know at dances, people sometimes take their shoes off.. so if you see other people doing that, take advantage of it! lol =P also, don't wear your hair up high because you'll look even taller. if you get your hair done professionally, and maybe they can do your hair to make you look not taller than him =] don't feel silly wearing nice dresses, it's fun! if you get a simple dress and accessorize it up, you'll be fine! good luck baaaaabee♥

is there anything i can do or get so my eyeliner stays on all day without reapplying it constantly? btw no liquid eyeliner.

any tips?..
thanks in advance!

FOR THE TOP EYELID: liquid eye liner stays on forever. no lie. or if you want to use pencil eyeliner, you can put a little bit of powder or eyeshadow on your whole eyelid and if will stay on for sure =] cause it's the grease in your face that makes it come off.

FOR THE BOTTOM: i always had that problem too! i don't use liquid eyeliner for the bottom.. you can if you want? but i'm not sure if i would recommend it. it's the best for the top though! just get the waterproof kind! it works wonders =]

hope i helped ♥!

any ideas on how to get rid of hickys in like 2 hours??? please help. thanks

lots of make up! thats the only way you can hide it in two hours. or put ice on it so it gets redder and not in a hicky shape then you can say you have a rash or something and just scartch at it alot =]

do guys ALWAYS have an orgasm when they come?

well it's actually the other way around.. they cum when they orgasm.. and they always cum as far as i know.. so to answer question, yes lol ♥

i am a fifteen year old female. the boy i have been making out with recently wants to step up our relationship. he wants to finger me which i am totally ready for and excited for. the only concern is that i have a lot of pubic hair, so i wonder if he will be grossed out. should i shave it for him? Thanks.

ok if i were you i'd casually bring it up to me.. like say "my one friend started shaving yesterday.. isn't that weird?" this way you can find out what he likes without sounding dumb.. like for instance, if he says its dumb that she shaves, then you can cover it up by agreeing.. ORRRR if he says no i like it better shaved or whatever, you can say yeah so do i but isn't it weird that she just started yesterday? haha but only do that if you just want to know what he prefers then decide what to do. it is ultimately up to YOU and no one else. it might sound weird, but electric razors work best if you decide to.. and it doesn't hurt.. it only hurts if you don't do it right. if you want you should get this purple conair electric razor thing.. it works the besttttt. if you don't shave and he makes a big stink about it, he's not worth it anyway ♥ but just so you know, most girls shave already and most guys prefer it.. i asked two, telling them it was for my advice column and heres what they said:

1. its gross when girls dont shave...you should defantely shave it...most of my frends and practically every1 that i know thinks the same

2. shave that shit

there ya go, hope i helped!

what is the hispanic spelling for a persons name (not a word used in conversation) that sounds like uh-tea
i know for sure that this is somebody's name the uh-tee that i wrote is how it sounds when i hear it. ok latin spelling and pronounciation is diffrent i want some who knows what there talking about or may who is latin and knows how it actually is spelled.its a male and hes from argentina and it sounds like uh-tee i know thats not how its spelled thats just how it sounds in english. .

It's most likely Ati. I take spanish so I know the pronounciations, and that sounds like what you're looking for.. I'd say i'm about 99% sure that's it.. but you can try asking a spanish teacher at your school for more confirmation! good luckk ♥

[so its the same story as the last one]
I like this guy named ryan,but i think he only likes me as a friend(i think).is there any techniques i can do to flirt with him so he will LIKE me LIKE me?

just talk to him! ask him about his classes, what he does after school, things you have in common, and just start by building a friendship & drop some subtle hints that you like him.. then when you get close enough, fess up and just tell him =] let him know that you like him and have for a while.. good luck!! ♥

here's some sites i found =]

http://www.links2love.com/dating_flirting2.htm

http://www.links2love.com/flirting_1.htm

http://www.links2love.com/dating_tips_flirting.htm

look around on google for some more ♥

hey i was just wondering how do you grind with a boy ? ive done it before and i move my hips and my butt against him in circles but everyone tells me im doing it wrong and im so confused lol . . please help im desperate ! thanks =)

i don't know.. i don't really do that.. google it or something.. or ask the people who say you're doing it wrong how to do it

this is seriously like soooo embarassing but i have no idea what is normal or not normal!
should i shave.. down there.. or not. you have a boyfriend what does he think or his friends? if that not too personal sorry :X im so desprete please help me!!

well most guys prefer that you shave it.. but if you get into a really long relationship, then they shouldn't care.. if the guys not a complete asshole, he won't make a big deal of it.. but if you're not going to shave it, at least trim it.. NO ONE likes a bush =] lol ♥

what my boyfriend said:

shave it.. its gross when girls dont shave. and most of my friends think the same

I'm 15/f, my boyfriend is 14/m. He's everything I could ever ask for. He's perfect in my eyes. He always knows how to make me smile, he knows exactly what to say, he can ALWAYS make me feel better if i'm having a bad day, he's seen me at my best and worst, he's wiped tears off my face, cheered me on, and has always been there for me. I love his parents, his parents like me, my parents approve of him. When I'm with him, nothing else ever matters anymore. I could stare into his eyes forever, I can't think of anything better than being with him and in his arms, and I can honestly say that I've liked him ever since the day I met him. We've been going out for 7 months. I love him to death, and I would do anything for him. Perfect, right? No. We're in a distance relationship and I can't stand it. The distance has been killing me, lately. Over the summer, we could talk everyday and hang out a lot. [He lives about 30 minutes from where I live, by the way]. When school started, the talking began to decrease to about every other day. And now, a couple times it's been a week without talking to each other. I saw him over Christmas break, but not since then. I don't know what to do. I love him so much. I don't want to have to end our relationship, because these past 7 months have been the greatest of my life. Seriously. I just need a better way to deal with this, I guess. There are soooo many more details in this, and if you want, I'll IM you.. If i remember right, your AIM sn is on your collumn. But if you have ANY advice at ALL, I would be glad to hear it. ANYTHING. But don't let it be ending the relationship, because that would hurt more. So basically, I just need some advice on like.. what I can do to help me deal with it, if I should say things about being a little doubtful about things, and idk, just basically what do you think about distance relationships? THANK U SO MUCH. --And if you want to ask me anything, just say if you want me to IM you or something.

umm wow you pretty much deffffinitely sound like me =] haha only we never drifted, which is what sounds like is happening to you & your boyfriend. my boyfriend lives 30 minutes from me & we've been going out for 7 months at the end of this month =] just like you, we were allllwayssss together during the summer. now he basically lives with me on weekends, and we hang out usually once during the week. i think you need to find more time for each other.. because it sounds like you have something really special and don't worry, i never advise breaking up =] tylor and i hang out about 4 days a week.. you barely talk to him 4 days a week? i don't know how i would do that. i call him to wake him up in the morning, and he calls me after wrestling practice. so you just need to do something to find more time for each other. you've been going out for a while, so you must really love each other.. don't let the distance affect your love hun! just make more time for each other.. alot more time. but first- you need to tell him how you feel. talk to him about it. the next time you talk to him, say "i feel like we're drifting and i really really don't want that to happen" and just tell him EXACTLY how you're feeling. don't leave out any details, because you won't feel better until you get these feelings off your chest and really let him know whats up. you should really IM me =] we could talk alot better there.. i'd be more than happy to help you baby! just IM me at ONExLOVE09 ♥ and i'lb be here to talk =]

what kind of phone is this????? (it's from the Wait A minute music video by pussy cat dolls) http://img214.imageshack.us/img214/806/waitaminuteir9.png

and is it verizon or cingular or etc.

thank you!!

umm all i know is that it's a samsung.. i saw it somewhere but i can't remember where!!.. i looked all over the internet for it, and no luck =[ but i do know that it's a samsung! good luck hun, and sorry i wasn't much of a helpp ♥

160lbs, 5'4.
i asked a question earlier about 'loosing 20lbs'. i lost 8lbs since then. w00t.
anyways, what i came here to ask was, is it possible for me to get a fourpack by the end of spring? and what excersises can i do for it?

alright well considering i'm freakin RIPPED, i'm sure i can help you out =] lol jk about the being ripped part lol, but i do have abs so i can definitely be of some assistance.

first, i would continue with whatever you're doing to lose weight, because it's obviously working. so keep on trucking with that.. and do crunches daily. by crunches i don't just mean simple situps, i mean slow, stomach burning crunches. if you don't feel the pain after doing them for a couple days, you're not doing them right.

lay down on your back and put your hands straight out in front of you [beginner], crossed over your chest [intermediate], or behind your head [which is surprisingly the hardest way]. then whichever way you situate your arms, simply come straight up. but not all the way up, just come up as far as it hurts. like when the burning on your abs is the most intense- then slowly lower back down. make sure you go down SLOWLY though. or else it will defeat the purpose. its best to do these in sets. since you're just starting, i would suggest about 60 a day: 3 sets of 20. once that gets less challenging, bump it up to 4 sets of 80, or 5 sets of 100. keep doing more and more as it gets harder, and you'll be sure to achieve that 4 pack that you want =]

also, here's a great fitness website! www.toneteen.com if you use the BMI calculator, don't worry about whatever it says- those things are extremely inacurate because they never know how much muscle someone has or the size of their bones or anythingggggggg.

good luck ♥

i really like this cute guy in my gym class. hes really quiet and shy. my friend has 2 classes with me and she says hes really quiet and doesnt have friends. i want to talk to him and make him notice me. what can i say or do without looking desperate or stupid please help.
thnx

just say anything that you would say to anyone else to get a conversation going =] comment on what he's wearing, what he carries with him, what classes he has, or if you've seen him somewhere outside of school, say "i saw you at *where ever* and i was going to say hi, but i didn't want to look dumb" or say anything at all to get him talking =] but since you said he's really quiet, don't be too loud when talking.. by loud i don't just mean volume.. i mean don't be too overbearing, obnoxious or abbrasive. be very subtle and quiet-like. make him feel comfortable talking to you by keeping a very gentle sounding voice so he's not intimidated in any way since you did say that he's quiet. i just answered 2 questions very similar to this one, so my past two answers on my advice column will probably help you out some =] just remember what i said about the voice tone thing, and good luck! ♥

ok so i see this boy in the train every morning. and he is really cute. i want to get to know him. he goes to my school but we dont have classes together. what can i say to him witout looking stupid?.

well since you see him around school, you could start off talking about that =]. say, "hey i've seen you at my school.. what grade are you in?" then you can talk about teachers or something or just anything you have in common.. ask him if he plays any sports or if you want, ask him what school he goes to- even though you already know he goes to yours.. it can get a conversation started =] lets say you see him wearing a shirt with a band on it.. you could comment about the band! or whatevers on his shirt. or, just simply say "nice shirt =]" but only if it's something special.. like if he's wearing a plain, dirty boring white t-shirt.. then you might look dumb. comment on something he's wearing or something he has with him. like lets say he carries a guitar, say "you play the guitar? that must be hard" or if he carries a basketball bag or some sport bag "ask him what sports he plays" just make some kind of comment.. say anything that you could normally say to strike up a conversation with anyone else =] & good luck!! ♥

i work at a local takeaway store. Its in a type of shopping complex and there's this guy there I really like who cleans around the area I work. He comes in a few times a day and buys food from us and stuff. He doesn't really talk much but he's really nice. What are some convisation starters while i'm at work. Just something small, just so he notices me. And i dont want it sounding too suss while all the other girls are there and if they happen to overhear me. I kinda need something by tomorrow..

thanks so much.

i would just commment on what he's doing or ordering. like if he orders something every single day, be like "whoa you must love fries.. you get them every day" or something. or if he puts alot of ketchup on something.. you could say "got enough ketchup? lol" or comment on what he's wearing.. and if it's like a janitors uniform [since you said he cleans] say "hey i like your uniform" kind of tauntingly but still sweet and funny and cute. just anything you would say to anyone to get a conversation started =] good luck ♥

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