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I'm 15/f, my boyfriend is 14/m. He's everything I could ever ask for. He's perfect in my eyes. He always knows how to make me smile, he knows exactly what to say, he can ALWAYS make me feel better if i'm having a bad day, he's seen me at my best and worst, he's wiped tears off my face, cheered me on, and has always been there for me. I love his parents, his parents like me, my parents approve of him. When I'm with him, nothing else ever matters anymore. I could stare into his eyes forever, I can't think of anything better than being with him and in his arms, and I can honestly say that I've liked him ever since the day I met him. We've been going out for 7 months. I love him to death, and I would do anything for him. Perfect, right? No. We're in a distance relationship and I can't stand it. The distance has been killing me, lately. Over the summer, we could talk everyday and hang out a lot. [He lives about 30 minutes from where I live, by the way]. When school started, the talking began to decrease to about every other day. And now, a couple times it's been a week without talking to each other. I saw him over Christmas break, but not since then. I don't know what to do. I love him so much. I don't want to have to end our relationship, because these past 7 months have been the greatest of my life. Seriously. I just need a better way to deal with this, I guess. There are soooo many more details in this, and if you want, I'll IM you.. If i remember right, your AIM sn is on your collumn. But if you have ANY advice at ALL, I would be glad to hear it. ANYTHING. But don't let it be ending the relationship, because that would hurt more. So basically, I just need some advice on like.. what I can do to help me deal with it, if I should say things about being a little doubtful about things, and idk, just basically what do you think about distance relationships? THANK U SO MUCH. --And if you want to ask me anything, just say if you want me to IM you or something.
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umm wow you pretty much deffffinitely sound like me =] haha only we never drifted, which is what sounds like is happening to you & your boyfriend. my boyfriend lives 30 minutes from me & we've been going out for 7 months at the end of this month =] just like you, we were allllwayssss together during the summer. now he basically lives with me on weekends, and we hang out usually once during the week. i think you need to find more time for each other.. because it sounds like you have something really special and don't worry, i never advise breaking up =] tylor and i hang out about 4 days a week.. you barely talk to him 4 days a week? i don't know how i would do that. i call him to wake him up in the morning, and he calls me after wrestling practice. so you just need to do something to find more time for each other. you've been going out for a while, so you must really love each other.. don't let the distance affect your love hun! just make more time for each other.. alot more time. but first- you need to tell him how you feel. talk to him about it. the next time you talk to him, say "i feel like we're drifting and i really really don't want that to happen" and just tell him EXACTLY how you're feeling. don't leave out any details, because you won't feel better until you get these feelings off your chest and really let him know whats up. you should really IM me =] we could talk alot better there.. i'd be more than happy to help you baby! just IM me at ONExLOVE09 ♥ and i'lb be here to talk =]
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