Question Posted Saturday January 19 2008, 11:30 pm
ok so there is this guy who is my best friend!! and i am starting to like him a lot!! and my best friend mandy likes him 2 and now they are going out,and she knew i liked him. and now my best friend(who is the guy i like) is being really mean to me and it feels that i lost my best friend who i tell everything to! and to add on more lost the guy i like. i just dont know what to do should i tell the guy should i jsut see how long it last???
plz help!
should i tell mandy that i like
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? orphans answered Sunday January 20 2008, 12:37 pm: i hate when people do that! What you need to do, is (for one) not tell anyone who you like anymore...thats not critisism, but you just dont know if it was a coincidence or if she stole him on purpose. I know it sucks, but go back and think about if you really liked him, and just think of why your bff took him from you...because she was jealous and envies you maybe? If you really like him, give it some time, and dont let them get in your way, but dont make drama about it.
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Teza answered Sunday January 20 2008, 2:05 am: Be honest with your guy best friend and tell him that how he's been treating you is hurting your feelings. It's not fair that he woould act that way towards you just because he has a new girlfriend. I'm sure Mandy knew that you liked him but you can't be mad at her for going out with him because she also likes him. Talk to him about it and see what he says. You could also tell Mandy that you still like him but I don't know if that will change things between them because they like each other. Good luck and I hope everything works out! [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
spartacheer answered Sunday January 20 2008, 1:21 am: ouch! i understand. something like that as happened to me before. and i know how much it really does hurt. what i wold do is see what mandy says and see how long the relationship lasts. if its over 2 wks - a month (or you just cant take it anymore) talk to you guy friend. just be like "yeah. how are you and mandy?.... yeah its kindof awkward. i feel like a 3rd wheel..... why have you been acting weird lately?.... dont let your relationship with mandy effect our friendship because i dont want to lose that." just say how you feel and maybe it will help out the situation. hope this helps! good luck!! :DD [ spartacheer's advice column | Ask spartacheer A Question ]
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