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who was your first?(crush)?
i been crushing on my best friend nearly 8 years. i told her how i felt but doesnt feel the same way.
i still have feelings for her!
how long did you have feelings for someone or/and friend? are over them yet? and how can you get over a best friend?
dont say look for new friends because thats BS! she is my friend i dont want to break the friendship over this.
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I had feelings for one of my really close guy friends since February 2007, and i just got over him around Christmas time. i finally realized that nothing was going to happen and that we're too good of friends to take things further. and, i started developing feelings for someone else.
so my advice to you is to try and find someone new, preferably not one of your close friends, because about 85% of the time, best friends dont want to take things to the next level. good luck & hope i helped! :)
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I know it might be hard right now, but it will get better. It could work out, you just have to stay confident, and still keep in touch with her, and talk to her. Take it slow, dont rush into things, show her that you can be a good (bf or gf) Maybe this is all a really big shock to her, and she doesnt know what to think. It might feel akward, but try to start being more of a person that is ready for a relationship around her. All you can do is stay strong, give it time, and be there for her.
GoOd LuCk!!!
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haha, man, you better check from about 4 or 5 years ago and make sure i didnt ask this exact same question. My point is that I was in this same position litterally a few years ago. I would go into telling my life story on what happened, however it didnt turn out great. What i did was i tried hard and stuff and pretty much made her fall in love with me, and then we went out for about a year, but toward the end of it i started seeing things that she did that was really, really bitchy, so we had a mutual break up. and to be honest, now i think she is extremely annoying. My advice to you is do not let your love blind your sight. make sure you have a wide array of things you can judge on, to get the real idea. another idea for you is have another friend tag along on some things with this girl, and ask him later if he saw anything, to be honest in my situation if i woulda listened to my friend earlier i would have been a pimp then instead of tied down to her. so just keep that in mind. GOOD LUCK!!!
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I've been in love with a guy for two years. And I mean passionately in love. He didn't like me in that way back. And, I got over him. I just realized that he will never like me in that way, and I kept telling myself that, and finally I convinced myself. Sure, sometimes when I'm with him I'll have feeling for him, but they don't last for more than a few days. But we are still very good friends.
What helped a lot was when I made a list of the things he did that I disliked. For example how he treated someone in a certain situation, how he acted around certain people, annoying habits, small stuff and big stuff. And I would read that list and to that list as much as I could. And it helped. You just really try to see them in a more negative light. I finally convinced myself that HE wasn't perfect, and he wasn't perfect for ME either.
Also, if you embarrass yourself in front of them, that helps tremendously. It just kind of makes you loath that person for seeing you at your worst.
~Maria, 16
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no its cool. ive been crushing on the same ugy on and off since i was little.. lets say about 10 years... ive known him forever and our familys are close so its kindof weird. hear recently he got a g/f and i was kindof bummed. but all i had to do was focus on another guy. ive noticed whenever you like someone it seems like youll never stop but once you get over it you realize that you made a huge mistake and its not the end of the world. im sorry that she didnt feel the same but give her some time and let things unfold. things happen for a reason and if it doesnt work out just think that theyres got to be something better waiting in the future. hope this helps! good luck!! :DD
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