[so its the same story as the last one]
I like this guy named ryan,but i think he only likes me as a friend(i think).is there any techniques i can do to flirt with him so he will LIKE me LIKE me?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lois answered Wednesday January 17 2007, 10:56 am: 1. you have to be yourself, boys don't like someone who is a fake or wear too much makeup, guy seen to like a girl that looks nice and makes an effort.
2. if you want to flirt with this, make eye contact, smiling, laughter, conversation, make eye contact with him when you talk, give him a little smile once in while, laugh at his jokes (make sure they are funny), If things seem to be going well - a little light physical contact can't hurt. Touch him on the arm while talking for instance. But don't get too touchy - especially at first. It can freak him out.
3. Guys don't like to have all of the pressure resting on their shoulders. Many suggested that girls should make the first move. Sometimes they are a bit clueless. Help 'em out a bit. maybe he likes you for more than a friend, but just to scared to say it first. so i suggest you ask him out to something that the guy would want to do. For example: If he's been talking about wanting to see the latest action movie - ask him if he'd like to go. But they hate scenes if they say no. If this should happen to you, play it cool. Sure it hurts - but as one guy said "Sometimes things come up and you just can't go. If I say no, but she's really cool about it, I may ask her out next time". best of luck. [ lois's advice column | Ask lois A Question ]
PunkieFreak4690 answered Monday January 15 2007, 2:43 pm: You can never get him to like you, unless you have some magical love potion. But, you can experminent with him a little bit. You could flirt with him, or play jokes with him. But yet treat him as a friend. A really good friend. If you aren't friends with him, try to get to know him and ask him out to join you with your friends or something. Ask what kind of sports he is into, and consider playing that sport with him some time. Usually guys like having something in common with a girl. Great turn-on!
You can ask him to join you at a party some time on the weekends, so you can go out and dance with him. And trying to bond with him can really produce sparks. Like if he is having a bad day, go to him and ask him what's wrong. And try to cheer him up. Guys like that a lot.
But don't try to force him into liking you. Just be yourself the whole way through and try new things with him.
bernie_gabrielle answered Monday January 15 2007, 12:18 pm: If you have boobs, wear a low cut shirt. That ALWAYS works. Start to dress...not really slutty, but a little nicer. Make yourself look pretty with makeup (not too much though. Natural looking should suffice). When flirting with him, laugh a lot and don't be afraid to touch his arm. Look him in the eyes and make sure you always look like you really enjoy being in his company. That should work. Come back to me if it doesn't. [ bernie_gabrielle's advice column | Ask bernie_gabrielle A Question ]
0NEL0VEEx answered Monday January 15 2007, 11:54 am: just talk to him! ask him about his classes, what he does after school, things you have in common, and just start by building a friendship & drop some subtle hints that you like him.. then when you get close enough, fess up and just tell him =] let him know that you like him and have for a while.. good luck!! ♥
BLONDE911 answered Monday January 15 2007, 10:12 am: first off, never be fake, no one likes people who are fake!
you can:
-smile
-laugh
-touch him while you talk to him(arm,thigh, shoulder)but not too much
-make conversation and have intresting ideas (to to connect to him or find something you have in common)
- give him attention (then again, not too much)
-bite your lip
-whisper (tell him secrets)
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