Hello,
I live in Texas. I have a 16 yo son who is totally out of control. He has been to boot camp but that didn't help. He is making our family miserable and nothing we do (counseling, etc.) seems to help. We cannot find any help in our town, we are told to deal with him because he is our problem. Does anyone have experience with this?
Thank you so much!
Hey im a sixteen year old female.. okay iwas completely out of control when i was 13.. i was around drug dealers, fighting constantly,hanging round where shootings went on at, sneeking out of the house and jus mad at the world... okay well i got locked up 11 times in 3 months which thats not what changed me cause i kept gettin early releases and my mom didnt want me locked up.. well i ranaway got caught of course and had to be put in a place called the light house.. its a place for kids who runaway.. well anyways thats what made me more better and care more.. it was like a place where you basically see that your life isnt as hard as other people who live close by and that your life is all good.. i mean theres other reason why i changed to.. i really had no choice cause i got put on house arrest and had a probabtion officer.. so i couldnt really do anything with out getting locked up.. maybe this would help you out with your son.. well now im still an okay person i think i still have my moments where i do things but now i dont get caught.. but anyways i hope i helped and i hope your son gets the help he needs.. much luv dez x0x0
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hey! my dad told me that if i get a 92 or above on my report card at the end of the year, then he will get me a new cellphone. but see, i have a problem..softball has started and so that is what im worried about. and i havent been finishin my homework at home and i havent been studying. i need some tips to start buckling down. my lowest grade is a 78 and my highest is an 89(?)..can someone help me? i only have about 4 weeks left of school...
Do alot of make up work and study as much as possible.. much luv dez x0x0
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I got my first period in January. I haven't gotten it since then! I know I'm not pregnat.
What's wrong with me?
Its regular thing hun.. dont freak out about this.. your not having regular periods yet.. you wont have regular periods for a while.. much luv dez x0x0
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I like this guy.. we hardly ever talk but I still like him.. what to do?
Get his number and call him...
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ok i'm a 15 year old girl and i need some answers about 2 or 3 weeks ago me and this sophomore that goes to my school we did some "stuff" we went to like 3rd base. I went over to his house like 2 or 3 weeks ago on monday and we just made out ALOT then on tuesday was when everything else happend everything was fine before that and then on thursday i asked if he wanted to come up to school and just hang out or w/e and he was like "no thanx" and so i asked why whether it was b/c he couldnt or there was nothing to do there and he said both and that i didnt talk and i was clueless after that i obviously wanted to kno why he said that so i called him and talked to him and all he gave me were half ass answers and he was being an ass the next day at school when i was trying to text my brother and he texted me and was like "stop talking to me" so i was like wtf but i didnt care i was mad at him than and still kinda am so my question is what is his deal and did i get used?
That is a very shitty guy.. Um hun it sounds to me like this might of been a one time thing.. he apparently dont like you.. he just wanted some from you and thats it.. sorry that has happened to you.. much luv dez x0x0
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I just got converse today..my friend said not to wear them for a long period of time, till fully broken in..there hightops..does anyone know how long it would take be4 I can wear them to School? *btw were on spring break so I go back May 2nd*- thx
Well you got a little while til you go back to school so jus wear them over spring break til your completely comfortable in them and think they ar broken in.. you should be ready to wear them to school by time spring break is over.. much luv dez x0x0
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On me n this guy's first date, we went all the way to 3rd base... and thenw e went out for like a week or 2 longer and then broke up.. rumors flew around the school which caused the break up.. now he and I merely talk.. but consider each other as friends still... I think i still like him.. but I don't think he likes me... how can I change his perspective of the relationship.. and why do I still like him? Thanks ahead of time!
Well hun your a female and like almost any female when we have sex with a guy we become very attached.. And this apparently ment something to you so its going to be hard for you to get over him.. sorry to hear how your relationship ended it must really suck.. you should ask him if he still likes you and everything.. If you guys hook back up keep that relationship to your selfs because who knows what can happen you know.. like rumors gettin around again im sure you dont want that to ruin things for you.. much luv dez x0x0
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i have never baby sat for kids before but my neighbour has asked me to help. I really want to do this but the baby is only about 11 months old and i've no idea what to do with it . I'm really scared that it might have a cot death, or that i might drop it. Any tips?
Calm down hun.. its really not that big of a deal to watch any child actually you'll most likely find it fun most young teenagers do.. Okay about holding a child isnt very hard and you probably dont have to hold this baby alot anyways cause its not a newborn this baby can probably walk or crawl so its not going to wanna be held.. much luv dez x0x0
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I'm a fourteen-year old female I have a girlfriend that I really love but never see. When she talks about sex, she reminds me of my rapist so we haven't had sex yet and I don't think I want to. Every time we talk about getting together she talks about sex, but she writes me poetry and she's really loving. She's suicidal and I feel like protecting her. She hasn't come out to her parents yet and I think she feels safe with me. What should I do? She sort of creeps me out, mostly because she cares about sex so much. I'm a virgin save for my molestation when I was 7 through 8. I don't think she gets that I'm touchy about it, no pun intended (dark humor, sorry). I used to cut myself but I stopped, and she still wants me to. I told her I stopped and she asked me why not. She still does. Her mom's always on heroin and she does pot. I want and don't want to dump her at the same time. Should I break up with her?
Well this girl is apparently starving for some attention and thats why she wants it from you.. you should tell her what things you arent comfortable with so she knows.. you should continue to be with her.. much luv dez x0x0
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Hey i my girlfriend broke up with me becasue i have something like bio polar anger problems and we got in a fight and i fought back 4 once and she dumped me me and my friend thought she kinda liked me a little but i just found out she doesnt me but i really really still love her and i didnt mean to scream and theres no hope to get her back but i love her still and cant get her out of my mind
You should talk to her.. and maybe get on medicine for you bi polar problems.. tell her bout you still loving her.. much luv dez x0x0
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So my boyfriend and I started officially "going out" on wednesday. Whereas before we were just dating and such. We were never really talked on the phone before other than for him to call and make plans and to tell me he was coming to get me. So anyways I would really like to talk to him, I texted him yesterday but he hasnt called me yet. Do I just wait untill I see him again or untill he calls or do I just get over it and call him.....(thanks)
Well tryin to call him is worth a try.. you should give him a call.. i have the same problem with callin my boyfriend but i talk to him everyday cause he calls me everyday at 8 but still when he wants me to call him i have a hard time..much luv dez x0x0
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My four month old has the flu/cold and so does my two year old nephew. Any idea on what I can give them to make them feel any better.
Some child flu medicine for your two year old nephew.. for the four month baby you should see a doctor.. unless he can take some child flu medicine look at the age its for on the box or bottle..much luv dez x0x0
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Hey ya'll. Thanks for looking at my question.
I like this guy, Danny. Well, I don't really like him, but you know that crazy feeling that you get when you sort of like someone yet you sort of don't? (Confusing I know..)
Well I'm 17 and anyways, I kind of have the hotts for him and we talk alot on the AIM. I've know him for all my life, and we've just sort of gotten attracted to each other.
I think I could like him more than just attraction and fooling around.
The bad part about it is he lives in another state, and he's my best friend's brother. But I go out there frequently.
But I have no idea how to present the idea of liking each other to him. He is nineteen and of course its not that bad, I'll be of age soon.
I'm really bad with words and want to ask him if he feels anything for me and would like to have a relationship with me. In a nut shell. I don't want to freak him out, or make him think that I just sit around thinking about him all day.
Help please, thanks :)
Well you said you arent real good with words to ask him about this whole thing.. so maybe doing this in person wouldnt be a good idea.. if i was you id probably do this on AIM so it will be easier for you to say what you have too..
Well start with any other conversation.. Then maybe say something like to get his attention so you can get ready to tell him you are attracted to him more then friends and that you would like to know if he likes you more then friends but if not then your okay with it.. you was just wondering if he felt the same way.. I know this will be hard to do cause ive had to tell a close friend of mine that i liked them more then friends and that was almost ten months ago and were still together.. hope the same happens for you and please dont rate me if i didnt help.. if you need more advice drop it in my inbox id be proud to help more.. much luv dez x0x0
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are you suppose to shave "down there" before sex?
Okay it depends really if your comfortable with you having hair down there its not something you have to do...anybody who shaves down there its completely their choice.. its your choice.. alot of girls do.. some shave all of it some shave a little bit.. thats also your choice.. if you need more advice drop it in my inbox... much luv dez x0x0
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I went with this boy name slim thug (nick name) he goes to my school right and I told him last tues that our relationship was boring and that he probaly F***** around with some other gurl, so we broke up. while we was together slim and me i was real coo with my friend ex-boyfriend, they both go to my school also but my friend broke up with him like in September and said she was all coo and didn't really like him, and don't care if he go wit another female so as soon as me and my man broke up her ho a** gon go with my man so u know i was all coo cause personally I don't believe in dat friends ex-boyfriends are off limits im gon like who im gon like and so on, but when me and her ex-boyfriend got together she started trippin and I didn't even jump into a relationship wit him quick,like she did wit my man and I said nodda wheh she did. Do u think Im bogous?
Nah forget what your so called friend says.. she cant really say anything to you bout you gettin wit her ex.. much luv dez x0x0
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The inside corner of my left eye is very red and bloodshot looking. Its itchy and sometimes it hurts. There is this white colored puss that shows up on the corner of my eye and I really don't know what's wrong. I wear contacts and I change them regularly. I don't know what the problem could be. Does anyone know what is wrong with my eye? It's not pink eye because I've had that before and I know what it's like.
Its most likely allergies i get it too.. and i wear contacts too.. much luv dez x0x0
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Hi guyz, i was just wondering if it was true that if you have some kindof weird shape mole that means you have cancer, cuz thats what my friend told me and she is really afraid cuz she says she has a weird shaped mole.
Is it true?
~Steph~
No... ask a doctor........
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Well I'm an A-cup and it's really hard for my to find good, ok-priced bras..Victoria's Secret is cool but it's too expensive! But anyway, where can I buy a bra that I can wear with tank tops...don't say strapless because they'll fall right off of me! Also, don't say walmart or target..:-\ Just tell me what kind of bra I should wear! Thanks
clear strapped bras..much luv dez or get a shirt with a bra in it.. much luv dez x0x0
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My friends birthday is tomarrow and i have no idea what to get her! shes not into makeup or anything like that...shes more of a tomboy....i have no idea what to get for her...shes 15....we dont really hang out alot so i wouldnt know stuff that she likes!! could somebody please help me? thanks
Well most tombys like sports get her a card and money thats the best way to go so they can buy themselfs what they want.. much luv dez x0x0
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I am African-American/Japanese and the guys that I am normally into are white skater types. Nobody I've ever really liked has liked me back, and I've been told it's because I'm too shy. Is it really because I'm too shy or is it because of race? Do guys really think about race?
Okay i can understand where your coming from with this.. ummmm depends on the guy..some go for personality and noot look for wats on the outside but then theres those asshole of guys who dont like another race.. which i know more white guys then anyother race that will not go out of there race.. i mean it could be cause your shy but im real shy sometimes and dont have big major problems getttin a boyfriend.. and i wouldnt think its cause your looks either cause african american and japanese is a pretty mix of race i think.. i hope i havent like made you feel disappointed or anything cause thats not at all what im tryin to do im just bein real with what i know.. but you'll eventually find a guy your interested in and it could be a white skater boy my opinion could be wrong.. so dont get down or anything after you read this please.. hope i helped much luv dez x0x0
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