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13/f

I have two friends and they are really cool and everything but my friend (lets call her C) has been getting annoyed with (lets call her J) because C tells me that J always is talking about her problems and everything and thinks that the world evolves around her. So C told J about it but in a more nicer way than it seemed and obviously J got upset. J is mad at C now and J is talking about C also. So they both are my friends and they want me to take their sides. I just want them to be friends again and me and the rest of my friends won't have to deal with this anymore. (link)
if i were you, i would just stay out of the whole situation. You like them both, right? then why should you have to pick? let them know that you like the both of them...and that you cant pick sides. this is their battle, things will play out. Just make sure you're not stuck alone with either "C" or "J" while they are mad, and are talking about one another behind each others back. for example...you are alone with "C" or "J"
and they are just gossiping constantly non stop. The best thing to do in this situation is to A bring up a different topic or B just listen...no talk.
GoOd LuCk!!!


ok i was with this guy dylan and cody and becca and then zac had to come too
dylan put his arm around me and it was cute and we held hands and then he pullled me into the guys bath room and we got kicked out of the mall so we went out side and it was so cold! so he sat on a bentch and hes like rachel coem here i have to tell you somethin so i walk over to dylan adn he pulls me down on his lap i dint really care so now we are all waiting for beccas mom to poick us up and when she gets there he started text n zac and wouldnt let me see so i didnt care but whne i tryed to give him a hug good bye he blew me off kinda so i was like ok but then i relized his dad was in the drive way so i understood why ok soo all that night me adn becca were talkin about dylan and shes like hang out i got a texted from zac and im liek okkkk and he was liek me andvgirl friend just broke up!and im liek aww so

saturday we wake up at like 10 and codys like you guys need to ccome over so we did and thhen zac was there too!and im like hi hi and i huged him and then so we watched a movie and i like feel asleep on zac and he strated kissing me so i woke up and kissed him back!and then he like pulled me on top of him and we started makeing out and it was amaizng!like it was so wow! and then he got a text from dylan asking him what he was up too and he was like um with rachel and becca and cody and dylan was like can i come over i want to see rachel and zacs like no so me and zac strated makeing out again!and it was better then befor too and then he put a blanket over us and he kinda liek felt me up!!!!!!!! and yeah he gave me my first hickey!!!!!!

ok sunday hmm no call from ither guys!and i think i was a rebond for zac but when i left he was like rachel i will call you later to night!but he didnt!ahhh!what does that mean??? (link)
okay...i think i might understand...he pretty much told you he would call you back, but he never did?
if thats the case, then maybe you should text or get together with him. Find out from Cody what the situation is. Make plans.
GoOd LuCk!!! i hope everything works out!!!


13/f

My brother is 10 years old and he bugs me so much! I know everybody has to deal with this but I want it at least a little easier. Well he only comes in and starts talking to me about something random when I'm on the phone. Then when my friends come over he wants to hang out with us. But when I'm not doing anything like that he just would leave me alone. Except for when I am on the computer and he tries to take it from me. I don't bother him or do anything when he is hanging out with his friends but I don't know how to deal with this. (link)
okay, he will always be a little enoying, but there is stuff to do about it:
i suggest that you spend some time alone with him, just you and him, maybe doing something he likes to do. Dont get into a fight with him if he starts acting immature, simply tell him that he needs act "less silly." this will bring you guys closer together.
Try to talk to him in a more mature, calm, tone and manner. When he is bothering you with or without you friends over, just act like nothing is bothering you, and talk to him calmly. Say "(name) i will play with you a little later when (name) is gone, okay? I promise. please let us have some time alone now."
GoOd LuCk!!!


does anyone know any AT&T phones with a keyboard. besides a blackberry? xoxo thanks (link)
i found some websites:

http://www.wireless.att.com/cell-phone-service/cell-phones/index.jsp?WT.srch=1


http://images.google.com/images?svnum=10&um=1&hl=en&q=cingular+keyboard+phone

GoOd LuCk!!!


When you send a text message..... does any of the accually text message show up on the bill??

Im on cingular by the way


what shows up on the bill.. the number .. the time.. and what else... (link)
I have AT&T too...(the new cingular)
none of the text actually shows up, only the time and date, and how many you sent.
hOpE i HeLpEd!!!


http://bux.to/?r=ishwf

is it for real? has anyone tried it? would you reccomend it? thanks (link)
these things are always scams, they will probably give you the money, but you also have to give them money and your CREDIT CARD number...thats like handing out your credit card to a stranger. not good

HoPe I hElPeD!!!


would this mean he likes mee..

*whenever we are done textingg eachother he always writes nite honey xox err nite sweetie pie xoxo

*he even called me sweetie on the phone infrount of his friend, [this one kid that likes me]

*when were on the phone, [alone] he gigles/silently laughs alot

*heesss sooo cute ! [opps, that not a clue lol]

(link)
it sounds as though you like him and he likes you. Maybe he is too shy to say something. Take control, tell him you like him.
GoOd LuCk!!!


I want to make sure that this is right because it's my first year of highschool and this is a big mark of it, 15% actually. I only listed part of the bibliography. Is the format right? Is the spacing between each entry correct? (double spaced). Any other advice for this or for future references? Thank you so much!

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“Great Canadian Parks / Alberta.” Great Canadian Parks. Ontario: Digital Wizards, 2007.

. 17 January 2008

“Jasper National Park.” Wikipedia. 10 January 2008.

. 16 January 2008

“Willmore Wilderness Park” Explore Jasper.

. 16 January 2008

“Mountain Ecosystems.” Jasper National Parks of Canada. 06 January 2004. Parks Canada.

. 16 January 2008

Anna. “Athabasca Falls, Jasper National Park, Alberta, Canada.” Picasa. 09 April 2007.

.

15 January 2008

Anderson, Howard. “Alaska Trip 2007.” Astroshow. 28 June 2007.

. 15 January 2008

“Image: Canadian National Parks Location.png.” Wikipedia. 6 April 2006.

. 16

January 2007
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yea, its right...i have to do a bunch for english class...the only thing is, i dont know if you have to tab the second line. maybe its just something my teacher makes us do. overall its really good!


I made out with another guy at a party where the guy that I was "talking" to was. We were in a fight, i was drinking and I made a huge mistake. So, I need help on how to get him back? Best from someone who's been cheated on and took the person back. Like, what worked. It happened friday night. He won't take my calls, or texts, or facebook messages, or the voicemails i leave. I want to do something that shows him how much I care (the deal was that night, I didn't know he liked me that much). Do i just need to give him time? HELP! I like him way more then I had originally planned, and I can't imagine the rest of my semester without him. Oh, and i'm a freshman in college if that helps. he lives in his frat house, and I am in a dorm. He is also a freshman.. thank you! (link)
this is a tough one, you might want to lay off a little, dont be completely clingy. Simply let him know how much he means to you, and that everyone deserves a second chance. Then just wait. Hopefully he will come back to you. maybe send him flowers or something to say you are sorry. tell him that if he really cares about you like he says, then he would at LEAST call you back.
GoOd LuCk!!!


ok so there is this guy who is my best friend!! and i am starting to like him a lot!! and my best friend mandy likes him 2 and now they are going out,and she knew i liked him. and now my best friend(who is the guy i like) is being really mean to me and it feels that i lost my best friend who i tell everything to! and to add on more lost the guy i like. i just dont know what to do should i tell the guy should i jsut see how long it last???
plz help!
should i tell mandy that i like (link)
i hate when people do that! What you need to do, is (for one) not tell anyone who you like anymore...thats not critisism, but you just dont know if it was a coincidence or if she stole him on purpose. I know it sucks, but go back and think about if you really liked him, and just think of why your bff took him from you...because she was jealous and envies you maybe? If you really like him, give it some time, and dont let them get in your way, but dont make drama about it.
GoOd LuCk!!!


Ok this will sound weird just a warning for you anwyay my mom's friend had this psychic party thing basically she had this psychic do a half hour reading for everyong now i didnt go but my mom said that the psychic said that i'm a leader but i'm leading people down the wrong path and for some reason thats bugging me now this chick said alot of true stuff like the fact that my dad isnt living with us cause my parents are getting a divorce and alot of other stuff that was true anyway it's been buggin me a little cause you know i dont want to lead anyone down te worng path or anything but yeah does anyone know what that might mean i mean i'm normaly not all into this stuff but for some reason it's bugging me so i thought i'd ask about it (link)
It might be true and it might not, i wouldnt worry about it too much, because when you are too concious about it, then you will probably start. Maybe she was joking because you werent at the party? You have friends, a family, and what seems to be like a wonderful life. If you are really hung up on it all, then you could ask your friends to be honest, if you are being a little strange or misleading. ANd start thinking about your actions more.
GoOd LuCk!!!
ps
you could also always go to another psychic to see what they have to say...if its the same


i been crushing on my best friend nearly 8 years. i told her how i felt but doesnt feel the same way.
i still have feelings for her!
how long did you have feelings for someone or/and friend? are over them yet? and how can you get over a best friend?

dont say look for new friends because thats BS! she is my friend i dont want to break the friendship over this. (link)
I know it might be hard right now, but it will get better. It could work out, you just have to stay confident, and still keep in touch with her, and talk to her. Take it slow, dont rush into things, show her that you can be a good (bf or gf) Maybe this is all a really big shock to her, and she doesnt know what to think. It might feel akward, but try to start being more of a person that is ready for a relationship around her. All you can do is stay strong, give it time, and be there for her.
GoOd LuCk!!!


is it possible to have your eyesight get better.

and im not talking about lazer eye surgery (link)
i think i have some solutions:
i heard you can eat different foods to help it~fish, protein, and vitamins and minerals

you can get contacts

you can get glasses

http://self-healing.org/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=32&Itemid=79

GoOd LuCk!!!


Does anyone know what stores or websites I can order ugg boots? I know most are sold out, but if not anybody know somewhere i can order emu boots? (link)
okayyy.
Stores:
Journeys
Macys
lord and taylors
dsw

Websites:
http://www.uggaustralia.com/

http://www.zappos.com/n/br?brand_id=288&

http://www.uggaustralia.com/WomenLandingPage.aspx?gID=w

http://www.fleecefootwear.com/

GoOd LuCk!!!



Is it normal for a guyfriend to call you baby?
err at nite when you text he text you nite sweety/sweetiepie/honey xoxox ? even call you out sweety on the phone?

is that normal or does he possibly LIKE me, more then a friend?
(link)
i have 2 guy friends that call me that, but they do only like me as a friend. were like beeesstt friends and theyre kinda flirty.
and im talking to this one other kid, and he calls me that all the time, and says good night beautiful and stuff like that before he goes to bed so yeahh.
just think of it is he a flirt or could he possibly like you
id say he most likely likes you more then just a friend


cannot get over his breakout with his frist girlfriend. let me tell you they broke up at the begining of october
i dotn no what to do... (link)
You should comfort him and be the shoulder he can lean on and use for support.
Maybe you should even try introducing him to other girls, more suitable for him so he can get ove rhis past.
Good luck with him :]


Is it normal for a guyfriend to call you baby?
err at nite when you text he text you nite sweety/sweetiepie/honey xoxox ? even call you out sweety on the phone?

is that normal or does he possibly LIKE me, more then a friend?
(link)
Uhm it is HIGHLY POSSIBLE and probably that he likes you more than a friend, I'm 99.9% sure he like's you more than a friend.
:] Have funn


what are the best exersizes to do for lower abs?and quick (link)
Crunches. A variety of different crunches...
-Regular
-Criss Cross [opposite elbow to oppisite knee and rotate]
-air bike [cris cross and outstretch your legs each time you criscross for each leg but only one leg at a time]

Situps.
-Regular [make someone hold your feet down, or put your feet under your couch or stair case.]

Good luckk


I really want to find some poems and quotes about social anxiety disorder.I've tried searching google and i can't seem to find any good ones.I found one website that had a few, but most of them were just about anxiety in general. So, does anyone know where i can find some good poems and quotes about social anxiety disorder? Thanks. (link)
Here are some...

http://www.social-anxiety-network.com/garden.html#1
OR
http://www.social-anxiety-network.com/opinions.html
OR
Nerves and butterflies are fine - they're a physical sign that you're mentally ready and eager. You have to get the butterflies to fly in formation, that's the trick.~Steve Bull
OR
Nobody realizes that some people expend tremendous energy merely to be normal.~Albert Camus
^^My personal Fave
OR
Today is the tomorrow we worried about yesterday. ~Author Unknown
OR
Once you become self-conscious, there is no end to it; once you start to doubt, there is no room for anything else. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Neurotic's Notebook, 1960
OR
We probably wouldn't worry about what people think of us if we could know how seldom they do. ~Olin Miller
OR
Sometimes even to live is an act of courage. ~Lucius Annaeus Seneca, Letters to Lucilius

I got those quotes from...
http://www.quotegarden.com/social-anxiety.html

Enjoy and hope I helped and I have friends with that disorder...have a good night.


my thighs are alright...but i want to get rid of the fat on the upper, inner thigh, and i want to get the bump in the front a little reduced..ive tried pilates, and i know it says that it makes your body lean, but lots of adults i know that do pilates their thighs are always really muscular, i dont want really muscular...so excercises please for inner and front of thighs!
thanks so much:) (link)
I agree with masterclinic, running definatley helps, and you should also try doing some lunges each day. It is supposed to reduce the fat in your inner thighs.
-front lunges
-side lunges
Also rollerbladin and bicycling help with the inner thighs a lot.
Good luckk




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