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Getting him back
I made out with another guy at a party where the guy that I was "talking" to was. We were in a fight, i was drinking and I made a huge mistake. So, I need help on how to get him back? Best from someone who's been cheated on and took the person back. Like, what worked. It happened friday night. He won't take my calls, or texts, or facebook messages, or the voicemails i leave. I want to do something that shows him how much I care (the deal was that night, I didn't know he liked me that much). Do i just need to give him time? HELP! I like him way more then I had originally planned, and I can't imagine the rest of my semester without him. Oh, and i'm a freshman in college if that helps. he lives in his frat house, and I am in a dorm. He is also a freshman.. thank you!
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this is a tough one, you might want to lay off a little, dont be completely clingy. Simply let him know how much he means to you, and that everyone deserves a second chance. Then just wait. Hopefully he will come back to you. maybe send him flowers or something to say you are sorry. tell him that if he really cares about you like he says, then he would at LEAST call you back.
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Defintely don't keep trying to get a hold of him. You're putting him in the spot where he has all the power and can chose to ignore you. If you're giving him time to cool off, then he might start to consider talking to you and since you were only talking, he might be more easy to forgive you.
And when you do talk again apologize admit your mistake, and tell him that the other fella didn't mean as much as you do to him,or whatever.
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Just give him time to get his head together.
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I know that this may not be the answer you were looking for, but the best advice that I can give you is to give him time. He may just need his space right now because he is hurt. If you just give him some room, in a few days, go and talk to him. Admit that you were wrong, you want to try and work it out, and that you will never cheat again. Of course, if you make this promise, you must stick to it. No more drunken nights of cheating. Good Luck!!
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