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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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If someone fingers you are you still a virgin?

*Sigh*

Yes.

What are some good ideas for an article for a school newspaper?

I'm taking Journalism this year, so I can help.

You can cover:

- Homecoming Game/Dance.
- Sports.
- Music Reviews.
- Movie Reviews.
- Healthy Eating Tips.
- School Lunch.
- A Club/Charity.
- Carwash.
- New Staff. [Maybe do an interview].

Stuff like that.

Who died in the drive by shooting in the series South of Nowhere? I can't figure it out/...I missed the series premiere, and I can't figure it out..thank you.

Aiden was shot in the chest [I believe it pierced his heart], but he survived. Clay ended up dying.

is there anyway to see who has viewed your myspace? i know that there is a counter thing but is there somehting that tells you who? thanks!

Nope.

so, me and this girl used to be friends, but now we hate eachother. like really badly. And she always fights with me (even now) about the stupidest shit. Well, today, she talked shit behind my back.......and she thought I was doing something similar, but I wasn't.

My question is : what's the best thing to do? Confront or just ignore and leave them alone no matter how upset you are?

If she's speading lies, confront her. Then let people know the truth.

If it's nothing huge, ignore her. She'll get bored of talking to you with no response.

13/f

do girls still have sex even if they have their period?

As disgusting as it is, yes.

is there tracker on myspace to see whos looked at your profile?? i rate high

No.

this is probably a real dumb ? but does sprint have SIM cards?
i would like to switch my sprint card to the iPhone... thats not at all possible is it?

No, Sprint doesn't have SIM Cards. The IPhone is very expensive, and is only available on AT&T which is formerly Cingular. If you believe you can afford $3000 on just texting alone [which doesn't include phone calls, IM, internet], then go ahead & buy the phone.

But, there is one person who managed to get the IPhone onto T-Mobile. However, he goes to a college in my city & only got it to do that because he found out how to unlock his phone & transfer the service. Unless you're very smart & cell phone savy, I don't suggest this.

ok so today me and my boyfriend had sex and we didnt have proctection but we cant get it because none of our friends know and we arent going to go and buy them ourselves so he just takes it out before he feels like he is going to finnish, well today he said he didnt feel it until 10 seconds before he finnished and he pulled out and about 8 second after he finnished. i freaked out of course but he said he could feel when he pre cums so i dont know if i should believe him or what. ALso, what are the first signs of being pregnant ?

First off, having unprotected sex is never a good idea.

Second, neither is pulling out.

I suggest you buy a pregnancy test if you miss your period, and then slap yourself & your boyfriend in the face for even thinking that pulling out & unprotected sex was ever okay.

I had my frist blackout from drinking this past weekend. What does this really suggest?

Lately, I can't ear right, sleep right, I can't concentrate in school, and I don't know. I've changed in a lazy sense of way..
Everyone was telling me about what happened...and I just don't remember it for the life of me. What's happening to me? I've NEVER blacked out before.

Uh, you drank too much & blacked out because of it. Next time you drink, don't drink so much because you could become an alcoholic & drinking is dangerous when you're underaged. It's dangerous at any age, really.

i lost my virginity a couple of days ago, and the lad i did it with didnt use a condom, im worried i might be pregnant but i cant wait till i miss a period because i miss my periods alot, what are the other signs of pregancy?

Oh my! Sex without a condom; how intelligent of you! Please wear protection next time if you don't want children.

If you don't see your period anytime soon, I suggest you buy a pregnancy test.

hi im a 13 year old girl whos a size 14 and even sometimes a 16 in some shops. Im 5foot 7inches tall am i fat ? my friends say coz im tall its ok but i still feel fat? Also would somebody my sizy look silly in above the knee skirts and what would you say is the average/best size for a girl my age .
if you think i am fat dont say im not to make me feel good as loooaaaaddddsss of people seem to do
x

Telling us your size in jeans/skirts won't help us since we can't play guessing games with your weight. If you told us your weight, we could probably help you better.

Since you know your weight & height, go to a health site & calculate your BMI. You can find a BMI calcalator basically anywhere.

It'll tell you if you're overweight or not & what to do about it.

We have to present a song or any song as long as the lyrics have gospel or catholic lyrics included.

I'm having a hell of a problem finding a good song, and even one song!

It's for a project, please help!

I know of two good songs, and they're by the same band. Song on the left, band on the right.

Amazing, Because It Is - The Almost.
Dirty & Left Out - The Almost.

If I were to go to guidance and tell them I cut and wanted help what would they do other than call my mom.

Who else would they call and what would happen. Its not gashes but its getting worse.

If you don't want them to tell your parents, then by law they're not supposed to unless they know you're in danger of seriously hurting yourself.

Seeing a counselor & telling them that you're hurting yourself & want help is a good idea. They'll suggest ideas/techniques for you to stop, and they'll talk with you about why you're doing this to yourself. Talking really helps, so I suggest you see them at least twice a week.

whats that?

A person that doesn't know how to graduate on time. In which case, they stay in 12th grade [or their 4th year of college] for about 8 billion years.

im 13
i feel like im in a rush to have sex
idk im always horny?
and i just wanna do it HAHA
should i do it yet?
is it too early?
am i weird? :|
and how am i supposted to do it when im pretty sure no one else my age is ready nor wants to.. and i dont have a boyfriend right now.
i've never even had a boyfriend before.. :(
i think guys my age are extremely immature
i've always wanted an older guy haha
and im pretty sure im ready too
i know all the risks and how to be protected and all..
what to do?

You might want to consider putting a padlock on your vagina for about 4-5 years. 13 is a little young to be having sex.

hello :) i was just wondering if there are any good working music downloaders that don't cost.. i know that limewire is free but isnt it true that if you dont pay for the songs that you can get a huge fine in the mail? i need some advice !! thanks :)

No. If they were to fine you, they'd also have to fine about a trillion [that's an exaggeration, there's not even a trillion people on this planet] other people as well. And that'd take forever.

So honestly, just use whatever download program you want. I use Limewire, and I like it. I'd also like to include that I'm very much bill/fine free.

15/f

Ok well basically I want to know what some signs of teen depression are. Because I don't hang out or even talk to my friends anymore. I feel I'm being ignored at home. I go for walks everyday alone to kinda clear my head but it doesn't work that well. I haven't eaten much this week. & In the past 120 hours, I've only slept for about 6 hours. And I'm really upset and hurt and like empty all the time. So could I be going through some kind of depression?

I'm going to give Google. Click the search button, find a website that comes up & sounds interesting. If you have 5 or more of those symptoms over a 2 week period or longer, you may have depression, so please see a doctor. Depression is linked with many other problems as well, so please get yourself thoroughly examined.

Why do young girls come on here to ask about sex when they can't even spell right? I find this to be a very sad look at young girls in american society today. Do you agree?

Because they're uneducated & need to learn it somewhere. The only thing we can do here is give them suggestions & hope they hear us out. However, I agree with sizzlinmandolin. Guys are also involved in this, so don't blame just females.

The world has changed. Time to adjust & get over it.

I need something to help a stinky feet problem i developed this year. I accidently got my shoes wet, then it smelled, I was busy and had no time to take it off and when i did my feet stunk really bad, my feet and shoes just always stink now.

Any tips?

What can i use to wash my shoes with to get rid of that smell?

Many poeple got that problem and i was so glad i wasn't one of them but now..=/ its too embarrassing to take off ym shoes anywhere at all, even for one minute!

Go to a store like Athlete's Foot & let them know your problem. They probably have something that can help this. If they don't, I would try to put baby powder in your shoes & if it doesn't help, then buy new shoes because those sound pretty ass.

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